Habs: Feroze Khan - Ushna Shah (ARY drama) - Page 68

Originally posted by: twerping

Yeah...as Basit grew older things had become sin bitter between him and his mother and Salman Sahab did nothing to make things better until he fell ill. It was only when he knew he was dying that he called Sadia to come back. And to her credit she immediately returned.

But I want to say something...while I can understand what happened and how Sadia left, I do not condone her behaviour. Her abandonment had a streak of selfishness in it just as Salman Sahab's refusal to give Basit to her also had a streak of selfishness in it. But Basit obviously grew up with his father and surrounded by his father's love. So while he sees the wrongs in his mother's behaviour,.he is quite blind to the mistakes that his father had made.

I agree..he is blind to his father's mistakes..may be be blames his mother for that too..if she was there for them, this situation wouldn't arise.

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

exactly , i wanted to hear this 🥰🥰🥰. But tbh after his many outbursts, that beautiful and charming smile seemed misplaced . And Ayesha seems to have fallen already in love or attraction or fascination ( whatever you say) . the many efforts coming from her side is a proof. And you feel bad for her . But it seems realistic you know . Any normal girl would do that . Specially the one who has been devoid of male protection all her life .

Ayesha , is hoping to make the connection . But Basit is playing hard to get . Let's see what happens in future .

And from what I see , once Basit falls in love , he would be more vulnerable than Ayesha

And we are waiting for it 🥺🥺🥺😌😌😌😊😊😊

P.s - i am a huge Parth samthan fan 😋

There is a lot of pathos in Basit's character. In Ayesha's as well but in the case of Basit is more difficult to understand his vulnerabilities.

Originally posted by: Krinya

I agree..he is blind to his father's mistakes..may be be blames his mother for that too..if she was there for them, this situation wouldn't arise.

Exactly...and I love the fact that the show doesn't direct you to think in a particular way. It leaves it to the viewer how to interpret these relations. People might come away thinking that Basit's father was a saintly man who had been betrayed by his wife (Wwhich is exactly what Basit thinks) but there are hints there in the scenes that tell you things are more complicated than that.

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

exactly , i wanted to hear this 🥰🥰🥰. But tbh after his many outbursts, that beautiful and charming smile seemed misplaced . And Ayesha seems to have fallen already in love or attraction or fascination ( whatever you say) . the many efforts coming from her side is a proof. And you feel bad for her . But it seems realistic you know . Any normal girl would do that . Specially the one who has been devoid of male protection all her life .

His outbursts were not bec of Ayesha yaar ..he can't handle stressful situations ..in the past also he was visibly upset bec he lost control over his business coz of his fathers will..he is not used to things not going his way . Vaise it was ott reaction..Ayesha par itna shout karna nai banta tha ..if the envelop was this imp to him he cud have folded it and kept it in his pocket , or asked it bk in the party itself .

Ayesha is smitten..definitely. I love her character..totally surrendered to fate ..do you duty and stop expecting. I loved how she kept hersrlf busy with shopping , cooking, instructing the servants , trying to know his habits from Karim..in that also he kept saying "ye aapka kaam nahi hai"😆 n she had the perfect reply for him after which basit was speechless as usual 😆it's def realistic ..

Ps I am more of a kyy fan😛

Originally posted by: twerping

Exactly...and I love the fact that the show doesn't direct you to think in a particular way. It leaves it to the viewer how to interpret these relations. People might come away thinking that Basit's father was a saintly man who had been betrayed by his wife (Wwhich is exactly what Basit thinks) but there are hints there in the scenes that tell you things are more complicated than that.

Basit learns that ...... His father was a busy man , and like Basit , he was not emotionally involved with his wife . Like used to ignore her , didn't give her time ..

Then it will be an eye opener for him . Coz Basit is doing exactly that . He is not giving her that love that Ayesha is deserving of

So , it could be nice turns of events 😌😌

Originally posted by: Krinya

His outbursts were not bec of Ayesha yaar ..he can't handle stressful situations ..in the past also he was visibly upset bec he lost control over his business coz of his fathers will..he is not used to things not going his way . Vaise it was ott reaction..Ayesha par itna shout karna nai banta tha ..if the envelop was this imp to him he cud have folded it and kept it in his pocket , or asked it bk in the party itself .

Ayesha is smitten..definitely. I love her character..totally surrendered to fate ..do you duty and stop expecting. I loved how she kept hersrlf busy with shopping , cooking, instructing the servants , trying to know his habits from Karim..in that also he kept saying "ye aapka kaam nahi hai"😆 n she had the perfect reply for him after which basit was speechless as usual 😆it's def realistic ..

Ps I am more of a kyy fan😛

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

yeah , it would be a great surprise if it turns out this way -

Basit learns that ...... His father was a busy man , and like Basit , he was not emotionally involved with his wife . Like used to ignore her , didn't give her time ..

Then it will be an eye opener for him . Coz Basit is doing exactly that . He is not giving her that love that Ayesha is deserving of

So , it could be nice turns of events 😌😌

The thing about divorces is when parents divorce or separate, they should be very careful not to draw the child into the conflict that is between the parents. In Basit's case, this did not happen. He picked a side. Perhaps we will slowly see him view his mother not as the betrayer of his father and the person who abandoned him. Obviously the fact that she left him is a major source of pain for him. And he will have to accept her with that bitter history lies between them. But perhaps he will stop arguing with her on behalf of his father.

I don't want to think Basit's father was not a loving husband. Perhaps it was just that she did not love him. And perhaps it was wrong of her to pick her love over her child. I want to see Sadia and Basit at some point talk about the season pain and hurt that lies between them like two mature individuals. Till now he has only responded to her through taunts that come from the hurt that lies within him.

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

ek din aayega , when Basit would himself get irritated , when she would not be near him for dinner , doesn't ask him for coffe or doesn't give him his wallet 😋😌

I am very excited about the promo...I think he will be very shocked when she brings him the wallet.

Another beautiful fan edit to start off this evening's fangirling...

Credit original uploader

https://youtu.be/VDIxcIsyqMo

Also I was thinking about why Ayesha brightened up when Basit started talking about office work and another thought came to me.

This whole marriage thing is difficult for Ayesha as well as Basit. We see her trying to so hard to keep up her end of the duties that such a relationship demands but it must not be easy for her...especially since she is not getting any encouragement from her husband/partner. But when he spoke to her about office work, that was familiar territory for her. She had adjusted into her work and knew how to behave when he talked about the company work. That is why I think we see her suddenly relax when he talks about the SWOT analysis report. Otherwise, before that she was so serious because while she made that monumental effort of trying to bridge the gap between them, inside she must have been unbelievably stressed out.