AnupaMaa's misplaced priorities - Page 6

Originally posted by: surabhi01

What ever if anupama attending baby ceremony for 30 minutes aisa koi pahaad nah toot padega

Gk can give water to him itna bhaari kaam nahin hai fnupama go out side for 1 hr .aur koi har minute na, khana,khata hai aur na koi har minute paani peeta hai ki anupama ko har time anuj ka saath hi hona chahiye

nupama can go and return even I hr yeh ko school nahin jub tuk function khatm nahi ho jaata anupama ko rukna hi hai I have seen log function mein thodi der ke liye aate hai phir gift dekar chale because unke ghar mein problem hoti hai

Anuj does not need some one to bring him water. He can do that himself. He needs Anupama's presence, the feeling of being prioritized the most, the realization of security. When a person can not fully function by himself, he is bound to become insecure, frustrated, scared, vulnerable. The fear of becoming a burden on loved ones eats them from inside. This time the constant reminder that you are being valued, heard, seen is necessary more than medicines. No husband stuck in a wheel chair deserves to see his wife's ex husband's hand on her shoulder. Just imagine you are in wheelchair unable to even go to washroom by yourself and you see your wife and ex husband living a happy moment together, touching each other. Any person with an ounce of humanity is supposed to find it cruel. Anu's grand daughter is not going away anywhere from her. She can enjoy as much as she wants with her after a few months. Why could not she have returned home few hours after delivery? Is staying at night or hugging ex necessary?

100% , Exactly my thoughts!

Kya har time monitoring hoti hai aisa kya har time monitoring hoti hai jo har time anupama ko anuj ko hona chahiye

Aise kyon jaroori hai anupama ko har time anuj ke saath hona chahiye

Kya anuj . Medicine nahin le raha

If anuj is taking medicine on time and following doctor instructions to aisi koi problem nahin hogi

Aisa nahin hai ki anupama jaise hi bistar se uthegi waise hi anupama shah ghar ko chali jaayegi

Subah se lekar shaam ke 6 baje tuk anupama to anuj ke saath hi rahegi

To kya aisa possible hai anupama ne anuj ko khana nahin de paayegi use water nahin de paayegi until she go for baby ceremony in evening

Baby ceremony shaam ko hoga

Till evening anupama is going to take great care of anu

And I said just for I hr koi pahaad nahin toot psdegs

Gk can give water

Aur jise lagta hai ki mera post insensitive hai disgusting hai so let it be use lagta rahe

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kya har time monitoring hoti hai aisa kya har time monitoring hoti hai jo har time anupama ko anuj ko hona chahiye

Aise kyon jaroori hai anupama ko har time anuj ke saath hona chahiye

Kya anuj . Medicine nahin le raha

If anuj is taking medicine on time and following doctor instructions to aisi koi problem nahin hogi

Aisa nahin hai ki anupama jaise hi bistar se uthegi waise hi anupama shah ghar ko chali jaayegi

Subah se lekar shaam ke 6 baje tuk anupama to anuj ke saath hi rahegi

To kya aisa possible hai anupama ne anuj ko khana nahin de paayegi use water nahin de paayegi until she go for baby ceremony in evening

Baby ceremony shaam ko hoga

Till evening anupama is going to take great care of anu

And I said just for I hr koi pahaad nahin toot psdegs

Gk can give water

Aur jise lagta hai ki mera post insensitive hai disgusting hai so let it be use lagta rahe

Anupama ne grand child ki delivery kara li, gadthuthi pilaya.Sab kar toh liya . Fir kya rona??
Pehli shaddi mai anupama ek tang par khadi rehti thi , dusri shaddi mai toh anupama itna sa bhi compromise nahi kar rahi hai ! Aur kya chahiye !

Yes brain surgery patients are required to be monitored every second, that’s why they have an in house nurse and now when the nurse is on holiday then Anuj needs someone by him who is capable. Pani lena, khana lena woh Anuj khud bhi kar sakta hai. It’s the chance of seizure and other mental and physiological effects or in case that he falls that requires people around him to take care of him. How will it matter if a ceremony is attended via video call and not in person?

I have said Anupamaa comes about as insensitive. I did not call you out.

Had hai bhai just just attend img baby ceremony for 1 hr that mean anupama isk care nahin kar rah and anuj feel lonely only for 1 hr

Yeh to anupama pe bina matlab mental pressure daalna hua anuj ki taraf se

Originally posted by: saito

That's Why Devika warned Anu not to adopt CA if she was not ready and even if Anuj just accidently told her his wish he did not force it on her. She gave him her word twice when he asked her if she was not ready then she should have not agreed the second time he asked her. But she agreed. So it is solely her fault. And the makers fault for not knowing how to write a story.

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

anuj ki bhi thodi si galati hai honestly,guy knows she already has responsibility of 3 kids on her shoulder(no she doesn't actually, but she thinks so),she's just done with bringing up 3 kids,she deserved a break,shaadi ke 2 din baad hi proposed this to her....without even having a prior discussion about it before marriage & I know she agreed wilfully, but who wouldn't be obliged to do so when the guy has done so much for her,it was wrong & even a little manipulative on his end to propose this idea to Anupama so early into the marriage.

This. Though Anupama did it willingly but mainly it was because of Anuj because she loves him. She knows the responsibility of taking care of a child, she has three she raised by herself (Vanraj wasn’t there to take care of their everyday needs) … but still she went ahead with the adoption because she loves Anuj and she wants to raise a kid with Anuj… if MaAn had met even 5 yrs ago, they would have had their own kid..

So to literally minimize everything Anupama has done for Anuj (where she has prioritized Anuj number of times over even her kids ,remember kids were pissed off with adoption), just because she went to the HOSPITAL for Kinjal’s delivery because Kinjal needs mommy mommy is just so freaking unfair to Anupama. I can list many instances where Anupama has prioritized Anuj over herself, her kids etc etc. So to say Anu doesn't love Anuj is really unfair and frankly baffling. It’s always the woman who has to be criticized and scrutinized for everything. It’s really sad actually. A sad reality.

See I agree that most of the time Anupama doesn't give Anuj the kind of attention he deserves, but she wasn't wrong this time in accompanying kinjal to the hospital, it's her grandchild that is born,it is a big deal for ppl like Anupama & it's not like she went away happily, it was seen she was sorry in leaving Anuj,she was constantly in touch with him on phone .About her not taking care of Anuj,dude got better because of Anupama's constant care for the past one month,so u can't deny she didn't fulfill her responsibilities & she would have done so even today if it were not for Kinjal,which might not look very important to us,but it certainly is important for Anupama. She just left him for half a day, tabb takk toh GK aur staff sambhaal sakta haina Anuj ko.Anuj is not in the right mental condition I understand,but I think aadha din he can stay without Anupama, yeh aisa behave karna ki uske baghair usse saans nahin aayegi,jaldi aao,jaldi aao as if she will stay in the hospital forever is a bit of an exaggeration.