Ashwini made sense !! - Page 19

But story has to move with Sai n virat meeting .. if not this week .. next week toh karna hi padega .. sai is in ka koli Virat is in Nagpur ..

Originally posted by: msin

That will be too funny .. if she really did not know this was the real vinu ., she the mother who has held him in her womb for 9 months .. could never perceive that kid could be the same one

I think she doesn't know.

After Mansi passed away, as per her last wish they would have adopted a baby from Samrat s ashram.

By then Vinu would be one year or so.

If he was baby they could have recognised him surely.

Or Pakhi herself got baby from.accident site, kept vinu n samrat s ashram and got him after one year.

Later that white hair lady of samrat ashram will tell Sai everything.....

Originally posted by: msin

You have put it so well ❤️❤️.. but unfortunately ashwini and Chavans don’t have this much EQ .. to go about like this

They would not have got in this mess if they had even 1/4 of this much EQ ..

I know right... But hum sapne toh dekh sakte hai na!! As audience we have that right...

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

They have made characters very shallow. I think that characters are now decided by TRPs and hence it is that way. Do you have any feelings about it? Plot toh of course, yes. But now even characters, I feel

I am sorry.. but what do you mean that the characters are decided by TRPs.. I did not understand that..

Originally posted by: umawanderer

If Ashwini was actually a 'practical and sensible' mother she can say following things:

To Virat:

"What's the use of being all emo.. now, when you had chance to do things right? you were taken over by emotions and what not... "

"You being depressed is not going to bring back your dead wife and son back..."

"You are doing the same mistake again by letting your emotions control you.. what if your indifference drives Pakhi into madness and then she suicides? will you blame yourself again for even her death? Or would you wait your son Vinu, to blame it on you"

"People should actually learn from their mistakes.. but godu... you just keep repeating the same mistakes and make you and other around you miserable"

"If you are just feeling guilty about what you did to Sai, then are you not repeating the same by doing it to Pakhi"

"If you think you are to be punished for what you did to Sai, then why is Patralekha getting Punished?"

"If you think Patralekha is also as much guilty as you are... then is this marriage your way of punishing her?"

"If this marriage is indeed a punishment for both of you.. then I can not help you, sorry.."

"But Vinu will definitely get the bad end of the deal as his parents are in a loveless marriage"

"Communicate what you are feeling... we cannot understand you unless you open your mouth and say it..."

"If it is too hard to communicate to us why not go for a counselor who can help you to move on"

"Moping around is not going to do anything.. honor her memory.. do something that will help you get the pain lessened... "

"Forgetting the past is not going to help you.. learn from the past mistakes. Accept that you have made mistakes just like every normal human being. Stop yourself from repeating the same mistakes again"

"I am not asking you to move on in your life for the sake of your happiness.. but for the sake of Vinu.. what is the use of adopting him, if you cannot provide him with a happy and positive environment to grow... he is not a toy with whom you can feel happiness.. He is a kid and it has many demands.. and one of them is an emotionally stable environment to grow."

"Bada.. you have always taken decisions without thinking their consequences.. And because of that many people including you had to suffer.. but now your every decision will affect Vinu.. Think properly... think from everyone's perspective.. before taking any decision "

To Patrlekha:

"Patralekha... I know you are suffering because of this loveless marriage.. but, you need to help Virat in this.. "

"Accept the fact that he loved Sai.. and 'listen' to him. Talk to him about his Sai, Share his grief... instead of getting jealous of a dead woman... accept that there was someone important in his life."

"You are his life partner... You both can depend on each other.. Encourage him to talk about his grief, his regrets, his pain... Even if it pains you to hear his love for another woman, you have to listen."

"As long as grief is ruling his heart, he would not be able to love anyone else.. so you should help him cope with his grief... Be his friend first, then his life partner"

"Love is not a race... where you have to be first or second.. Virat may love you in future but that does not mean that he will forget or hate Sai.. you need to be prepared for that.. "

"Love is selfless.. if you truly love him, then his happiness should be more important to you than your position in his heart"

"Maybe at some point, when Virat overcomes his grief, when you both are in a positive talking relationship, when are comfortable within each other's presence.. then you can talk to him about your feelings, your insecurities, Your dreams... he will not know anything as long as you are not clear with him."

"This may take years and years... Virat might never properly get over it... Accept that as your comeuppance for all that you have done in this life... Maybe helping Virat and Vinu by providing them unconditional love and support is your way of washing of your sins"

"You helping Virat is not just for your marital bliss. but also for Vinu... whom you love so much.. he needs to grow up in a healthy, nurturing environment.. and that is possible only if you both co-operate."

