Kya stalling hai amazing - Page 25

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I mean even if he suspects Sai, it will be his own insecurities. It is a very real feeling that your wife or lover has slept with someone else. There is no need to downplay it in my opinion. Men are more open in expressing it.

Sai will ofcourse have the same fear and jealousy that he moved on, that he fathered a child with another woman. Yesterday you can feel her tinge of pain when Vinu kissed Virat. It could have been their vinayak, it should be their Savi who should get that love.

These feelings are very real and raw so the expression of it is natural. They question each other so the other denies and validate their position.

Sai will not question as directly as him, but she will question him in other ways. Once they know they are physically loyal to each other, they will be releived. Because it is the easiest barrier to cross. Then the emotional involvement will come into picture.

I agree. It is only natural..human..real, but in a general context. Here I was only trying to be specific with the situation and characters. But I could be gravely wrong too.

The reason I would still want to stick to the fact that he trusts her is their journey so far. Their marriage, their relationship has been problematic. There is so much that they have not addressed, learnt, understood about each other. They still have/had a long journey ahead to grow as a strong/compatible couple. But taking away trust would mean that we are taking away what they learnt and pushing them back on the track they had travelled so far. With trust gone (in whatever context that they did), they are going back in time. I understand that during that fight before Sai's exit, there was a lot said. And it did create insecurities and doubts. But does that mean that the separation made them disregard or forget what they learnt and understood about each other on a basic level. Ajinkya and SH tracks were then futile. And Sairat never grew as a couple. It would mean "Dismantling" Sairat (if that exists).

V barely has anything to his credibility. Staying true to Sai in physical aspect is one. While it may be hailed as the winning card, it is still shallow somewhere. Trust has to be on his list to keep him crawling atleast.

V's marriage has been made clear to Sai in the beginning itself is for the same reason. She would have not have doubted that otherwise.

So I'm still hanging in the hope that there is trust still there...atleast in that context.

Originally posted by: Sherry24

I agree. It is only natural..human..real, but in a general context. Here I was only trying to be specific with the situation and characters. But I could be gravely wrong too.

The reason I would still want to stick to the fact that he trusts her is their journey so far. Their marriage, their relationship has been problematic. There is so much that they have not addressed, learnt, understood about each other. They still have/had a long journey ahead to grow as a strong/compatible couple. But taking away trust would mean that we are taking away what they learnt and pushing them back on the track they had travelled so far. With trust gone (in whatever context that they did), they are going back in time. I understand that during that fight before Sai's exit, there was a lot said. And it did create insecurities and doubts. But does that mean that the separation made them disregard or forget what they learnt and understood about each other on a basic level. Ajinkya and SH tracks were then futile. And Sairat never grew as a couple. It would mean "Dismantling" Sairat (if that exists).

V barely has anything to his credibility. Staying true to Sai in physical aspect is one. While it may be hailed as the winning card, it is still shallow somewhere. Trust has to be on his list to keep him crawling atleast.

V's marriage has been made clear to Sai in the beginning itself is for the same reason. She would have not have doubted that otherwise.

So I'm still hanging in the hope that there is trust still there...atleast in that context.

Yeah I understand what you are saying. But 7 years is too long. They did build some trust I agree. But they never fully believed in the other person's love for them. Virat always thinks Sai could easily move on from him. Sai even more. That is the reason they immediately misunderstood each other that they moved on and bore children :) NO logical calculation of kid's ages also. That is their first instict. That the other person ignored all that they shared and went on and slept with another person! It will freak them out. 7 years is a long time for a person to not indulge in s*x. It is hard, more so if they had been in such a relationship.

Thats why they would seek answers for it first. It evokes vey raw emotions. Once they know they didnt touch anyone else, they feel relieved. But that might also make Sai vulnerable to accept his actual big mistake of giving free pass to Pakhi still. That is something I want her to be strongly opposing. She might melt if he was loyal to her physically and in heart. But how much emotional investment he has with Pakhi has to come out. Why did he entertain her still? Why did he enter into a relationship that has physical relationship as an expectation. Where should she draw boundaries and believe in his love? These are important questions than him being loyal to her in mind and body. There is something called 'repect' to her emotions and loyalty towards them. If he compromised on them, then will physical loyalty mean anything? I dont think so. But yes his loyalty in mind and body will weaken her resolve 😭

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yeah I understand what you are saying. But 7 years is too long. They did build some trust I agree. But they never fully believed in the other person's love for them. Virat always thinks Sai could easily move on from him. Sai even more. That is the reason they immediately misunderstood each other that they moved on and bore children :) NO logical calculation of kid's ages also. That is their first instict. That the other person ignored all that they shared and went on and slept with another person! It will freak them out. 7 years is a long time for a person to not indulge in s*x. It is hard, more so if they had been in such a relationship.

