Emotional infidelity vs physical infidelity - Page 4

Originally posted by: naaznin

Historically men have been cheaters. There are many mentions of multiple wives, red light areas, kothaa, harem, nagarvadhu, etc. existing since ages. This shows physical infidelity always existed for men.

So is it basic nature of men to be cheaters?

My sister is doctor and she said men r naturally like that because a man can fertilize an egg after every few hours but women has to go through a month cycle. This physiology makes them different. Cheating exists in humans because it's our value system. Animals have multiple partners. It's human society which is made like one man should be with one woman but naturally humans too r animals.

1. Animals do many things which humans don't. We don't roam around naked. We don't poop and pee in public. We don't have sex in public.

Civilization happened to us. And natural progression of that civilization was monogamy because it's better for women and kids.

2. There are animals which are monogamous as well, to the point the mate dies soon of one of a pair dies.

3. Female cats and dogs have multiple partners. Should human females also have multiple partners?

This ain't even a good excuse for cheating.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Historically men have been cheaters. There are many mentions of multiple wives, red light areas, kothaa, harem, nagarvadhu, etc. existing since ages. This shows physical infidelity always existed for men.

So is it basic nature of men to be cheaters?

My sister is doctor and she said men r naturally like that because a man can fertilize an egg after every few hours but women has to go through a month cycle. This physiology makes them different. Cheating exists in humans because it's our value system. Animals have multiple partners. It's human society which is made like one man should be with one woman but naturally humans too r animals.

If a man cheats, he is a cheater by nature. If he gets serious, he is very chep.

Dono hi case mein lagti hum mens ki hai 😆

Physical and emotional is horrible but physical is much worst in my opinion since physical goes with emotional. Emotional can be like a crush without physical touch and I am sure everyone has a crush whether they are married or single.

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

1. Animals do many things which humans don't. We don't roam around naked. We don't poop and pee in public. We don't have sex in public.

Civilization happened to us. And natural progression of that civilization was monogamy because it's better for women and kids.

2. There are animals which are monogamous as well, to the point the mate dies soon of one of a pair dies.

3. Female cats and dogs have multiple partners. Should human females also have multiple partners?

This ain't even a good excuse for cheating.

That's what I said we are humans n we have made this society and value system. And while growing up we are taught same. So it's difficult for us to accept cheating partners at least I can't do. I will hate him to the core n jeena haram kar dungi uska and than divorce him 😡

Animals r not taught these value systems so they don't care. Same goes for high society ppl who already see such cheating partners around them n they follow same route in their life.

Originally posted by: Guddu.Pandit

If a man cheats, he is a cheater by nature. If he gets serious, he is very chep.

Dono hi case mein lagti hum mens ki hai 😆

I feel women who want safe n secure life like serious men only

Originally posted by: naaznin

I feel women who want safe n secure life like serious men only

In my experience, they prefer financially stable guys more than serious ones.

This is all gibberish talk to placate one's own self from partner's cheating. Nothing justifies cheating. More so there is complete intolerance for any cheating by a woman. Most of the times the man cheats and the woman tolerates and adjusts to the cheating and continues the relationship for whatever reason.

This is like comparing emotional abuse to physical abuse🤔

One hurts your body, the other hurts your heart

Either way the damage cannot be repaired

Both are wrong but no one follows it n cheats . Y marry don’t know , mrg is like business deal , tats all .

Physical infidelity = kiss of death

But anything that erodes your relationship is a problem. emotional infidelity is a massive problem too cuz I can't imagine coming across a chat log between my imaginary boyfriend and a girl like they're really connecting and it not hurting. it would hurt more than him snogging someone while drunk at a bar, I imagine.