Could you please colour your responses differently? Hard for me to find where my response begins and yours ends 😆 Better yet, please write it outside the quote, so that I can refer to it while responding.
It may be a drama, but I can expect it to be more intelligently written 🤷♀️ They are already trying to write the characters and situations with slightly more maturity than other ITV shows. So, I would really like to see Ginni understanding that she shouldn’t rub salt on Adi’s wounds through her interventions.
We should know when to speak and when not to. No one likes unsolicited advice. Emotional intelligence is an underrated but essential skill.- Yes! But it's a drama that we are talking about. If we aren't looking for logic in the story then expecting such things itself a big deal going by ITV standard. & bold : even in real life not many has acquired this skill.
Firstly, wanting to buy the Dhaba is very different from marrying someone by deceit. Ginni may have had a difficult life, but so did Adi and she had no right to marry Adi in a sneaky way. That’s called “barging into someone’s life.”
He wanted to buy the Dhaba and was willing to pay a handsome price for it. He even gave her a big contract that was far outside her realm of expertise. Hell, he even came after her and forced her to accept the catering cheque that would solve all her financial problems. All the insults the family faced during the catering were due to their own mistakes or the actions of Adi’s family. He can’t be blamed for the actions of others.
The legal papers he drew up to grab the Dhaba through Ginni’s mistakes were also fake because he wanted to prove a personal point to Ginni about her own sermons about family. Was he arrogant about it? Yes, but that still doesn’t make him worse than Ginni.
Secondly, whatever mistake Adi was going to do by marrying Sam was his own to make. Ginni shouldn’t have interfered in his life decisions. She could have gone to the cops if she was so sure that the divorce papers are fake. Even after Sam’s marriage with Adi, the second marriage would be annulled as per law, if Ginni proved that Sam was already married to her brother. She was already talking to a lawyer. It makes little sense that she didn’t check what her options are. Bad on the part of the writers, but the audience has the right to expect better.
To reiterate, Ginni didn’t have to marry Adi and marrying someone without their consent is a crime as per law. Adi, despite all his shortcomings, never crossed the line, while Ginni did. So, yes, Adi does not owe her anything. Ginni does - for barging into his life and complicating the situation. All this, just for her stupid brother.
Without knowing the whole truth, Ginni is acting like a typical FL and assuming she has the right to say these things to Adi. She knows it’s a sensitive issue, but instead of handling it delicately, she is forcing Adi into uncomfortable situations. But Ginni - she married him by deceit and has no right to take charge of such emotionally sensitive situations. This is basic maturity and decency. I would politely disagree. Neither did ginni invited adi in her life. He, for his own selfish reason bragged into her life, making her already difficult life difficult. Demanding things, creating situations where she was insulted by his "family who has done a lot of misdeed, reason of his trauma". She tried to tell him the truth, warnned him about Sam, who was still her brother's wife & she had right to fight for her brother's life. But he didn't pay any deed, neither did he investigated about the said matter (again). She married him without his consent, sure but it only cleared the huge mess which his life was about to become. She didn't complain about all the insult which came her way, from adi & his family but when she proved herself right, she was leaving the house with her head held high. She didnt want to stay. She was asked to not leave. Adi didn't ask her to leave either, infact he had chose to annouce her as his wife. Even before marriage she had only helped him yet he didn't hesitate to maniputate her, break her family, her beliefs, taking the only thing that meant a lot to her & he KNEW about it. If we are really talking about "Emotional intelligence" & we should know when to speak, despite ginni telling him several time, didn't buzz off & was adament to break her beliefs with manipulations & kinda imposing his own version of family on her. He's not saint. Just because he has a family issue, doesnt mesn every other kid has it, too & have to bear the brunt of his own experiences that too because man was refused for something he wanted. So, in (drama's) reality, it's actually ginni, who doesn't owe adi a single thing but Adi owes her a lot of things.
Also, Adi never invited her into his life. He was never in the space to marry anyone and was only marrying Sam because of his duties. So, he owes Ginni nothing. He doesn’t have to hide his trauma and bitter feelings for his own family. It’s his nightmare and he is choosing to live in it.
Regarding the Dhaba thing, it would be a nice emotional touch if Adi and Ginni work together to build it to fulfill their parents’ dreams. At the end of it, both fall in love and Ginni names the Dhaba in both of their parents’ names as a gesture of love. I won’t mind it as the end shot of the show, after every misunderstanding has been cleared. - I have a total different pov regarding this. So, let's just agree to disagree.
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