Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #211 - Page 80

Originally posted by: SAOkr

i.e (4)one part of it before the bank shoot... but it was bearable for him as she was explaining him about cafe shoot and such....and he understood also...for most part i.e apart from over possessiveness(visible in cafe). yes because now fact is she cant take him to job everywhere...he feels somewhat the time she spends with him is less....as it takes time for him to adjust....

(5)yes more than the fact that she lied to him....it seemed he is more concerned that she lied to him even after he told him he would support her and lied to suman for the same...

and also the consequence...i.e without knowing the truth after seeing her with the man he again doubted her ...he is jealous frustated ...and by raavis response that she atleast deserve some trust ...it even frustated him more because somewhere he knew raavi was right when she said she deserved some trust but also he felt that he was right in questioning raavi why she lied....even after supporting her last time.....because he too deserved that trust...

i.e why he asked raavi if she was in same situation and if she saw him with other girl what would she have done ....the reply of raavi was same ...she would have also asked....i.e why he is frustated and angry because if raavi would have also questioned the same way as him why is he wrong....little do he realise that the tone in which he questioned was wrong smashing cup and all.... and raavi has also added that...her success hadnt made him happy... instead reality is he was jealous of that guy...which he hadn't been if he knew it was shoot...

now the day of water incident...again without being discussed about new job(although it was his fault of walking out )..and then without being called...the whole day...(although he could also have called her..but since he had been labelled as over possessive the previous day he didnt(this is my theory)).

now all this frustration anger came out when raavi came out without telling anything asked for a cup of water.. now you can call it ego...pent up anger..or anything it was unjustifiable and worst... and he knew it too... thats why when raavi asked him he cant even give a cup of water to his wife... he said that"choti soch" but in his rage he had done exactly that....which he himself hated because he himself had no problem helping dhara and his brothers cook... washing and arranging utensils with raavi...earlier...

so he know had done something which he himself thinks as cheap act... which is leading to self hate and resulting more anger and denying the act itself.....

added to the fact that raavi offered him a cup of tea after all this...

"his ego is hurt not his male ego but the ego as that of a person because before him raavi is standing as a person who had forgiven him so he is feeling guilty and angry at himself.. and at the same time his ego as a person who earlier had no problem helping raavi and other ladies is not allowing him to accept the fact that he has done something which he himselves loathes...

now comes the next day again rishita saying breakfast is made by shiva... raavi offering him a cup of water....again made him realise his fault and again he cant digest the fact raavi had forgiven him...instead he believes now that raavi is also taunting him for that incident....resulting again he is angry at raavi ..

now the room scene with all the anger pent up....now when raavi behaves such sweetly with him even after so much he cannot digest it looks to him that raavi is trying to control him ...like with the clothes scene...earlier he had no problems with raavi selecting clothes.... but now every word raavi spoke it seemed to him she is taunting him...because her kindness is reminding him of his mistakes resulting in self loathing and which result in thinking that raavi is also trying to be little himm... thus came the insecurity again.....

"but the interesting part here is raavi is also hiding the pain behind.... by fighting with him she exactly brought forth ...the pain of water incident and asked him to keep his ego aside...

but as always the greatest flaw of raavi in this relationship i.e being impulsive and impatient...if their is a fight you cannot solve it in a day especially when the situation is this grave...

in this situation raavi if she had been angry with him and ignored him and given him time after making himunderstand how grave his fault was... the misunderstanding in shivas mind that she is taunting him will not have occured...also the guilt of shiva which resulted in anger and self loathing and insecurity... would have been greatly reduced...after he had apologized to raavi....

but since raavi was so forgiving it made him even feel smaller in his mind resulting in his insecurities,,,

now during the party:

its just my view shiva had been more upset by the fact that girl insulted him by saying that ye jo bhi pehene kya farak padega raavi ke saath to chamkega hi...to him it is a way of demeaning because it questions his existence in society when he is with raavi....thats why he walked away rather than being jealous of raavis success...

so this is what is going on in his mind just my perception....after watching..

these fights show....raavi is hiding lot of pain and unknowingly she can open up her complaints in these fights... and shiva too expect raavi to point out his mistakes in their fights where he is wrong ...as he has said..

slowly but steadly raavi is learning to grow... by these situation it is draining because its too realistic but in society these situations occurs...

After reading this my dislike for shiva is reduced by 1%.

