Tum meri biwi ho aur vinu ki mumma - Page 37

That’s the exact thing

in real life a Virat Sai marriage can never survive .. there is too much volatility.. passion love but zero trust or communication., it’s a recipe for disaster plus they are unlucky for each other ..

Plus Virat hardly cares for Sai during her pain period .. Sai has been a lot more relaxed without him in her life .. if she had told Savi some truth about her father .. life would have been a lot better for both of them

It mostly ends in divorce .. with one or both settling later with a tamer duller partner

Originally posted by: sadiltl

In the leap promo, Virat is in the uniform signifying duty. Pakhi is without mangalsutra 🤞 And Sai longing.

You know, i feel initially they showed like that. later when trp was good for first 2 weeks, maybe they got them married.

Initially maybe they were not planning marriage.

Virat needs marriage counseling sessions as a husband and as a parent.

Ninad was also behaving like that. But Ashwini adjusted and sat at home like a servant.

But Sai s strong and will not agree after a point.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

In the leap promo, Virat is in the uniform signifying duty. Pakhi is without mangalsutra 🤞 And Sai longing.

Wahi naa..the only constant of Rono intact....duty

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Honestly the only way to watch this show is....

I will tell a story..

Me: Sai separated & hid from Virat because she had no other choice

Audience: Why happened with Sai?

Me: I don't know exactly..I only know she was hurt too much

Me: Virat & Sai had a massive fight, Sai left him, got into an accident and was presumed dead by Virat

Audience: What was the fight & separation about?

Me: Aaah..I feel like I am going to faint....get me water..I will definitely tell you some other time

Me: Pakhi made some mistakes in the past...but has now reformed

Audience: What exactly did Pakhi do?

Me: I was diagnosed with slight amnesia...so I don't remember that part

Me: Sai & Virat love each other; Pakhi loves Virat. With Virakhi marriage, their lives have become very complicated. 😭

Audience: Awwww....😭😭

And that's how I will sell the current story to gullible audience 😎

Ghum hai sab confusion mei🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Nirip

Sadly virat failed as a husband n father during sai's first pregnancy only. After miscarriage he didn't even think what Sai must be going through. If he had been strong enough miscarriage would not have happened only. Post that he distanced himself...made didi surrogate 😡 where is Sai as a mother here. Did he repent?? No. Sai agreed finally. It's her fault also that she became a accomplice to that illegal surrogacy. Again virat failed her...snatched vinu n made her to leave CN. Till now, haven't heard a single line from him that his decision of bailing out pakhi was wrong..so I don't expect anything.

But sai loves him naa. ..to mai kia kar sakti hu ya koi bhi kiaa kar sakta hai. Watch him as a part of her story.

Wo nhi to koi ek bhi CN animal kehde k virat ussdin galat thha...usse p ko chose nhi karna thha..will be enough

Areeey nahi yaar, I am not saying anything to u. I know we are audience and we've nothing in our hands. Agar hota toh Virat would've not been like this and in first place pakhi hi nhi hoti.

I am just ranting today , so plz don't mind my words.🤗

Originally posted by: msin

That’s the exact thing

in real life a Virat Sai marriage can never survive .. there is too much volatility.. passion love but zero trust or communication., it’s a recipe for disaster plus they are unlucky for each other ..

Plus Virat hardly cares for Sai during her pain period .. Sai has been a lot more relaxed without him in her life .. if she had told Savi some truth about her father .. life would have been a lot better for both of them

It mostly ends in divorce .. with one or both settling later with a tamer duller partner

True , a relationship requires communication b/w the partners involved. But yahan toh wahi gayab hai. Lack of communication always makes the matter worst.

Originally posted by: Pakhisingh

Areeey nahi yaar, I am not saying anything to u. I know we are audience and we've nothing in our hands. Agar hota toh Virat would've not like this and in first place pakhi hi nhi hoti.

I am just ranting today , so plz don't mind my words.🤗

It's ok dear..wo to aise ki type kardia. Nothing serious😊 you can rant as much as you can...most welcome 👍🏼

It happens...when news of surrogacy came same happened with me..abhi phirse me type kia maine🤣🤣 virat k jaise I, me n myself jyada hi ho raha aaj

Take care 😆

SOMETHING IMPORTANT, I'D LIKE TO ADD.

