Upcoming : Akshara visits the Birla house - Page 30

Originally posted by: pbv3434

bold:- I agree with ur each n every word..it was insensitive of abhimanyu to not even try to find her wife ..his anger has definitely overpowered his love for ak..thankgod manish is putting some sense into him..

Abhimanyu knows police will be after them

How they will be living … no money shelter????

These thoughts didn’t even cross his mind?

If Ak is caught with Kairav then she will also face the law

even if he respects her decision but writers should have shown some monologues that he is praying for her safety and well being

I don’t think Abhimanyu should be blamed when he is NOT at fault. He should not be blamed for someone’s unilateral decisions. All these questions and consequences should have been thought of by the person who took those one sided decisions.

Abhimanyu is NOT responsible for what mess has been created nor has he taken lifelong oath for things which he is UNAWARE of. So there’s no need to bash him for things which are not his fault.

Just because I am not saying anything about how Akshara is wrong doesn’t mean she’s not wrong.

So Abhimanyu is not responsible for her mess at all. The person who takes actions should be responsible for those actions themselves.

Originally posted by: LoveHC

I don’t think Abhimanyu should be blamed when he is NOT at fault. He should not be blamed for someone’s unilateral decisions. All these questions and consequences should have been thought of by the person who took those one sided decisions.

Abhimanyu is NOT responsible for what mess has been created nor has he taken lifelong oath for things which he is UNAWARE of. So there’s no need to bash him for things which are not his fault.

Just because I am not saying anything about how Akshara is wrong doesn’t mean she’s not wrong.

So Abhimanyu is not responsible for her mess at all. The person who takes actions should be responsible for those actions themselves.

Not blaming him for Aksharas decisions or mess. I blame Birlas for not understanding the story from Kairav and pressed the gun despite knowing their daughter and forced Kairav to run away form the jail and Akshara had to took him with her.

but it is genuine concern within ...that not even single time the thought did not come across to him that she ran away with her brother...are they ok? is she safe? showing concerns in thoughts ...is not asking him to sacrifice or do anything...

As husband-wife they both took the vows...Abhimaniyu actually took the vow that he will stand by her every decision. But he is sitting upset and angry because of his insecurity that she chose her brother, not him...because of that actually he is indirectly not supporting her decision.

Akshara left him without any message...we know that's khera's condition to not let anything know to him or family. But Abhimaniyu does not know that and he is extremely upset but he did not even thought of her safety at all even once...He went completely in denial mode that she does not need him, does not want him to search her...this is not usual Abhimaniyu Birla...that not showing concern for his Akshu. thats all want to say

Let’s agree to disagree. It’s very easy to guilt trip Abhimanyu. We often forget Akshara is an adult and can face the consequences of her own decisions.

If she took the decision of not trusting him, it is not his fault that he assumed she went away with her brother.

Also, just because he doesn’t say anything doesn’t mean he doesn’t wish for her well being. Not necessary everything has to be said. We as viewers very conveniently forget why characters behave the way they do. He was ready to support Kairav till the very last minute. He didn’t let any family member bash Akshara for supporting her brother. He always stood by her. Trusted her. Gave her confidence. Gave her space to cry and feel bad for her brothers situation and support her family. Didn’t blindly side with family and was ready to hear out Kairavs side.

So before guilt tripping it’s better to remember these things.

And also If Akshara was in place of Abhimaniyu,

I bet she would have been very understanding that there must be some reason he did this...i pray to Kanhaji that you are safe and i will wait for you...

Thats Akshara...

See these are the core traits...

But abhimaniyu is fine as a brother to take the stand but as a husband, once he could have tried putting his insecurity or zidd..that she did not leave the clue then why should I go after her???

Akshu would not have sat at home if she was in place of Abhimaniyu...

Akshara has her share of faults and defects...but when concern is there, she does not see anything...

Here Abhimaniyu's brain mind everything is shut seeing just the clip that she sat with kairav in the car..but after that what??? IF Ak calls they will trace her and kairav will be in trouble ...Abhimaniyu is smart enough to think that...but no he decided to shut himself and cut off himself...by just seeing that..Ak told him that she will go to meet kairav if he calls her.

We respect your POV...everyone has different understanding and it is great to read varieties...sometimes it takes time to understand properly other's POV..

We discuss so that some good explanation can come and make us understand the character more..

I understand what you’re trying to say. As u said Akshara has her own set of flaws, so does Abhimanyu. All I’m saying is - if we ignore/give leeway to Akshara for her flaws, why can’t we do the same for Abhimanyu?

I’m not saying he’s correct 100% of the time. But he’s a human too. Rage is a flaw he has - and just as Akshara deserves time to minimise her flaws - so does Abhimanyu. Why should we expect 100% from him if we’re not expecting the same from Akshara? We should be unbiased - and if 1 character needs time for character development - we should not be expecting the other character to grow magically during that same time right?

I respect your point of view too completely. But Akshara and Abhimanyu are 2 different human beings who will react according to their perspectives and have their own different flaws. So saying Akshara would have done this so Abhimanyu should do that isn’t right.

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Abhimanyu knows police will be after them

How they will be living … no money shelter????

These thoughts didn’t even cross his mind?

If Ak is caught with Kairav then she will also face the law

even if he respects her decision but writers should have shown some monologues that he is praying for her safety and well being