Aik Sitam Aur(Thread 7) Usama Khan, Anmol Baloch ( ARY Digital ) - Page 68

Originally posted by: spnfan

Zainab goes around telling ushna on how to make her marriage work but also lets her attend functions where sufiyan is present.

She wants to keep her relationship with her brothers. Fine do it. Why allow ushna to be around the people that looked down on her throughout their lives?

That's how marriage should be saved and worked, first create a problem, and then go around protecting it.😆 What is she supposed to work on when there is no trouble, to begin with?

Originally posted by: vibha28

Sometimes I do feel that have Zunaisha come back and blast that Naima. But yes nothing has changed from the maika as they are still the same. Some maybe have seen the hands of karma but otherwise same ole.

Romeo is beyond any words. Is he in love or hate I don't know but he is busy being a plagiarist right now stealing documents. So apart from being a stalker, trespasser, attempted murderer, attempt to plot a murder, now we can add corporate theft to his growing list of offenses, let's not forget he has also been in the jail few times.

He has taken a name given by you 'Romeo' too seriously. He is working on 'Romeo naam mera, chori hai kaam mera'😆

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

In Rafakat's family, nobody has changed for good. Shujat and family aren't some Saints, but they are harmless. They wouldn't go around talking like they have done some favour on entire world.

Rafakat has changed his attitude because he has realised that he has been beaten by karma for all injustice he has done with his sister, but if there was any genuine regret, he would have asked Zainab to take her shares from property. He knows Zainab won't ask for it and now she belongs to an influential family and he can use her reference to hide all crimes of creepy Sufi who is uncontrollable.

Raeesa is like totally hopeless case, even karma has given up on her. She had gone through entire process of humiliation, but she's the same money minded. She would not take poor Zainab's daughter who had lost her father, but she's desperate to take the same girl if she gets dumped by Shehroz because she would come with money. Her own daughter was dumped by a guy 2 days before marriage for having no character, but she would go around giving advice to Zainab that she was too quick to select Shehroz for her daughter, she should have given more chance to her creepy to commit more crimes.. Wasn't she herself desperate to get Sadaf married with same Shehroz?

Sadaf is same muh boli divorcee of Shehroz. She thinks herself as princess who was not blessed by any rich prince. Ended up with stand up comedian.

Sufi creepy getting more creepy and thinks himself as Albert Einstein after stealing others work. His khujli for married women increasing day by day.

The only change in raeesa was due to rafaqat's health and it has nothing to do with zainab. She simply went against her children's wishes for rafaqat. She didn't change herself in anyway.

Rafaqat also only realised that he raised monsters. I don't think he has anything left to give to zainab. Sufi creepy ne kaafi nuksan liya hai and sujat also took his shares.

Shujat and family was never a thread to anyone. There is nothing much to change there.

Sufi creepy and sadaf are devils. One was openly a devil from the start and the other covered up his real face at the start.

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Ok so Raeesa and family are manipulating Zainab against Shehroz. So, they would push Ushna to divorce Shehroz and marry Sufiyan

Sufiyan again touches Ushna ,holds her hand 😈

Ushna goes to meet Zainab in mukhtar house and Naima tells Shehroz , she went to meet Sufiyan

Shehroz in the mehndi asks Sufiyan to back off and how Sufiyan dared to touch his wife.

So, overall, everyone is playing games and puppet becomes Shehroz ( because of his bad personality traits ) and Zainab ( becauase of her being over emotional) and the person who will suffer the most in all this is Ushna..

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Hatts off to you to sit through this crap

Originally posted by: Araya

Zainab's problem is that she sees those snakes as her family, the ones that bullied and blackmailed and looked down upon her and her daughter for years. The same ones that came slithering back into her life after they ousted her because she got a rich husband. Zainab and Ushna forgives and forgets far too easily, their kindness is being looked as stupidity and weakness.

Look at Raeesa, Sadaf, and Sufiyan, they never forget when you slight them. Zainab and Ushna should learn a little, how she can stay civil to these people that are ~her blood~ yet treated her worst than an enemy is beyond me.

how you can you be civil to nasty family members? in zainab's case, I do understand the logic because I have seen it in my own extended family. 🤷

my dad's side is a pretty large family and while they got along too good for a while (it was literally like scenes from those family movies), at one point, conflicts started to occur and they got nasty. part of the reason it devolved so much that my grandmother was not around and they no longer followed her rule.

while she was living, she enforced this rule -- when the siblings talk/fight, none of the children and daughter-in-laws were allowed to be there and we all had to sit in the dining room and gossip about whatever. the siblings were a rowdy bunch and kept whatever nonsense to themselves. this way, the fights or misunderstandings weirdly got resolved quickly because it was among the siblings themselves. however, after my grandmother's time, the wives got involved and it turned into a different monster altogether. lines were drawn and there were different views. no one could seem to agree on key issues regarding inheritance. it was a mess.

at one point, it was so nasty that we were planning to skip a cousin's wedding altogether. at the time, I was working in another city. then a week before, my dad changed his mind and said he had to attend for the sake of his (late) brother and never mind if the aunt and her kids were snakes. he wanted us kids to attend as well. I had to take leave and got yelled at my manager for asking so suddenly during our peak season (of work).