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Just things which my 'mom' and my 'mom-like-people' said to me and others around me, at different points of our lives.

A mother or anyone won't say this to someone who is grieving for a long time, you'll try to make them feel better, You can't kick someone who is already down

Originally posted by: msin

I like your take in the story ..

Virat has a lot of work to do .. he better not create a mess yet again .., he cannot fail both his kids.. he has to give a happy family to both of them with their aai ( real one ) and baba

Right

Virat has to do stand for his family now, he has done alot for Chavan family, now its about his own family

Sai asked him if he doesn't consider Vinayak and her as his family? Savi, Vinayak and Sai need him more than anyone else

Isiliye I am hopeful for the lep to get over or bottle will break, Vinu in pain, V driving at aeroplane speed to reach Kankavli and go to Doctor Aunty's place and then

Tin tinn da tinn tinn...

Violins bajenge, sukhe patte udenge, bijli garjegi

Police uncle and Doctor Aunty will come face to face 🥳

Episode 600

Originally posted by: Moor278

@Sadhika...

I know you are mad at V right now.

I am not. 🤪Vanku has made him into such a fool ki mujhe gussa bhi nahi aa raha aur pity bhi nahi. He's inconsequential.

Still for the story and for the episode, here are my thoughts.

The marriage looks real as of now. Don't keep hopes that it might be fake.

From the episode, it seemed like P brought Vinu home. If they married for adoption, well then it anyway has to be legal, so court marriage jaisa kuch hoga.

If not, it looked like P adopted alone (this point is important, will get to this later)

CN became suddenly progressive because 96 kuli Adarsh bahu brought an alternative Chirag home. She got him for V, handed him over as a penance and V started recovering. We know this much. V is totally and only invested in Vinu.

He has also gotten over the loss of original Vinu to some degree because of this but not for loss of Sai.

Looking at P's sacrifice, Ash melted.

Rest of the family members were anyway Pro P.

Sabne milke V ko force Kiya ki shaadi karlo. He agreed.

Anyway for them, Sai is gone to the other realm and even if she did they are angry on her.

V-P ki shaadi ke saare roadblocks clear.

They get married but maybe V puts a disclaimer "mujh se ummeed mat rakhna". Hence the formality and distance.

And keeping himself 'loyal' to Sai by not getting intimate with P 😔. But this is known only to the two of them and hence she says "aapke godu ke liye nahi, apne godu ke liye". Maybe.

Now, if P has seen the pic, she will hide it for sure. I don't think she has changed.

But if she has not, she is sharp when it comes to Sai. So Vinu recounting stories about Saavi and Doctor Aunty will put her brain wheels in motion. V couldn't place the connection but she will. Mostly will go and investigate.

If she has adopted Vinu, she is his sole guardian. This is important.

So V technically has no rights on Vinu. When the 2 parivar plays out, V will not be able to let P and Vinu go because of his attachment to Vinu. But Sai and Saavi is where his heart lies.

V is not mourning the loss of original Vinu, so seeing Sai alive will make him go after her but she being the sensible one will keep the distance. Saavi with her will be the added pull. But V cannot ignore Vinu either.

It is only when Vinu ka parentage is clear, then Sai can stake official claim on Vinu and P will lose the last straw. This would be the next high point, I don't think it will happen soon.

In all this, if she already knows that this is the original Vinu but is hiding him from everybody then she will make sure Sai won't ever return to CN. She will feel threatened. And she will try to hide the truth as long as she can.

Precaps are misleading so it is totally possible that she won't see the pic. But story wise she should be the one knowing about it.

My guess in the end is Ash manipulated Godu to get married for the kids sake and the sacrificial P.

Bingo

I was thinking about adoption by Pakhi as well. Can biological parents claim custody of kids after adoption? I am not sure but this is where Vinayak's attachment with Virat and Sai will play a role, Court will ask the kid and he'll say he wants to be with his parents

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Next want to see details of Omi s anger . Exactly what happened.

I feel virat will meet Sai on Monday only.

Sai virat ko jaldi milwao...story should move ahead

Originally posted by: Moor278

And thats the next conflict...

I don't think she has changed...

So if she finds Sai, she might tell her truth about her marriage to V.

Making sure Sai is not coming back to CN.

If she turns total black, then like Sherry predicted it would be KD wala fake pregnancy. 😆

Aur agar Didi Sach main Badal gai Hai to she will divorce V and help in patchup.

Which option looks more believable 🤣

For now going to sai n telling her about marriage with P. She is very intuitive about Sai. But virat will himself reach Sai somehow next week.