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Originally posted by: Rosyme

A girl should be educated enough to handle herself in case of any problems. If she's working well and good.

Depends on when she s mentally ready and finds someone she feels s good for her whether it s arranged or love .

Mine was also arranged marriage from a matrimony website.

Sometimes she feels she is ready but then she has this MARRIAGE PHOBIA. What to do ?

another arrange marriage. So happy for you❤️.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Maybe in her 30s...

Originally posted by: SunqianFan

Ikr. Girl is working ,earning a good amount of money . She is very well focused too. She can take decisions for her very well. But when it comes to marriage she feels like that she has stuck in some thunderstorm.

Sometimes she feels she is ready but then she has this MARRIAGE PHOBIA. What to do ?

another arrange marriage. So happy for you❤️.

Nothing like that. My cosister has been working all along with 2 kids. Ppl take a break and resume later.

Or if u have parents or in laws support you can always hire a maid for kids and resume work later.

Some ppl change their line of work and rejoin.

Many take wfh or teaching line later.

It depends on your spouse support also and this generation guys are quite supportive.

Of course unless you start living with a person, we cant know fully about them.

I was working then... had to shift cities... completed my masters after my kid was born... doing PhD now...

have never stopped working... it was one of demands that I can never be a home maker only... will keep on working

Originally posted by: Rani_Sahiba

So happy for you my sammy😳

The right age of marriage is Whenever you are ready, you will always gonna have second thoughts cause it is the most important decision of your life. But instead of asking others you should ask yourself- Am I ready?? If the answer is yes then go ahead. But if no then you know and if you are getting mixed signals, then meet the guy you are getting married to.

There is no age of getting married, if you think you can handle the responsibilities comes with a marriage then you can also get married, age should not be a factor. Some people I knew were ready to get married at the age of 18, it was there dream to marry someone.

But if you are asking for my personal views regarding you, then I would say that I think you are ready and matured enough to handle, you already have a career, you handle a flight full of people so efficiently which I think is difficult then handling marital responsibilities.

But like I said instead of asking others, just ask yourself and imagine yourself in a situation where you are already married and if you do not feel that is wrong then may be you are ready. No one can answer this question perfectly, I am almost 25 and still not able to imagine myself getting married to someone and the main reason behind this is I have not sorted out my life but if I had a settled life, then may be I would have already been married today.

I hope you understand what I am saying.

Originally posted by: SunqianFan

Jawab toh de behen . Solve my problem😃.

de diya😂😂 but first had to congratulate my sammy😂😳

Originally posted by: Moor278

I was working then... had to shift cities... completed my masters after my kid was born... doing PhD now...

have never stopped working... it was one of demands that I can never be a home maker only... will keep on working

and sorry to disturb your episode discussion about ghum ganja here🤣🤗

You are very sweet and humble ⭐️.

Originally posted by: Rani_Sahiba

The right age of marriage is Whenever you are ready, you will always gonna have second thoughts cause it is the most important decision of your life. But instead of asking others you should ask yourself- Am I ready?? If the answer is yes then go ahead. But if no then you know and if you are getting mixed signals, then meet the guy you are getting married to.

There is no age of getting married, if you think you can handle the responsibilities comes with a marriage then you can also get married, age should not be a factor. Some people I knew were ready to get married at the age of 18, it was there dream to marry someone.

But if you are asking for my personal views regarding you, then I would say that I think you are ready and matured enough to handle, you already have a career, you handle a flight full of people so efficiently which I think is difficult then handling marital responsibilities.

But like I said instead of asking others, just ask yourself and imagine yourself in a situation where you are already married and if you do not feel that is wrong then may be you are ready. No one can answer this question perfectly, I am almost 25 and still not able to imagine myself getting married to someone and the main reason behind this is I have not sorted out my life but if I had a settled life, then may be I would have already been married today.

I hope you understand what I am saying.

I totally agree to this... do get married only when you are ready... not because of some pressure.

Also practically speaking.. I will share something that I did...

I had a criteria about what I want in my partner...

Word of advice.. don't only consider physical aspects... looks change as we age.. so that's very temporary.

But set criteria which is your compromise and no compromise list...

Like I said... one of my criteria was that I will never stop working and no one should question me about my career choices, time I spend away from home and so and so forth. This was my no compromise part.

But then there are somethings like shifting cities, preferences about smoking or drinking, vegetarian etc depending on how you feel about it.

Weigh the prospective guy on these criteria... whether his positives are good enough for you to adjust your list a bit. And go by gut feeling.

Marriages and especially arranged ones are all about finding the balance. It's illogical to expect a person to change everything about themselves just for you. Will you change yourself? If not, then don't expect from others too.

Best luck 😊

Originally posted by: Rani_Sahiba

The right age of marriage is Whenever you are ready, you will always gonna have second thoughts cause it is the most important decision of your life. But instead of asking others you should ask yourself- Am I ready?? If the answer is yes then go ahead. But if no then you know and if you are getting mixed signals, then meet the guy you are getting married to.

There is no age of getting married, if you think you can handle the responsibilities comes with a marriage then you can also get married, age should not be a factor. Some people I knew were ready to get married at the age of 18, it was there dream to marry someone.

But if you are asking for my personal views regarding you, then I would say that I think you are ready and matured enough to handle, you already have a career, you handle a flight full of people so efficiently which I think is difficult then handling marital responsibilities.

But like I said instead of asking others, just ask yourself and imagine yourself in a situation where you are already married and if you do not feel that is wrong then may be you are ready. No one can answer this question perfectly, I am almost 25 and still not able to imagine myself getting married to someone and the main reason behind this is I have not sorted out my life but if I had a settled life, then may be I would have already been married today.

I hope you understand what I am saying.

Your answer is quite similar to mine one. But yeah your answer somewhat has been in my mind for a long time . About meeting the guy 😆🤭🤫🤫.

Couldn't agree more 💯.

Ikr.

Your advice will surely gonna help 😆 . Thank you so much kusum 🤗.