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Kul se to mujh pe personal attack ho raha and people are saying I am doing personal attack

Khuch bhi.

Waise ab to moral policing post ki line lagne wali hai

Abhi agla moral policing mocking post aayega

if anikh does same with pakhi what vanraj did to anu for 27 years will anupama say stay best friends and take care of kapadias for life coming everyday there and hero worship anikh barkha and ankush

Never she will send anikh to jail for abusing her daughter and keep her away from kapadias

what sort of wrong messaging going to not only young girls but boys too

behave like vanraj and get worshiped by first wife second wife Girl friends ex GFs

anupama herself is bullying anuj kapadia like vanraj used to bully anupama for 27 years

anuj told do not go shah house few weeks she refuses to listen to hubby advice and forces him to tag along calling ex hubby home as her mayka

I wonder who has written this show a patriachial mindset male in his 60s may be i thought

i am surprised its a woman that too young woman whose written

if woman think and write like this imagine what will happen to future society

what sort of role models coming up like anupama, kinjal, sara, pakhi all supporting criminally toxic minded people

I do not want to talk of vanraj toshu anuj samar bapuji etc they are anyway men will support other toxic males in name of male brother hood

But a woman should stand up and say this is wrong no they are busy worshiping criminals that too educated woman who travelled world like kinjal and sara

Har baat ke kayi pehlu hote hain. Sahi galat Kaun decide kare?! And why?

Isn't it by definition a discussion when people put forth their points of view?

Isn't it a fair debate when judgements are not passed based on one's own biases but conversations are fact based?

Wouldn't a discussion be healthy one may be an expert but there is no assumption that the others are not?

Just asking!?

What did I told moral policing ki line lagegi lo lag gayi और aagey bhi lagego

. Arey bhai mujhe quote nahi karoge और अपने post mere naam mention nahi karoge to mujhe yeh nahi pata chalega kya ki mere baare mein baat ho rahi hai .

People are preaching me sabke apne pov hote hai pehle wohb apne post phir se check kare woh kitne doosre pov ko mock karte है

Anyway . I know what will be next reply so neither I am going to read nor I am going reply to next post . This is my last reply on this matter

Moral policing? Judging based on one's own biases?

And quoting, ofcourse:

Jinke apne ghar sheeshe ke ho, woh doosron par patthar nahin phenka karte.

Yes of course moral policing people are doing to me that why I am defensive anupama

Aise dialogue bolne se truth badal nahi jaayega yes of course people has personal attack me

First people attack me that Jo sleep hone ka pretend karte है unhe kaun jaga sakta

Second people moral policing me that why I am defending

Anupama

Third people mock me by giving real boss example

Aur jo log yeh bol rahe है कि maine moral policing aur jo yeh dialogue suna rahe है ki jime ke घर शीशा ke hote है woh jara quote karke bataye ki kahan main moral policing kiya aur kahan maine attack kiya

Btw chahe khuch bhi kaho truth badal nahi jaayega

People indeed doing moral policing and doing personal attack

I won't talk abt kinjal but was anupama really a good mother to her children with all the good sanskars , all the gyan in the world and good intentions ?

No it doesn't take only just that , it doesn't take only to be with the children 24x7, at their service , pampering them with everything, feeding them well . Infact these very habits have spoiled them , n they never realized the value of her sacrifices . Yes , its the duty of the mother to feed her children , send them to school blah blah blue blue but at the same time , teach them values , and make them aware of the realities of life. When anupama herself couldn't differentiate between right and wrong , apne bachon ko ghanta sikhayegi?

When.anupama loves her abusers , when she quietly took all the taunts from vanraj and ba, what will she teach her children ? She herself is deeply influenced with ba and vanraj , I won't blame pakhi and toshu. If vanraj didn't have an ema , will anupama divorce him ? Will anupama teach him how to respect women , teach ba how to respect her dil? Family jaisi bhi ho family ko chod nahi dete , itv bahus take this as a gospel truth . They never realize they are being abused in the name of making compromises , they never realize their self respect is being crushed . How do we expect the children to be any better ? Which itv bahu was a good mother? Starting from Tulsi😆 but they take so much pride in being the bahu of so and so parivar continue to get abused and feel dumb , they take pride in it.

Normally People value that what they are deprived of . And they feel strongly about it . Anupama was deprived of respect her whole life but she failed to tell her children the importance of a man respecting a woman . On the other hand kinjal values family bec she was deprived of that kind of care and affection from her mother.. unknowingly rakhi helped kinjal by let her being herself and face the world on her own ..something which anupama failed to do by keeping her children on a radar 24x7.

I feel parents must not over attention to kids like anupama did or low attention like an anuj/rakhi both are wrong parenting

over pampering makes kids rebel like pakhi or good for not much like samar or both like toshu

Neither they should give low attention like anuj kapadia did to Mukku so shes mentally weak and depressed etc little over and nice talk by others she easily trust like vanraj. Thats because she never got love and attention from family/parent after mom dad death more GK and anuj

Both type of parenting is wrong actually it harms kids

Vanraj and anupama are over pampering kids especially toshu and pakhi by fulfilling all wishes so far at any cost

anupama never give freedom to toshu pakhi or samar to be independent and explore life so far always they are at home never exposed to outside society never faced life alone

That is why although toshu is MBA good at studies he has no confidence to get job on own or face world alone unike a mukku may be (mukku anyway had no parents to control her etc but anuj was there he was not that bothered what shes doing where she is left on own he busy in business)

Samar is another type emotional fool you can say like anuj hes like anuj to some extent get over attach to anyone giving him some love and cries at drop of hat (anuj i think was pampered by hi dead mom thats why hes emotionally unstable even at 45 years, now his dead mom place taken by anupama blind faiths without using brains)

Pakhi is real rebel shes xerox of vanraj shah what she wants she gets at any cost nothing stops her. Shes the pampered kid of family who will not listen to NO from parents

Kinjal is also imbalanced although shes mature and independent and old unlike anupama 3 kids she is also blindly following anupama and does not judge people easily falls for their sweet talks like a toshu or vanraj is good for her or Baa and anupama but Rakhi is bad

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

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Lol I've never been able to understand Kinjal's problem with her mother's career.