CA is weird

CA's behaviour is as unnatural, or even more, than Anupamaa. While Anupamaa had the time to develop a stockholm syndrome like bond with the Shah's, it seems like she seeks them out even more than Anupamaa and wants to maintain close relations with them, even after the scream at her or abuse her. Idk how it was for others, but if someone mistreated or abused me as a kid, I tried to avoid that person and where they lived and also developed an unfavourable opinion of the person. It looks very unnatural for her to forgive Baa and Pakhi in a heartbeat after repeated abuse, with only a half baked apology.

She is not wierd but used to such taunting all her life till now.

She is an orphan and i think its the conditioning she got from the orphanage. Unless her parents intervene and ask her that it's not right, she would not change.

Orphans long for acceptance, love and belonging. Actually let me take it back, everyone wants those three and in CA it makes sense as that kid even though in orphanage showed I don't want charity, she always prayed for a family. Joint families makes things difficult.

CA is not weird, it is her fear. Fear of losing a family that she found, at least she says things as they are. Remember her saying to Anuj plz don't send me back, I wish they explored that normal fear more. Anuj was same too, as a child.

I was watching Modern Love Hyderabad on Amazon and episode 3 I think was on this. It was good without going this way..

Originally posted by: TitansFan

Orphans long for acceptance, love and belonging. Actually let me take it back, everyone wants those three and in CA it makes sense as that kid even though in orphanage showed I don't want charity, she always prayed for a family. Joint families makes things difficult.

CA is not weird, it is her fear. Fear of losing a family that she found, at least she says things as they are. Remember her saying to Anuj plz don't send me back, I wish they explored that normal fear more. Anuj was same too, as a child.

I was watching Modern Love Hyderabad on Amazon and episode 3 I think was on this. It was good without going this way..

This ia completely wrong and no research suggests that. In fact orphans have a huge problem with adjusting even with their adoptive mom and dads for even couple of years or more. They take a ling time to open up to people who are strangers to them

There is no way an orohan just adopted will march into another family and start hugging people. They hate being touched by strangers. They behave bery apprehensive and on edge around people till they are comfortable

It takes orphans long time to adjust to even adoptive mom and dads, there is no way they are comfortable or seek closeness of random relatives living in other houses

Please please read up on actual studies and don't speculate just to defend favorite shows. This sets wrong expectations for parents who adopt

Originally posted by: Harish111

This ia completely wrong and no research suggests that. In fact orphans have a huge problem with adjusting even with their adoptive mom and dads for even couple of years or more. They take a ling time to open up to people who are strangers to them

There is no way an orohan just adopted will march into another family and start hugging people. They hate being touched by strangers. They behave bery apprehensive and on edge around people till they are comfortable

It takes orphans long time to adjust to even adoptive mom and dads, there is no way they are comfortable or seek closeness of random relatives living in other houses

Please please read up on actual studies and don't speculate just to defend favorite shows. This sets wrong expectations for parents who adopt

Look up Maslows Hierarchy of Needs.

anyone in the company of Anupamaa goes through a secret brain washing session where they r forced to chant Shah iz best until they r living, breathing & martrying for Shahs

Kaun kehta hai ki. Baa abuse karti hai. Baa is comedian akhirkaar baa ka naam indian television Academy award mein ( 2022) mein best actor in comedy mein nominate hua hai

Great engishttment baa is not abuser but comedian