Aik Sitam Aur(Thread 8) Usama Khan, Anmol Baloch ( ARY Digital ) - Page 12

Originally posted by: spnfan

She wants that over this 🤢

Ye pic kis episode ki hai 😍😍

Originally posted by: spnfan

Zainu is anyday better than sufi creepy. She is kind of cute🤣

Yeah Usama has still better taste 🤢

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Eww 🤢

I have screenshots of Shehroz to soothe my eyes

I miss those days😭

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Ye pic kis episode ki hai 😍😍

I don't think ye ASA ke hai. Downloaded from Google for the post

I didn't watch episode, what's with Ushna loves Suffy? Is it shown on episode?

Well if we look back at the situation from the beginning and I have to keep my shipping aside💔. Ushna wasn't interested in anyone. She wasn't ready to fall in love or get married and that's understandable because she hasn't completed her college yet. Now not getting married or not falling in love doesn't mean that a girl shouldn't enjoy attention from a guy. There's something called dating and that doesn't come with any commitment promise. Now, she was brought up in religious environment in a below middle class family, so dating and hanging around with male friends were out of syllabus. Sufi was obsessed with Ushna since long, he used to chakkar Kato Zainab and Furkan's home since long time to impress entire family. She was enjoying his attention and gift as it was coming without asking and she had no other male friend as a choice. That's normal for any young girl.

She had dropped the idea to take the relationship further when she was there at Mukhtar house and none his family member considered her and Zainab human enough to give basic respect. Her decision became more firm when Sufi dumped her there to get abused and cursed by Raeesa after information his parents about his feelings for her. She has clearly said this to Sufi that love without respect is big 'no' for her. She never considered Sufiyan as an option until Zainab dropped the bomb of getting her married with Shehroz. She never wanted to do that. She had this perception that she'll neither get love, not respect with him, she can't be his wife just because his parents were nice. Nor Shehroz ever tried to convince her with fact that he's already attracted towards her and they can work out on their messed up equations. He would always make her feel that she will be a showpiece wife because his mom likes her.

She had never said firmly no to Sufi because she never wanted to say that. She had tried her level best not to get married to Shehroz at any cost, and that's her basic human right to reject anyone. Out of 3 worst given proposal, in her opinion Sufi was the best. Other side he was gentleman with her and she cannot hold him responsible for his parents' misdeeds. But again, she had never said that she was in love. Their deal was that he has to convince Zainab at any cost, there won't be any marriage if Zainab says 'no'. She had never given him hope that she'll ever go against her mother. And finally when Sufi failed to meet one of the important requirement of their deal, and she had decided to go ahead with her mother's choice and informed him that not to try anything anymore. Sufi creepy wasn't able to handle that. The way he revealed the adoption truth was worst, he literally tried to brainwash her against Zainab. Let's give him benefit of doubt as he was a aashiq and everything is fair in love and war. He tried his level best to get his love. When Zainab never cared for his feelings, he didn't want to become a sacrificial goat and he played his card with hope Ushna would come to him after that truth. But when she didn't agree after that and said 'no' to him very clearly there he should have stopped.

Now, when to say 'no' or how to say 'no' or when 'no' should be taken seriously aren't logical questions. No is a no. Your feelings, your love, your hope, your aashiqui have no importance when there's no concent from other side. If only you are important for yourself, go and fall in love with yourself and get married to yourself because that involves only you. If you are in love with other human, there should be mutual feelings from other side, otherwise back off. The chapter of concent should be included in school syllabus to educate them from beginning the importance of concent.

Coming to creepy Sufi, he was brought up by Raeesa who herself has never taken no, so her aulaads don't understand no is not even suprise. She and Rafakat were active players in this game to chipkao Sufiyan and Ushna and fix Sadaf with Shehroz untill Wahab had done all arrangements to bring them on road. Rafakat has learned his lesson of life. If Raeesa is asking Sufi to back off, not because it's wrong to harass any girl or Ushna is married, she's acting sensible because she knows she'll be sitting on road with katora if Sufi tried to force himself on Ushna, otherwise she would have supported Sufi in all wrong deeds. There's fault in her upbringing which is not only visible in Sufi, but Sadaf is butthurt over a rejection where she wasn't even a choice.

