Aik Sitam Aur(Thread 6) Usama Khan, Anmol Baloch ( ARY Digital ) - Page 105

Originally posted by: vibha28

Maybe they shelved it? But then again Farhan and Hania’s ruswai hasn’t released either and that was done a year ago too.

No it's not shelved. They time and again drop clips and teasers and posters for AKD 😆. Everytime i will be like now it will come out but it never did. 😭

They released ek jhooti love story faster than this.

I don't think farhan hania's webseries is for zee5.

Originally posted by: spnfan

He simply wants to have a proper meal in peace🤣

Pehle hi do biwio ke beech phas chuka hai ab beta aur bahu ke beech mein nahi padna chahta😆

He has already started going to Islamabad just to have a meal with peace.😆

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

I agree, i guess, it is mainly because ,deep down ,we all thought, his change is permanent but when we notice now, like Naima, he was always the same. He said many hurtful things before too. Like i said before, he is blinded by ego and motherly obsession,and he does not listen to anyone. So he never grew on personal terms. If you stop listening to people around you completely , you dont learn. You are in your own bubble and when you also start getting wrong support like Naima, you become worst version of yourself and that is what happdening with Shehroz. And here upbringing also plays a huge role. He was brought up like that where he got everything he wanted, and now when he is not getting that from Ushna , he is going crazy .

I thought he is growing maturity wise and not change per se. I thought he will slowly realise how much he has grown.

His mother never taught him any boundaries and we all are paying for it 😂😂

He needs to realise issuing ultimatums and all pick me or her is not something a grown man should say but that’s not going to happen. So maybe Ushna should say whom would you pick? Me or your mum? That’s my answer too 👍👍

Originally posted by: spnfan

No it's not shelved. They time and again drop clips and teasers and posters for AKD 😆. Everytime i will be like now it will come out but it never did. 😭

They released ek jhooti love story faster than this.

I don't think farhan hania's webseries is for zee5.

Oh so they have released teasers 😂😂

Oh in that case yes they may realise it as that Farhan one they haven’t released anything. I thought it was Zee as that’s what the online chatter was.

okay, am going to be contrarian. but I will also admit that my recollection of the episode is hazy as I watched it really late, wasn't paying too much attention to the scenes as I was playing on my phone as I had gotten unlimited lives for half hour. 🤣 plus, I haven't watched with subs and so I would have missed out on the specifics.

re: progressive men?

to be honest, I have no idea what people are referring to and what kind of guidelines or checklist we are looking for. the problem in my mind is that this is a western concept and we are applying to a different cultural mindset. there are bound to be clashes. this means that whatever this 'progressive' man is, he does not exist.

so you are going to have amazing contradictions -- you will have fathers go out of the way (with great effort like working overtime) to educate their daughters but then fret if she isnt' married or if she got divorced. now how is that progressive? you will have men who treat their wives really well but they don't bother to do a joint financial planning or take her input for their retirement; this means after his death, she is left clueless about their financial state -- now how is that progressive? we have men who don't feel threatened by their wife's job success but at the same time, they don't lift a single finger to help out around in the house. laundry, cooking, cleaning -- those are seen as woman's job. how is that progressive?

my point is that a person can display so called progressive thinking in one area and be completely backwards in another. it is a complicated picture and there is no cookie cutter mould or factory for 'progressive' men. he does not exist. instead, you are going to have complex personalities which result in fiery clashes.

thats why women of my mom's generation advise on lines that seem strange to those of us younger -- know when to reel in your fish and when to wait and watch. their advice basically means that you have to know what battles to pick and what to let go, how to negotiate with street smart (basically manipulate the guy to your will by making him fidaa over you) and where to placate to his ego/bossiness (so that you get him to agree on the more important things on your thinking but let him make calls in the less important decisions). my point -- it is complicated. so why would drama characters be any less? 🤷

Originally posted by: spnfan

The reason why shehroze fell so easily was because he always had an attraction towards ushna and he wanted her deep down. Ushna didn't.

Shehroze is way into the relationship and ushna is only midway. The problem is he wants her to be as deep as he is.

I loved reading this.. as per promo nagin will swallow her own poison for drama, so do you think at this point he will throw them out?

But I want ushna to take zainab and walk out.

Yes you are absolutely right as it is a cultural clash. I don’t understand certain things and I can’t ever imagine being in that situation. Coming from a family where everyone is equal I find it very hard when I see a man saying I am okay with you coming from bad blood but then also say pick between your mother or me.

I guess for me ITV still makes sense but PTV is work in progress. I can never imagine being a man with so much contradictions lol 😂 I will kill him or he will dump me but there won’t be a happy ending there. First time I watched a PTV drama where the man raised his hand on a woman and then they were fine I was like whaaa!!!! Why is still with him? With ITV they wait until they are married😂😂😂😂

Rather than progressive mindset it should be progressive growth where slowly as you mature you change yourself for the better. Like a FL going no dowry but then doesn’t say anything when her SIL wants to take some. That’s a contradiction to me as if you are no to dowry it should be a flat out NO and not cherry picking no.

I don’t know if you watched the movie Wedding Singer where Drew’s mum tells her that as your fiancé is not setting a date, get pregnant and then it should be okay. I guess in real world to a parent like that we can say no back off and they will whereas in tele they won’t.

Damn, love the discussions

Originally posted by: MuratHayat

I loved reading this.. as per promo nagin will swallow her own poison for drama, so do you think at this point he will throw them out?

But I want ushna to take zainab and walk out.

I would be happy if she dies but we have to bear with her. Yes to the last line for me too 👍

Originally posted by: spnfan

The reason why shehroze fell so easily was because he always had an attraction towards ushna and he wanted her deep down. Ushna didn't.

Shehroze is way into the relationship and ushna is only midway. The problem is he wants her to be as deep as he is.

keeping aside all his angry outburst, this is at the heart of the problem. he doesn't feel that she is as into the relationship as he is. this makes him feel not only powerless but also upset and hurt. the issue isn't that she took care of zainab, the issue is:

1. she forgot

2. she didn't call back and let him what is going on.

now, we can dismiss that as a small issue but in his head, it wasn't. for him the fact that it completely slipped her mind shows that his activities/work wasn't that important to her. she wasn't paying attention at all.

this old tv episode of "home improvement" comes to mind -- it was a comedy show where this guy was into cars and the wife was studying to be something (nurse? counselor?). anyway, in that episode, she complains that he doesn't care about what she is interested in whereas she pays attentio. now he knows that she has zero interest in cars and to prove it, he quizzes her. she hilariously passes even though she actually doesn't know -- she just had been paying attention to his long monologues about whatever car parts even though she was bored out of his head. so she proved her point and made him realize that he needs to listen as well to whatever jabbering she is saying even if he thinks it is boring.

back to this drama, it is a similar dynamic -- by forgetting, ushna is demonstrating visibly that she doesn't care about what he is up to.

not calling back and letting him know is also another visible sign that he is not part of her life where she is relying on him or letting him into her problems. so there is a wall where she is doing stuff herself.

those are the issues that are burning silently. he sees her actions as some sort of drama that she is still upset over the jewelry accusations and she is pushing him away. part of that is because they haven't resolved the conflict and he doesn't know her enough to know how she fights. she is in your face and does not play games -- that is not her style. so yea, teething issues in a new relationship that is getting blown up while being combined with naima's fire into a different monster atlogether.