Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #211 - Page 79

Originally posted by: mpks1

At this time I am not even interested to see Shiva-Raavi story anymore, it’s the same shit every few months, major MU for months with constant fights, accusations, abuse and humiliation and then BhabiMa unites them. This is the 3rd time within a year and it is now getting stale 🙄

I don’t mind them being sidelined of this is the only story/track writers have for them. If I want to see good progress and a great story line for couples like them, I have Kathir-Mullai to turn to, best written hate turned to love story in a long time and the couple is still going very strong,

Now I don’t mind watching Rishita struggling to raise the baby on her own 😆

As for Akshay, already he only works 2 days on PS sets, so it doesn’t matter if they turn him into recurring instead of one of the main cast members 😆

Same, I don't want to see the same Shiva and Raavi's story again because it is of no use. They keep going back to the same thing with bhabhi being the savior of their relationship again. Also it sends out such a bad message about Shiva that he only understands one person talking sense that is his bhabhi 🤬

Earlier I wanted the makers to make Shivi the main lead of the show not only because I like them but because I didn't want the show to end and I knew that if Shivi were the leads the TRP would increase. Now, however, I want them to put Shivi in the background because nobody is interested in bhabhi and bacha track and the TRP would decrease and the show can finally end. The time is really near for this show to go off air and I hope that time comes sooner rather than later.

Once Suman said after the 3rd angle track to Raavi

“aye Markundi gaay, teri agni parikha lambi chalegi”

This statement is absolutely true!

Her agni pariksha started with her first marriage to Shiva and there is no sign of it stopping. It is going to be lifelong for her.

All this girl wanted was a family and a husband who will unconditionally love her and support her but is she getting it? No!

What an unfortunate soul Raavi is!! 😕

Originally posted by: Palak2812

https://www.bollywoodmdb.com/tv-news-adda/pandya-store-fame-shiny-doshi-narrates-the-incident-when-saraswatichandra-director-scorned-her

Lmao perfect highschool babe. 🤣🤣

Mujhe hansi aagyi.

Originally posted by: spdp

Ben gone berserk!

1. First article: came to mumbai w/ 15k, bhai ko padhaya, maa ka kharcha , papa not giving money etc - floated by forever faithful Mr. me-rani.

: where as Bhai is older to her, papa & family upper middle class, she was studying in high fees nift & her then bf/‘rumored’ pati was picking all her bills! Wrong to implicate simple family. Resulted her bhai bhabhi avoiding her.

2. 2nd: tantrum & run away on back to back vacations! Who knows what negotiations & back set up is going on?! Daal is boiling black 😎
3. Sudden - out of the blue- pushed merani to write well 🧐for Someone she is highly insecure about: Lead of her show: Raavi! Give away was hinting her well to go for: Jhalak, big boss etc. Another ‘source’ give away: a promo mention of shiny dixit & other costar in that ‘likhna padenga’ piece!

4. In her recent vacation: a couple of tweets & her ‘sources’ promptly floating articles - again through old faith ful merani- gosdip-biz “awwie: No Leadben is not giving mukti to Pandyastore.” Chutkara not granted😭
5. Bigger buzz attempt: blame it on Person who launched you! Trying to create controversy! Hmmmmm 🫡🤥He was correct though: acting is not yr thing. Ye satya hai. Not to miss: claim she is now LEAD - not only in Pandyastore but in ITV 🤣🤣

What next!?

No clue! But will support & vote: if she goes bigboss- Jhalak.
Vas Pandyastore mein let bhabhi bhaago- gayab for good! W/o return ticket.

@Bold: Knowing that person won't ever reply back

Originally posted by: deeps07

But sai is atleast standing up for herself..she knows they r doing wrong to her..

Raavi is not even standing up for herself..rather she is convinced to believe she was the one wrong to demand some respect.

True

She speaks and mast bajati hain woh on top of that she has many people who cares for her and defends her.

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Most importantly except 1 track

Sai has always been shown correct and on winning side.

Unlike Raavi who has no one, for gets dialgoues to defend herself and always apologising and getting insulted.

