MEMBER TOPIC : How IF BS effected you as a person - Page 5

New to this form so just needs to know how this forum thing worked for you.

* Do you think people generally here are nice ?

Yes but some are reserved and takes time to open up. While others are very social, and then there are clicks. ( like nerdy, entertainers, popular crowd)

* Are most people here negative or positive?

Positive

* Is this place good for your mental health ? means do most people here r having troll or toxic mentality or most here believes in lifting others up?

Depends 🤔

* Is there an obsession pattern with the stars or people act normal and consider the stars as human and does not spoil someone's day with mean comments when someone don't write a favorable post for their favorite actors?

Depends 🤔

I been to other social media platforms, but IF is new to me.

So how was/is your experience in totality here at BS, specially with the members.

Good 😊

P.s you should also hang out with another new member VICKY

Originally posted by: Maharani69

I never thought you’d actually muster the courage to change your UN.

why pyaasamacchar & not pyaasimakkhi? Tell to me!

Yeah I finally decided I needed atleast some change.😆

I needed something blood sucking jeev jantu, toh dimaag mein options khatmal aur Macchhar hi the. Waise bhi makkhi koode pe ghoomti hai Sara time. Khoon > kooda.😆

Originally posted by: santaadmi

Do you think people generally here are nice ?

I am sure most of the people here are nice and lovely. But I don't think everyone is very kind and considerate.

Originally posted by: santaadmi

Are most people here negative or positive?

That depends on the topic. People are very positive toward their favorite and negative toward those they dislike.

Originally posted by: santaadmi

Is this place good for your mental health ? means do most people here r having troll or toxic mentality or most here believes in lifting others up?

It depends. If you get sucked into arguments, it will take a toll. If you learn to let it go and care less, you will thrive.

Originally posted by: santaadmi

Is there an obsession pattern with the stars or people act normal and consider the stars as human and does not spoil someone's day with mean comments when someone don't write a favorable post for their favorite actors?

Yes

I learnt to fight.

Bohot saray comebacks agaye mujhe.

One thing that I have realized is...that people who you consider your friends or are on good terms with generally.....if you try to defend someone they dislike.....they will rip you apart...even though they know what kind of a person you are.........

on BW forum....the like/dislike for a celebrity >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> friendship...

Originally posted by: PyaasaMacchhar

I needed something blood sucking jeev jantu,

rakhthpipasu is no longer taken. 😆

BS means Bollywood section 👀

Originally posted by: santaadmi

Thank you so much return to Hadees for the comprehensive and detailed reply

:0)

Yes it seems like most of the humans operates through the lens of convenience and what comforts them, plus the conformity.

I guess the fans of same stars finds it a strong human to human connection when they are on the same page, which is good, it creates sort of a bond, regardless of the intention/shallow-intention behind it to support the same person.

I just wish people take most things sportingly. In my opinion the biggest negative thing is EGO and the desire that others will agree with one's views, which stems out of the weaker self image, which gets some sort of power and sense of belonging when other humans confirm one's ideas.

More clear sense of self won't lead anyone to troll or been mean or toxic to others having different opinions.

Not enough people checking their egos. I don’t have an ego. I’m humble chumble

Originally posted by: santaadmi

Great if u don't have any ego at all.

Well all/most of us have it, we cannot kill it by 100% but needs to reason out with our ego at various stages of our lives, we cannot kill our ego but can control it for sure, that's what the "test" is for us in this world given by the almighty, like controlling and not acting upon on various urges of ours, manifested by our "nafs".

Though you can temporarily kill your ego by a trip or even with a miscrodosage of magic mushrooms 🤪 but the ego resurfaces again, so basically it is a continuous process to keep one's ego at check, the process is worth it.

Do you have any magic mushrooms w you ???

Originally posted by: santaadmi

New to this form so just needs to know how this forum thing worked for you.

* Do you think people generally here are nice ?

Some members are fun.

* Are most people here negative or positive?

There are some very negative ones who get abusive. But mostly people are chill and its fun to pull Bwood pplz leg together😆

* Is this place good for your mental health ? means do most people here r having troll or toxic mentality or most here believes in lifting others up?

It's not. I still remember an incident that happened in a thread where a member got abusive just coz I said an actress was not looking nice. She got racist. So for people like me who tend to get hurt very quickly, its not. I stopped posting here for a long time after that. Sometimes I still think abt that incident and feel bad. So now, I dont engage with such crazies. They dont want ppl abusing their fav but think its fine to abuse members😳🤢

* Is there an obsession pattern with the stars or people act normal and consider the stars as human and does not spoil someone's day with mean comments when someone don't write a favorable post for their favorite actors?

Refer to above comment, some ppl get mental over actors who will never know of their existence. I think we can all agree to disagree. I try to avoid saying nasty stuff abt actors, so that their fans dont feel bad. But kabhi kabhi likh bhi deti hu if m pissed at the actors😆 Also, I dont wanna get into a war of words with a member, it just ruins your day. No actor is worth ruining my day😆

I been to other social media platforms, but IF is new to me.

No, this is the only forum I have ever been part of. Itne ID password kaun yaad rakhe.

So how was/is your experience in totality here at BS, specially with the members.

I enjoy reading posts by certain members. There are some very funny members, who are very creative with beizzatifying actors😆 And others who's every retort seems humourous.