Originally posted by: mistofshadows
I agree to this.
Aditya frankly is emotionally weak and a vulnerable man. He can be easily derailed with his past and trauma such that he loses his agency.
Ginni is emotional too but she has a resilience in herself to reach a solution no matter how convoluted it is and has the will to see it to the end irrespective of the pain inflicted on her.
Aditya cannot do that. He gives in, either to the hatred for his mother, the abandonment trauma of his past or even his baseless guilt. Ginni, on the other hand, is the shield that is used to getting battered in her struggle to protect.
Which is why despite all his Swag and Zid and better financial might, Aditya always Loses to Ginni. His drive is toxic and polluted by his traumatic past and negative emotions. Ginni, though naive has her drive of steel forged by her Father's principles and her mother's unconditional love. Ginni is definitely stronger and while she might fall in love first (who knows 🤷♀️) but her love will never be something that will blind her or deafen her. It will be the like the cool breeze of contender and the blanket of Belongingness for Adi but she will never deviate from her core characteristics.
Aditya on the other hand will change. He is a vulnerability man and at the face of a dedication and no condition love like Ginni's, he will meet his healings to age old wounds. He will get addicted to it and once that happens, he is never letting her go. He is the one who will change the most, finally freeing his real self from the binds of his past.
Adi has always lost. He always loses. But this time for the first time ever, he will win his soul mate.
Of course Darji ka Kaand will make an appearance then.
Good analysis Nikki as always.👍
But what annoys is the way he behaves with Ginni and her family
He is sweet to all even the sabji wala while purchasing vegetables.
He is ok with others
He is annoyed towards his family that is understandable coz of his bitter past
But his attitude towards Ginni is the reason he is losing his charm .
It's like he has lots of grudge towards her just coz she didn't give in to his dabba demands or taunted him on his family.
He thinks low of her just like his family.
A dumb dabbe wali who doesn't know anything
No class.
Gitya will only work if Aditya's perspectives towards Ginni changes.
He is thinking the same like his family.
That thought need to be changed and that is what the writer is building through this Sam track.
There could be a blessing in disguise behind this that we are not able to see as most of us are just disgusted with Sam 's appearance.
But whatever it is, the writer needs to bring it out fast before we lose further interest.
Gitya needs to be balanced despite their difference.
That is what is lacking
Their differences is what completes them but the writer needs to focus on that part more instead of negativity and humiliation drama.
Edited by Aniash - 2 years ago