Originally posted by: NayaD31

Yes, even in GHUM they showed Sai as bechari to whitewash Mahaan ML, then Trp dropped massively waha toh every Thursday the story and characters flip.. TRP audience likes strong characters, not becharis so they keep on showing her upper hand every two episodes..!! Favouritism has doomed the tv industry as well...!!

TRP System and Favourtism is dooming ITV.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Once Suman said after the 3rd angle track to Raavi

“aye Markundi gaay, teri agni parikha lambi chalegi”

This statement is absolutely true!

Her agni pariksha started with her first marriage to Shiva and there is no sign of it stopping. It is going to be lifelong for her.

All this girl wanted was a family and a husband who will unconditionally love her and support her but is she getting it? No!

What an unfortunate soul Raavi is!! 😕

Correct me if I am wrong

Suman said Raavi ka free ka thos rahi hain so kaam karna padega when she returned back to house after Shiva ne uski izzat utaar di in whole Somnath.

Shiva was there, he didn't opposed him mother nor he said his mother was wrong.

So ab uski fans Raavi ka ek din (paise) wale comment ko lekar Shiva ke liye sympathy kyu maang rahi hain har jagah ?

Bhai fact he tha na ?

Bhabhibhakti and finding ways to demean and make Raavi guilty ki jagah dukaan per kaam karenge tab he na paise aayenge.

If someone watches this show, they are going to be confused about who is the antagonist - Dhonjulika, BailBuddhi or English MIL. Teeno ek se badhkar ek hain. 🤬

Please can SP take come action and just end this show?! Enough is enough. There is nothing good about this show, and three actors (sadly) cannot save it when two of them are unbearable on-screen.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Correct me if I am wrong

Suman said Raavi ka free ka thos rahi hain so kaam karna padega when she returned back to house after Shiva ne uski izzat utaar di in whole Somnath.

Shiva was there, he didn't opposed him mother nor he said his mother was wrong.

So ab uski fans Raavi ka ek din (paise) wale comment ko lekar Shiva ke liye sympathy kyu maang rahi hain har jagah ?

Bhai fact he tha na ?

Bhabhibhakti and finding ways to demean and make Raavi guilty ki jagah dukaan per kaam karenge tab he na paise aayenge.

Yes, Suman asked her to work if she has to live in that house - both times. First time when she returned for Dhara, second time after the divorce kaand. Both times she warned that Raavi will not get free ka khaana.

Since the time Raavi returned to Kandya Niwas in episode #199 until Remarriage track episode #372, Raavi was not allowed to sit with the rest of them to eat.

Different character different set of rules. They also called her shameless for forcing herself to stay in Kandya Niwas after Shiva threw her out of the house during the divorce kaand.

Shiva got riled up that Raavi put false allegations against him to get the divorce done, when it was all Mami who did it. Idiot didn’t even he bother to investigate or cross check if Raavi could have ever done something like this.

But in those 2 months she was in Kandya post IVF kaand and divorce kaand, oh boy! the abuse, taunts, humiliation, insults at the hands of Suman and Shiva, any other girl would have left the house or even committed suicide, but the makers made Raavi thick skinned, pyar mei paagal and a deet and she lacked SELF RESPECT big time.

Suman called her kachra, gandha khoon, even wished she would die

Shiva called her dhokebaaz, beimman, besharam

Raavi still lacks self respect and self esteem.

He did not understand or trust her back then, doing the same thing again this time too.

Roz, roz ka taane sunn naa, subah utke berukhi baatein sunn na, are back again in full swing.

His mother is taunting her, all he doing is eating parathas,. There you go, the fangirls got their angst.

Originally posted by: nami2811

Is anyone able to understand Shiva's POV? Coz I'm clearly unable to. Keeping aside my love for Raavi and trying to get into Shiva's shoes (they're smelly)

1. Is he sad that he is losing importance in Raavi's life?

2. Is he upset coz he's thinking Raavi doesn't love him as much as her phone?

3. Is he affected by her taraqi? (I guess no coz he clearly likes her getting name and fame)

4. Is he upset coz he's not getting to spend quality time with her?

5. Is he upset coz she lied to him about the bank shoot? (most probably yes).

My guess is #5 but for how long will he have this face? Can he please mellow down 😒

i.e (4)one part of it before the bank shoot... but it was bearable for him as she was explaining him about cafe shoot and such....and he understood also...for most part i.e apart from over possessiveness(visible in cafe). yes because now fact is she cant take him to job everywhere...he feels somewhat the time she spends with him is less....as it takes time for him to adjust....

