Ashwini made sense !! - Page 18

Why should pakhi see Sai ka pic .. first .. she will definitely search for her and tell her the truth. ..

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Ashwini is speaking like a mother, its few episodes for us but the leap is of years, which means she is seeing her son crying everyday, who wouldn't want her son to be happy?

In anger and frustration, people say alot of things that they don't mean and that's how I interpreted her reaction for Sai, she has lost her grandson, her DIL and her son

When you have a family member and the relationship is the one between mother and son, do you really expect her to abuse her son while he is depressed?

You expect Ashwini or any mother will go "Good good, go and cry more, you deserve this pain"? It doesn't make sense for Ashwini to be loyal to someone who is no more, Anyone would try to make sure the living one lives a better life, respect and love for dead is understandable but that would never be more important for a mother than her son

If Ashwini was actually a 'practical and sensible' mother she can say following things:

To Virat:

"What's the use of being all emo.. now, when you had chance to do things right? you were taken over by emotions and what not... "

"You being depressed is not going to bring back your dead wife and son back..."

"You are doing the same mistake again by letting your emotions control you.. what if your indifference drives Pakhi into madness and then she suicides? will you blame yourself again for even her death? Or would you wait your son Vinu, to blame it on you"

"People should actually learn from their mistakes.. but godu... you just keep repeating the same mistakes and make you and other around you miserable"

"If you are just feeling guilty about what you did to Sai, then are you not repeating the same by doing it to Pakhi"

"If you think you are to be punished for what you did to Sai, then why is Patralekha getting Punished?"

"If you think Patralekha is also as much guilty as you are... then is this marriage your way of punishing her?"

"If this marriage is indeed a punishment for both of you.. then I can not help you, sorry.."

"But Vinu will definitely get the bad end of the deal as his parents are in a loveless marriage"

"Communicate what you are feeling... we cannot understand you unless you open your mouth and say it..."

"If it is too hard to communicate to us why not go for a counselor who can help you to move on"

"Moping around is not going to do anything.. honor her memory.. do something that will help you get the pain lessened... "

"Forgetting the past is not going to help you.. learn from the past mistakes. Accept that you have made mistakes just like every normal human being. Stop yourself from repeating the same mistakes again"

"I am not asking you to move on in your life for the sake of your happiness.. but for the sake of Vinu.. what is the use of adopting him, if you cannot provide him with a happy and positive environment to grow... he is not a toy with whom you can feel happiness.. He is a kid and it has many demands.. and one of them is an emotionally stable environment to grow."

"Bada.. you have always taken decisions without thinking their consequences.. And because of that many people including you had to suffer.. but now your every decision will affect Vinu.. Think properly... think from everyone's perspective.. before taking any decision "

To Patrlekha:

"Patralekha... I know you are suffering because of this loveless marriage.. but, you need to help Virat in this.. "

"Accept the fact that he loved Sai.. and 'listen' to him. Talk to him about his Sai, Share his grief... instead of getting jealous of a dead woman... accept that there was someone important in his life."

"You are his life partner... You both can depend on each other.. Encourage him to talk about his grief, his regrets, his pain... Even if it pains you to hear his love for another woman, you have to listen."

"As long as grief is ruling his heart, he would not be able to love anyone else.. so you should help him cope with his grief... Be his friend first, then his life partner"

"Love is not a race... where you have to be first or second.. Virat may love you in future but that does not mean that he will forget or hate Sai.. you need to be prepared for that.. "

"Love is selfless.. if you truly love him, then his happiness should be more important to you than your position in his heart"

"Maybe at some point, when Virat overcomes his grief, when you both are in a positive talking relationship, when are comfortable within each other's presence.. then you can talk to him about your feelings, your insecurities, Your dreams... he will not know anything as long as you are not clear with him."

"This may take years and years... Virat might never properly get over it... Accept that as your comeuppance for all that you have done in this life... Maybe helping Virat and Vinu by providing them unconditional love and support is your way of washing of your sins"

"You helping Virat is not just for your marital bliss. but also for Vinu... whom you love so much.. he needs to grow up in a healthy, nurturing environment.. and that is possible only if you both co-operate."

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Just things which my 'mom' and my 'mom-like-people' said to me and others around me, at different points of our lives.

If we go by what was shown in the episode. Virat ka dil toot ke bikhar chuka tha. So it looks like Virat was so depressed ki woh uss time gadhe se bhi shadi karleta, agar gadha uski zindagi savarta.

I will not negate the possibility of Patralekha bringing a child to bring happiness into Virat's life but since Patralekha has a record of all flop plans, this time also, she brought real Vinu only thinking this is some random child. Can be a possibility.

I know you are upset dear! But for once separate real logo marriage and itv marriages. Any itv marriage of male lead with an antagonist is always a sham

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I know you are upset dear! But for once separate real logo marriage and itv marriages. Any itv marriage of male lead with an antagonist is always a sham

Today s SBS discussion s if Virat and P r really married or doing natak for vinu s sake.

You have put it so well ❤️❤️.. but unfortunately ashwini and Chavans don’t have this much EQ .. to go about like this

They would not have got in this mess if they had even 1/4 of this much EQ ..

Originally posted by: msin

Why should pakhi see Sai ka pic .. first .. she will definitely search for her and tell her the truth. ..

And thats the next conflict...

I don't think she has changed...

So if she finds Sai, she might tell her truth about her marriage to V.

Making sure Sai is not coming back to CN.

If she turns total black, then like Sherry predicted it would be KD wala fake pregnancy. 😆

Aur agar Didi Sach main Badal gai Hai to she will divorce V and help in patchup.

Which option looks more believable 🤣

Originally posted by: kuchnaakahoo

Why is any Doctor at fault for Sai's death certificate. ACC to govt records she is dead. And Chavans have taken that info on face value

Questions is how gov. declared her dead.There was a doc. who did check up of Sai and declared her pregnancy. There are people who saw sai alive there.

and about unidentified dead bodies someone else can also claim them then how was sai declared dead.

Maybe it's virat who claimed that sai is dead and they took his words because he is a police officer and doesn't crosscheck.

And pakhi got hold on vinu that time but hide him for some month or some year so no one can recognize him as there own vinu.

They have made characters very shallow. I think that characters are now decided by TRPs and hence it is that way. Do you have any feelings about it? Plot toh of course, yes. But now even characters, I feel

That will be too funny .. if she really did not know this was the real vinu ., she the mother who has held him in her womb for 9 months .. could never perceive that kid could be the same one