I was so irritated with the whole situation that I eye rolled and basically said "I do not want to attend this wedding but now my dad is saying that we need to. don't ask the family politics. if you say "NO", I am just going to happily blame you (the manager) when my dad asks. 🤷"... hahahha, my manager looked like he wanted to fall out of the chair 🤣🤣 he didn't ask what was going on and just approved my leave. so off I took the train and went. my brother and me were so annoyed that we kept whining. my parents were on edge. it was just irritating. we attended as guests, stayed for a while and left.

so does this civility among nastiness happen? absolutely. family ties are complicated and especially at weddings and deaths, people feel compelled to attend even when you all hate each other. especially among siblings, they all forget if there is some sincere apology. I have seen it happen among my dad and his brothers. however, the reconciliation was more among the siblings and not the outsiders (as my dad called the wives and adult children of some). but even with outsiders, we could pretend to follow some amount of civil etiquette when a social situation called for it.

zainab is not a fool in that she knows her sister-in-laws are still not sweet but her relationship with her brothers have been restored to a certain extent. so to not go would be a slap in their face and she won't do that.

now ushna wanting to attend after so much drama between shehroze and sufiyan seems a bit off but again, I have seen weirdo family relations -- rishta was sent for sister A, guy rejected sister A and instead married sister B a few years later. then both couples stand there pretending like nothing ever happened -- now that is odd! 🤷🤷

keeping aside sufiyan dynamics, I can see ushna wanting to attend to show and prove that she is zainab's daughter. she isn't some stranger and regardless of her adoption, she is zainab's child. so, she will attend this wedding and mingle with the lot of them.

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Originally posted by: vibha28

But they also showed his growth but I guess fitrat triumphs over any growth so in that you may be right. Leopards don't change their spots and so on.

Ushna I wished we had seen her feelings, now it is too late as show will end soon so I don't know what will happen in the next two weeks that will change my mind? I don't believe in quick change anyway so that will be a hard sell, at least for me.

I still have not watched the show and I will not but I do hope that in the coming days you guys tell me to watch it because it is good. They have such an amazing leads and they could have so much with that but nope - we get this BS.

The makers only showed a softer side of shehroze and not any growth. When his anger outbursts calm down he goes back to the shehroze he was after nikkah with ushna. In yesterday's episode he was all sweet and loving and understanding with ushna. When ushna said zainab is not Naima's caretaker and he shouldnt expect her to be, he simply hear her out and did accordingly. Didn't feel angry or offended or said zainab should do this or that. Then he didn't say anything to ushna when she said she is going to sadaf's wedding functions he didn't stop her. I was surprised he didn't even ask her why she wants to go to sadaf's wedding. He was there when sadaf came and insulted ushna on their ruksati and he knows sufiyan will be there. He isn't possessive enough to not let ushna be anywhere around sufiyan.

We cannot expect shehroze's basic nature to change overnight simply because he fell in love. He has always been very considerate and trusting and responsible towards his loved ones but only his mother came under the category of loved ones before ushna. He also burst out at Naima when she don't listen to him the same way he burst out at ushna. Since Naima is his mother he keeps basic respect. He did say does Naima wants to write history as a handicapped lady who make her husband remarry when he was dead against wahab's 2nd marriage. That is pretty disrespectful thing to say. He went Naima's back to break off the marriage and didn't care much about Naima's reputation.

He don't even say to ushna that he won't hear anything against his mother like Hamza said to hala. When ushna said she felt Naima is trying to corner zainab he listened to her with patience and didn't think she was talking against his mother.

He does give ushna the same amount of blind trust he gives his mother.

Priya, no one can best describe Shehroz like you do 👏

Thank you guys, I loved each one of your perspectives on the situations and characters. You guys are amazing. Imagine, the drama has turned out crap but still we have a lot to discuss 😆

I will come back to respond 😂😂

Priya, but Usama is not sharing TRP. He is randomly putting any VM bas. There is something off with him 😳