Note- I feel so useless doing these kind of PhD and typing essays. 😆If I had written this much in exam, I would have got distinction. 😆 I swear no ongoing Pak drama for me after this one.

Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

I didn't watch episode, what's with Ushna loves Suffy? Is it shown on episode?

Not directly 🤣

She is being meek and talking casually to sufi creepy like he never stalked her.

She even kept quite when her two maamis were comparing sufi creepy to shehroze 😡

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

Well if we look back at the situation from the beginning and I have to keep my shipping aside💔. Ushna wasn't interested in anyone. She wasn't ready to fall in love or get married and that's understandable because she hasn't completed her college yet. Now not getting married or not falling in love doesn't mean that a girl shouldn't enjoy attention from a guy. There's something called dating and that doesn't come with any commitment promise. Now, she was brought up in religious environment in a below middle class family, so dating and hanging around with male friends were out of syllabus. Sufi was obsessed with Ushna since long, he used to chakkar Kato Zainab and Furkan's home since long time to impress entire family. She was enjoying his attention and gift as it was coming without asking and she had no other male friend as a choice. That's normal for any young girl.

She had dropped the idea to take the relationship further when she was there at Mukhtar house and none his family member considered her and Zainab human enough to give basic respect. Her decision became more firm when Sufi dumped her there to get abused and cursed by Raeesa after information his parents about his feelings for her. She has clearly said this to Sufi that love without respect is big 'no' for her. She never considered Sufiyan as an option until Zainab dropped the bomb of getting her married with Shehroz. She never wanted to do that. She had this perception that she'll neither get love, not respect with him, she can't be his wife just because his parents were nice. Nor Shehroz ever tried to convince her with fact that he's already attracted towards her and they can work out on their messed up equations. He would always make her feel that he will be a show piece wife because his mom likes her.

She had never said firmly no to Sufi because she never wanted to say that. She had tried her level best not to get married to Shehroz at any cost, and that's her basic human right to reject anyone. Out of 3 worst given proposal, in her opinion Sufi was the best. Other side he was gentleman with her and she cannot hold him responsible for his parents' misdeeds. But again, she had never said that she was in love. Their deal was that he has to convince Zainab at any cost, there won't be any marriage if Zainab says 'no'. She had never given him hope that she'll ever go against her mother. And finally when Sufi failed to meet one of the important requirement of their deal, and she had decided to go ahead with her mother's choice and informed him that not to try anything anymore. Sufi creepy wasn't able to handle that. The way he revealed the adoption truth was worst, he literally tried to brainwash her against Zainab. Let's give him benefit of doubt as he was a aashiq and everything is fair in love and war. He tried his level best to get his love. When Zainab never cared for his feelings, he didn't want to become a sacrificial goat and he played his card with hope Ushna would come to him after that truth. But when she didn't agree after that and said 'no' to him very clearly there he should have stopped.

Now, when to say 'no' or how to say 'no' or when 'no' should be taken seriously aren't logical questions. No is a no. Your feelings, your love, your hope, your aashiqui have no importance when there's no concent from other side. If only you are important for yourself, go and fall in love with yourself and get married to yourself because that involves only you. If you are in love with other human, there should be mutual feelings from other side, otherwise back off. The chapter of concent should be included in school syllabus to educate them from beginning the importance of concent.

Coming to creepy Sufi, he was brought up by Raeesa who herself has never taken no, so her aulaads don't understand no is not even suprise. She and Rafakat were active players in this game to chipkao Sufiyan and Ushna and fix Sadaf with Shehroz untill Wahab had done all arrangements to bring them on road. Rafakat has learned his lesson of life. If Raeesa is asking Sufi to back off, not because it's wrong to harass any girl or Ushna is married, she's acting sensible because she knows she'll be sitting on road with katora if Sufi tried to force himself on Ushna, otherwise she would have supported Sufi in all wrong deeds. There's fault in her upbringing which is not only visible in only Sufi, but Sadaf is butthurt over a rejection where she wasn't even a choice.

Note- I feel so useless doing these kind of PhD and typing essays. 😆If I had written this much in exam, I would have got distinction. 😆 I swear no ongoing Pak drama for me after this one.

Damn , you have explained it so well!!