Thats why they would seek answers for it first. It evokes vey raw emotions. Once they know they didnt touch anyone else, they feel relieved. But that might also make Sai vulnerable to accept his actual big mistake of giving free pass to Pakhi still. That is something I want her to be strongly opposing. She might melt if he was loyal to her physically and in heart. But how much emotional investment he has with Pakhi has to come out. Why did he entertain her still? Why did he enter into a relationship that has physical relationship as an expectation. Where should she draw boundaries and believe in his love? These are important questions than him being loyal to her in mind and body. There is something called 'repect' to her emotions and loyalty towards them. If he compromised on them, then will physical loyalty mean anything? I dont think so. But yes his loyalty in mind and body will weaken her resolve 😭

Agree. It is the time. I had mentioned this part sometime back. If Sai was aware that she was presumed dead, or if she knew she was dying, she would willingly wish for V to move on. She will definitely not want him to suffer and mourn her all his life, in fact she would want him to lead a happy and complete life. Even at the cost of forgetting her..however twisted it may seem. At this point it is this very MU about her "death" that is causing that rift. But later it will take the form of betrayal when she knows it is P.

I do see the point and do agree with you on that perspective. But if you see the sequence of the scenes. V questioned who was Savi first to himself. I believe, he first did consider the chances of her being his child, but Sai's medical history made him think otherwise. And it would be too much for him to believe, so he ruled it out.

When GR passed those derogatory remarks, he reacted..violently. Yes, it talks about the fact that he cannot tolerate anyone talk demeaningly about Sai, but it was somewhere also was a sign, that he will not believe in any of it. See the words that angered him the most and where he retaliated. First, that she had multiple men and someone fathered the child, and then his own relationship with her. Because, he knows none are true. It is only after this incident that actually questions Sai. Why did he not question her before? He anyways was puzzled there about Savi's parentage.

Coming to physical and longing aspect, Sai would melt. But to what extent? Again something we discussed, with Sai knowing about her "dead" status, and V's state post that she will go on a guilt trip herself. But it will be P which will make her question the validity of her guilt. And it is the very person and her marital status with V that will forbid her from expecting or allowing anything between V and her.

But taking the risk of going overboard, it is possible, if they are indeed "Dismantling" Sairat to create space to "Resurrect" Virakhi! The arguments have been around “ why will they ruin V’s character”? But it is how we read it. It is not about ruining a character, but about V becoming worthy of P, by making him unworthy of Sai

OK you meant the derogatory comments too! I did not pay attention to it.Yes the way he fired on them shows his trust on Sai's personality. While yeah he might have agitated like who the father of Savi is, he did think that she cannot conceive. His first indication was that only. Which shows his confidence that she could not move on. And then his mad rage at people pointing out fingers at her also shows his trust on her. 👍🏼 I missed that point.

But yeah later he would want to confirm that she didnt mother Savi with anyother man :) which I think I explained.

I dont think so virakhi yaar. But yeah he should come clean on Pakhi aspect.

Just a wild thought. And seriously doubt remotest possibility of it.

Imagine if GR, takes on a bigger goal. MLA of Nagpur than Kankavli. And decides to target Chavans and their reputation. Sai is begged to return and Savi is announced as their legal child. While she enjoys privileges inside CN P is reduced to no one in the outside world as Sai will be V’s lawful wife.

Just for some sadistic pleasures😉

Originally posted by: Sherry24

Just a wild thought. And seriously doubt remotest possibility of it.

Imagine if GR, takes on a bigger goal. MLA of Nagpur than Kankavli. And decides to target Chavans and their reputation. Sai is begged to return and Savi is announced as their legal child. While she enjoys privileges inside CN P is reduced to no one in the outside world as Sai will be V’s lawful wife.

Just for some sadistic pleasures😉

I have the same feeling... had mentioned this previously too...

That Gulab unearths the actual relationship and maligns Sai... in the process it reaches Nagpur... and since BK is an MLA who needs to maintain a public image she will ask Sai to come back to CN as the lawful wife.

But it's heartbreaking for Vinu. Usko kya batayenge?

I agree with Sherry... that the trust would be the deciding factor. Physical aspect has been talked about and it's superficial... which is why we are all upset that V even agreed to marry P. So the emotional attachment to Sai has been compromised. If he doubts her again... this would be another blow.

But I don't believe in virakhi either. There are ample signs that V loves only Sai and wants to be with her.

Until and unless their MU clears, this taunt match will keep going in circles.

I reserve my verdict on the precap (have some doubts) 😊

Originally posted by: Moor278

I have the same feeling... had mentioned this previously too...

That Gulab unearths the actual relationship and maligns Sai... in the process it reaches Nagpur... and since BK is an MLA who needs to maintain a public image she will ask Sai to come back to CN as the lawful wife.

But it's heartbreaking for Vinu. Usko kya batayenge?

I agree with Sherry... that the trust would be the deciding factor. Physical aspect has been talked about and it's superficial... which is why we are all upset that V even agreed to marry P. So the emotional attachment to Sai has been compromised. If he doubts her again... this would be another blow.

But I don't believe in virakhi either. There are ample signs that V loves only Sai and wants to be with her.

Until and unless their MU clears, this taunt match will keep going in circles.

I reserve my verdict on the precap (have some doubts) 😊

Vinu, as long as he is not getting insecure is fine. It will be his insecurity with P vs Savi. His jealousy has to come forth one day. But I hope it doesn’t till Sai and V get back together. However, I do doubt it. Have a feeling he will be the reason that will stop them. Once he is secure, he should not have a problem.

If I understand this right, he would be knowing about this possibility of another child the way Chavans..esp Ashwini do "V move on" rap and coaxing P into it.

But yes, it will be heartbreaking for a kid, if he is already insecure that he is adopted.