I really liked Ur perception for the situation but the truth is that it's only ur perception not of the writters. These writters sirsly don't care about what they are writing, they don't give this much though before writing. So I'm just expecting a fuski ending in just one episode without any proper build up of how they realised there mistakes and in the next episode this kaand will be forgotten like it never happened just like Shiva's death track, they didn't even have one heartfelt talk about that time. Also, how can we forget Raavi's apology! Voh to hogi hi.

Originally posted by: SAOkr

i.e (4)one part of it before the bank shoot... but it was bearable for him as she was explaining him about cafe shoot and such....and he understood also...for most part i.e apart from over possessiveness(visible in cafe). yes because now fact is she cant take him to job everywhere...he feels somewhat the time she spends with him is less....as it takes time for him to adjust....

(5)yes more than the fact that she lied to him....it seemed he is more concerned that she lied to him even after he told him he would support her and lied to suman for the same...

and also the consequence...i.e without knowing the truth after seeing her with the man he again doubted her ...he is jealous frustated ...and by raavis response that she atleast deserve some trust ...it even frustated him more because somewhere he knew raavi was right when she said she deserved some trust but also he felt that he was right in questioning raavi why she lied....even after supporting her last time.....because he too deserved that trust...

i.e why he asked raavi if she was in same situation and if she saw him with other girl what would she have done ....the reply of raavi was same ...she would have also asked....i.e why he is frustated and angry because if raavi would have also questioned the same way as him why is he wrong....little do he realise that the tone in which he questioned was wrong smashing cup and all.... and raavi has also added that...her success hadnt made him happy... instead reality is he was jealous of that guy...which he hadn't been if he knew it was shoot...

now the day of water incident...again without being discussed about new job(although it was his fault of walking out )..and then without being called...the whole day...(although he could also have called her..but since he had been labelled as over possessive the previous day he didnt(this is my theory)).

now all this frustration anger came out when raavi came out without telling anything asked for a cup of water.. now you can call it ego...pent up anger..or anything it was unjustifiable and worst... and he knew it too... thats why when raavi asked him he cant even give a cup of water to his wife... he said that"choti soch" but in his rage he had done exactly that....which he himself hated because he himself had no problem helping dhara and his brothers cook... washing and arranging utensils with raavi...earlier...

so he know had done something which he himself thinks as cheap act... which is leading to self hate and resulting more anger and denying the act itself.....

added to the fact that raavi offered him a cup of tea after all this...

"his ego is hurt not his male ego but the ego as that of a person because before him raavi is standing as a person who had forgiven him so he is feeling guilty and angry at himself.. and at the same time his ego as a person who earlier had no problem helping raavi and other ladies is not allowing him to accept the fact that he has done something which he himselves loathes...

now comes the next day again rishita saying breakfast is made by shiva... raavi offering him a cup of water....again made him realise his fault and again he cant digest the fact raavi had forgiven him...instead he believes now that raavi is also taunting him for that incident....resulting again he is angry at raavi ..

now the room scene with all the anger pent up....now when raavi behaves such sweetly with him even after so much he cannot digest it looks to him that raavi is trying to control him ...like with the clothes scene...earlier he had no problems with raavi selecting clothes.... but now every word raavi spoke it seemed to him she is taunting him...because her kindness is reminding him of his mistakes resulting in self loathing and which result in thinking that raavi is also trying to be little himm... thus came the insecurity again.....

"but the interesting part here is raavi is also hiding the pain behind.... by fighting with him she exactly brought forth ...the pain of water incident and asked him to keep his ego aside...

but as always the greatest flaw of raavi in this relationship i.e being impulsive and impatient...if their is a fight you cannot solve it in a day especially when the situation is this grave...

in this situation raavi if she had been angry with him and ignored him and given him time after making himunderstand how grave his fault was... the misunderstanding in shivas mind that she is taunting him will not have occured...also the guilt of shiva which resulted in anger and self loathing and insecurity... would have been greatly reduced...after he had apologized to raavi....

but since raavi was so forgiving it made him even feel smaller in his mind resulting in his insecurities,,,

now during the party:

its just my view shiva had been more upset by the fact that girl insulted him by saying that ye jo bhi pehene kya farak padega raavi ke saath to chamkega hi...to him it is a way of demeaning because it questions his existence in society when he is with raavi....thats why he walked away rather than being jealous of raavis success...

so this is what is going on in his mind just my perception....after watching..

these fights show....raavi is hiding lot of pain and unknowingly she can open up her complaints in these fights... and shiva too expect raavi to point out his mistakes in their fights where he is wrong ...as he has said..

slowly but steadly raavi is learning to grow... by these situation it is draining because its too realistic but in society these situations occurs...