VIRAT SAID - TUM HI MERI BIWI HO.

But abhi tak, he wasn't acknowledging this. He kept taking his marriage with pakhi very lightly. As if it doesn't exist but TODAY, finally he accepted his marriage with pakhi. And, now he will realise the mess he is in.

Cause he has realised, acknowledged and expressed to her that she's his wife.

Till now, he was not paying his attention on his marriage with Pakhi and was showing all the wifey rights on sai.

We all were bothered as to why virat isn't bothered about his marriage with pakhi? Why isn't he saying anything? Why's he so casual?

This!!! Now, he has acknowledged this finally. He has finally acknowledged the wedding and is in a deep mess. And, he has to realise that. And, for that realisation, acknowledgement is needed.

And, we got the acknowledgement today.

NOW, HE'LL REMEMBER.

He'll remember his marriage with pakhi and that'll tie him. Till now, he wasn't mentally focused on that marriage and was behaving as if he's single. But, today after saying it out loud to pakhi and by realising this in his mind. He'll develop and understand that MINDSET.

Now, he'll be reminded of the marriage again and again.

And, will also realise the mess he is in and how deep it actually is.

It's also to raise pakhi's hopes but main point was acknowledgement.

See even if P was part of the triangle since day one, it is these two who have created and enabled the mess.

This may not suit well for many... so hear me out.

As I said in review, everything has gone back to initial days.

V considers Sai to be his, has all the haqs but not answerable to her. Never clears stuff and considers her immature. I know many don't see his 'passion' (and yes I am using this word only)... but what he has for Sai, he never had for P... even though they were supposedly in love. Only Sai evokes extreme reactions in him, with P he is soft...

the difference is also clear in how he treats his other family members... in aloof mode, with kid gloves. With Sai he does extreme. Whatever is his reasoning, this trait is consistent and yes it is abusive many times. No questions about that.

P is the epitome of maturity for him. She has that demeanor that gives him listening ear. She is always ready to hear him out. Its a good thing as a friend, but she operates on it with her nastier motives, uses that info to drive wedges between Sai and V. Even today, this was same. V was talking everything to her which he should have to Sai. But they never communicate.

Sai on the other hand, has fallen back in to the spiral. even pre confession, there were repeated signs from V and multiple people told her that he has feelings for her. She saw them too but ignored them. Jabardasti ka adamant aur naive banaya usko. And this is where what V says ki tum sirf mujhe nahi samajhti stands true. The same Sai is back to the zimmedari mode today. How???? Agreed that he betrayed her but how can she forget all that happened in between? Why push her down the rabbit hole again? It shows her stupidity and it is sort of self blaming. She is in a way blaming herself that she didn't matter to him all these years and that seems like a bigger hurt.

The problem in this is miscommunication and non communication. Here's where UM scores today. Sai is worried, I get it... but V also needs to know... and more than V it is Saavi who has to know. This is unfair to the child. They need to talk. Not because V is doutbing her and she needs to give explanation but for Saavi. Let him decide what he wants to do. But also make clear that she wont be separated from Saavi. I guess if they talk sensibly, V will understand, knowing he is already married and he had deserted Sai. Also, Sai will go to extreme when tested, so logically he should fear being away from Saavi if he pushes her buttons.

V has never cleared to Sai, that the vaada given to P has stopped mattering long back. If he had, Sai would have had that assurance. She didn't and hence she doesn't trust him. he goes into another downfall knowing this.

So whether P is in the story is inconsequential if these two do not overcome this, now more than ever.

I liked the pre leap fight especially for this... a lot of bad blood came out. In that fight, it was these two who were fighting, P hardly mattered. But if they haven't learned their lesson, I don't know what will.

I so want a conversation between them now... maybe in parts... but it has to happen... otherwise like Msin said, even if P dies, some other character might come and these two will keep separating and meeting but not breaking completely. They cant...

I dont want this to be at mercy of P though, she can be a trigger thats fine.

It was she who was separating them, if she reunites them, it would mean she has truly changed. 👍🏼

Yep I noticed that too..when Sai said apki patni hai apka khyal rakhne k liye...reality struck him.