(5)yes more than the fact that she lied to him....it seemed he is more concerned that she lied to him even after he told him he would support her and lied to suman for the same...

and also the consequence...i.e without knowing the truth after seeing her with the man he again doubted her ...he is jealous frustated ...and by raavis response that she atleast deserve some trust ...it even frustated him more because somewhere he knew raavi was right when she said she deserved some trust but also he felt that he was right in questioning raavi why she lied....even after supporting her last time.....because he too deserved that trust...

i.e why he asked raavi if she was in same situation and if she saw him with other girl what would she have done ....the reply of raavi was same ...she would have also asked....i.e why he is frustated and angry because if raavi would have also questioned the same way as him why is he wrong....little do he realise that the tone in which he questioned was wrong smashing cup and all.... and raavi has also added that...her success hadnt made him happy... instead reality is he was jealous of that guy...which he hadn't been if he knew it was shoot...

now the day of water incident...again without being discussed about new job(although it was his fault of walking out )..and then without being called...the whole day...(although he could also have called her..but since he had been labelled as over possessive the previous day he didnt(this is my theory)).

now all this frustration anger came out when raavi came out without telling anything asked for a cup of water.. now you can call it ego...pent up anger..or anything it was unjustifiable and worst... and he knew it too... thats why when raavi asked him he cant even give a cup of water to his wife... he said that"choti soch" but in his rage he had done exactly that....which he himself hated because he himself had no problem helping dhara and his brothers cook... washing and arranging utensils with raavi...earlier...

so he know had done something which he himself thinks as cheap act... which is leading to self hate and resulting more anger and denying the act itself.....

added to the fact that raavi offered him a cup of tea after all this...

"his ego is hurt not his male ego but the ego as that of a person because before him raavi is standing as a person who had forgiven him so he is feeling guilty and angry at himself.. and at the same time his ego as a person who earlier had no problem helping raavi and other ladies is not allowing him to accept the fact that he has done something which he himselves loathes...

now comes the next day again rishita saying breakfast is made by shiva... raavi offering him a cup of water....again made him realise his fault and again he cant digest the fact raavi had forgiven him...instead he believes now that raavi is also taunting him for that incident....resulting again he is angry at raavi ..

now the room scene with all the anger pent up....now when raavi behaves such sweetly with him even after so much he cannot digest it looks to him that raavi is trying to control him ...like with the clothes scene...earlier he had no problems with raavi selecting clothes.... but now every word raavi spoke it seemed to him she is taunting him...because her kindness is reminding him of his mistakes resulting in self loathing and which result in thinking that raavi is also trying to be little himm... thus came the insecurity again.....

"but the interesting part here is raavi is also hiding the pain behind.... by fighting with him she exactly brought forth ...the pain of water incident and asked him to keep his ego aside...

but as always the greatest flaw of raavi in this relationship i.e being impulsive and impatient...if their is a fight you cannot solve it in a day especially when the situation is this grave...

in this situation raavi if she had been angry with him and ignored him and given him time after making himunderstand how grave his fault was... the misunderstanding in shivas mind that she is taunting him will not have occured...also the guilt of shiva which resulted in anger and self loathing and insecurity... would have been greatly reduced...after he had apologized to raavi....

but since raavi was so forgiving it made him even feel smaller in his mind resulting in his insecurities,,,

now during the party:

its just my view shiva had been more upset by the fact that girl insulted him by saying that ye jo bhi pehene kya farak padega raavi ke saath to chamkega hi...to him it is a way of demeaning because it questions his existence in society when he is with raavi....thats why he walked away rather than being jealous of raavis success...

so this is what is going on in his mind just my perception....after watching..

these fights show....raavi is hiding lot of pain and unknowingly she can open up her complaints in these fights... and shiva too expect raavi to point out his mistakes in their fights where he is wrong ...as he has said..

slowly but steadly raavi is learning to grow... by these situation it is draining because its too realistic but in society these situations occurs...