Interesting take,

though still don’t get how is this situation turned ‘grave’ in span of couple of days per show’s timeline ?

how does that justify his evading communication & Reactions which do amount to undue anger? And taunts of Suman, mute compliance to those?

He expects, he responds, he allows… okay… but he still is not mature enough in relationship to accept, trust & allow room to grow! He is still too contained within his thought boundaries of Maa & Bhabhi! And expects Raavi to stay within as well.

Imho: writers , if at all they are trying to justify all the points you explained- are rather not able to convey them well!
As fans can waiver around & justify but as a normal viewer, the fault lines are too deep, to haphazard, out of the blue this time around & too repetitive.

Iss bar toh more hurtful after all the progress post second Shaadi!

Episode #491 came without synopsis and it had Suman on the thumbnail and the episode being 21 minutes long.

Episode starts with

Dhara and Raavi scene

Raavi comes to where Gautam and Dhara standing.

Raavi says, "Dhara di meine kuch nahi pata, Shiva aajkal sadumal banke ghoom raha hai mujhe nahi pata"

Dhara says, "kam se kam aaj ke dhin usse mana leti Raavi"

Raavi says, "kitni koshish karoon, jitni baar mein usse manane ki koshish karti hoon naa, woh samajne ki koshish hi nahi karta. Dhara di mujhe nahi pata please Shiva ko leke aajao naa warna mein cake nahi kaatoongi, aise success party ka kya faayda jab mera Shiva mere sat nahi hai, please"

Satynash!!!😡 They made Raavi ask Dhara for help.

How many more episodes will it take to clear Shivi MU. Now my patience is breaking. Raavi deserves all the respect from this maa beta.

Hope chikoo goes back to his mom never to came back to dora

Originally posted by: Lovely2021

How many more episodes will it take to clear Shivi MU. Now my patience is breaking. Raavi deserves all the respect from this maa beta.

Hope chikoo goes back to his mom never to came back to dora

Dhara is talking to Shiva today and she is bringing him back to the party😆

MU will not clear but Dhara is bringing him though.😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

Dhara is talking to Shiva today and he is bringing him back to the party😆

MU will not clear but Dhara is bringing him though.😆

That to we all guessed. Dora will bring when she stopped gombi. Kuch alkal mila uss gadhere ko???

Suman calls Kanta's bahu- Gulabi Lollipop 😆

Suman says she can hear her fight with her husband through her walls all night 😆

But Kanta's bahu is badtameesz aurat hai, usse manners nahi sikaya gaya hai, itne sunane ke baad bhi zubaan kainchee i ki tarah chal rahi hai.

She is just non-stop gutter mouth🤬

Shiva comes back but he is still livid with Raavi and when she was holding his hands, asked her remove but she was still holding him and later he shrugged her off and asked her not to become sweet in front of the neighbors, "mohalle waalon ke saamne zyaada chasni mat bann"

Dhara says to Gombi, "inn donon ka kuch nahi ho sakta"😆

He came only because Dhara asked him to come.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Shiva comes back but he is still livid with Raavi and when she was holding his hands, asked her remove but she was still holding him and later he shrugged her off and asked her not to become sweet in front of the neighbors, "mohalle waalon ke saamne zyaada chasni mat bann"

He came only because Dhara asked him to come.

👊👊👊👊👊to Shiva idiot Pandya

Shiva doesn't let Raavi feed him cake, instead takes the piece and eats it himself.

He says, "tere saat kada ho naa toh ye mat saamajna ki mera gussa tanda hogaya, tera toh pata nahi par mein naa tere izzat ka falooda nahi karoonga logon ko saamne, aayi badi"🤣🤣

(HYPOCRISY ALERT- WRITERS forget Temple Confrontation and Post Divorce kaand, he threw her out on the street in front of everyone)

Jhoot bolne ki bhi hadd hoti hai, mujhe sirf hasi hi aa rahi hai 😆

Raavi's reply for that, "Kaaran chahe jo bhi ho Shiva, tu aagaya naa mujhe bas itna hi kaafi hai" 😕