The consent part especially ❤️wish people were taught about this since childhood 💔

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

Well if we look back at the situation from the beginning and I have to keep my shipping aside💔. Ushna wasn't interested in anyone. She wasn't ready to fall in love or get married and that's understandable because she hasn't completed her college yet. Now not getting married or not falling in love doesn't mean that a girl shouldn't enjoy attention from a guy. There's something called dating and that doesn't come with any commitment promise. Now, she was brought up in religious environment in a below middle class family, so dating and hanging around with male friends were out of syllabus. Sufi was obsessed with Ushna since long, he used to chakkar Kato Zainab and Furkan's home since long time to impress entire family. She was enjoying his attention and gift as it was coming without asking and she had no other male friend as a choice. That's normal for any young girl.

She had dropped the idea to take the relationship further when she was there at Mukhtar house and none his family member considered her and Zainab human enough to give basic respect. Her decision became more firm when Sufi dumped her there to get abused and cursed by Raeesa after information his parents about his feelings for her. She has clearly said this to Sufi that love without respect is big 'no' for her. She never considered Sufiyan as an option until Zainab dropped the bomb of getting her married with Shehroz. She never wanted to do that. She had this perception that she'll neither get love, not respect with him, she can't be his wife just because his parents were nice. Nor Shehroz ever tried to convince her with fact that he's already attracted towards her and they can work out on their messed up equations. He would always make her feel that he will be a show piece wife because his mom likes her.

She had never said firmly no to Sufi because she never wanted to say that. She had tried her level best not to get married to Shehroz at any cost, and that's her basic human right to reject anyone. Out of 3 worst given proposal, in her opinion Sufi was the best. Other side he was gentleman with her and she cannot hold him responsible for his parents' misdeeds. But again, she had never said that she was in love. Their deal was that he has to convince Zainab at any cost, there won't be any marriage if Zainab says 'no'. She had never given him hope that she'll ever go against her mother. And finally when Sufi failed to meet one of the important requirement of their deal, and she had decided to go ahead with her mother's choice and informed him that not to try anything anymore. Sufi creepy wasn't able to handle that. The way he revealed the adoption truth was worst, he literally tried to brainwash her against Zainab. Let's give him benefit of doubt as he was a aashiq and everything is fair in love and war. He tried his level best to get his love. When Zainab never cared for his feelings, he didn't want to become a sacrificial goat and he played his card with hope Ushna would come to him after that truth. But when she didn't agree after that and said 'no' to him very clearly there he should have stopped.

Now, when to say 'no' or how to say 'no' or when 'no' should be taken seriously aren't logical questions. No is a no. Your feelings, your love, your hope, your aashiqui have no importance when there's no concent from other side. If only you are important for yourself, go and fall in love with yourself and get married to yourself because that involves only you. If you are in love with other human, there should be mutual feelings from other side, otherwise back off. The chapter of concent should be included in school syllabus to educate them from beginning the importance of concent.

Coming to creepy Sufi, he was brought up by Raeesa who herself has never taken no, so her aulaads don't understand no is not even suprise. She and Rafakat were active players in this game to chipkao Sufiyan and Ushna and fix Sadaf with Shehroz untill Wahab had done all arrangements to bring them on road. Rafakat has learned his lesson of life. If Raeesa is asking Sufi to back off, not because it's wrong to harass any girl or Ushna is married, she's acting sensible because she knows she'll be sitting on road with katora if Sufi tried to force himself on Ushna, otherwise she would have supported Sufi in all wrong deeds. There's fault in her upbringing which is not only visible in only Sufi, but Sadaf is butthurt over a rejection where she wasn't even a choice.

Note- I feel so useless doing these kind of PhD and typing essays. 😆If I had written this much in exam, I would have got distinction. 😆 I swear no ongoing Pak drama for me after this one.

I agree on everything you said and i agree that shehroze hasn't given her one good enough reason for her to get married to him until the adoption truth got revealed. She then saw that he isn't as bad as he seems. He took care of zainab and even scolded ushna for being mean to her mother.

But after marriage she shouldnt have any doubts or need to care about sufi creepy's feelings.

She blocked his number after hearing an ear full from Naima. Then she talked to him when he called her from a different number. What was stopping her from cutting the call the moment she knew it was him? Why didn't she block his second number and why she again took his call and even asked why he is calling her? That too on the next day after shehroze clearly showed his disappointment seeing her with sufi saabun at the mehndi😡.