Aik Sitam Aur(Thread 5) Usama Khan, Anmol Baloch (ARY)- Page 101

You brought up a very good point about your classmate and how Sufiyan and Sadaf was raised with certain values instilled in them.

Raeesa is someone that has to feel superior, she used to pit Sufiyan against Huzaifa and Sadaf against Ushna, and she always considered her children better than anyone else's. Rafaqat was ruthless, had expectations for his children, and ruled the house with an iron fist.

Before Sufiyan turned crazy, he was the dependable, respectable eldest son in that household. He cruised through life until he came upon the biggest failure where he was denied his coveted shiny toy. That's why he said he would never be at peace until Ushna dies, he can't process nor handle this rejection. It goes against what he's known all his life. It's the same thing with Sadaf, the girl that she's been told is below her all her life, the one that's eating her table scraps not long ago, suddenly rises in status above her. That just makes Shehroz all the more desirable because she gets to knock Ushna off her pedestal as well. That's also why she took his insults quietly the first time, but went mad when she thought Shehroz was rejecting her because of Ushna.

Raessa is still delusional where she believes her children are little angels that need time and patience. Even after everything that's happened, she still doesn't get it. At least she's more firm after Rafaqat issued the ultimatum, she knows there are consequences, too bad her dumb kids don't understand that concept. 🤣

Originally posted by: spnfan

Saying that someone is careless is not that big of an allegation, it's not even an allegation and has nothing to do with loving that person. I love my mother a lot but i have no problem saying that she can be careless at times. Same with my father. I know in certain thinks he can be careless and if my mother gives him some responsibilities in that matter and he ends up being careless, i will tell my mother why did you asked him to do that when he is careless in that matter and viseversa. Even my parents say that I am careless with certain things. It has nothing to do with loving or trusting someone.

I know it’s not an allegation, I mean the way he talked. Would you say your mother or father were careless behind their back? My parents have called me careless multiple times but to my face never behind my back. I do the same not to parents but to brothers, sisters, again to their face though.

It’s not even trust it’s about respect. He is not as bad as hamza but I can’t let that one go. He shouldn’t have if he respected Ushna but he is arrogant and a brat too so maybe he didn’t get that and in his arrogance he said that. He is not as bad as hamza but that was disappointing when he was going so well.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Saying that someone is careless is not that big of an allegation, it's not even an allegation and has nothing to do with loving that person. I love my mother a lot but i have no problem saying that she can be careless at times. Same with my father. I know in certain thinks he can be careless and if my mother gives him some responsibilities in that matter and he ends up being careless, i will tell my mother why did you asked him to do that when he is careless in that matter and viseversa. Even my parents say that I am careless with certain things. It has nothing to do with loving or trusting someone.

I would agree and disagree with you -- so there has to be a certain level of comfort and maturity to the personality as well as the relationship where you can point out flaws and not have the other person take it to heart. in your family, it is lovely that you are able to speak so plainly but there are many relationships where it is not there.

this means that words like careless will be taken as a big deal and as an insult. family wars will erupt. so that is the case here with shehroze/ushna/zainab/naima. shehroze does not have a close relationship with zainab and it is still very formal. he also hasn't quite developed the type of bond with ushna where he can be that open. so this is ripe for misunderstanding.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Everyone got blinded by his lover boy image that we forgot how much of a pain in the ass he can be. 😆

A lot of his behaviour has always been on the extreme end. It was fun to watch him siding his car to keep the side hero on the side but if we were in that car with him we would have freaked out the same way ushna did. He literally took a loaded gun with him to see a guy for calling his wife. Under normal scenarios all this are very extreme behaviours. He clearly don't think twice before he acts.

I always knew he is an arse that’s why I wouldn’t even take this changed Shehroz 😂😂😂😂I just thought he was truly changing and even if he becomes bad he will be on a good ground. That was my bad.

You would think love changed him only thing that changed Is he calmed down a bit but I guess he will be that angry man again.

Originally posted by: spnfan

It's raining in Kerala and i am lying on my bed under a blanket😆

Im so jealous right now😒

Originally posted by: vibha28

Shehroz pagal ho gaya hai aur wheelchair Naima aur bhi pagal ho gayi hai. Wahab feels like dying too, and zainab and Ushna are emotionally almost dead.

Udhar both Rs and their family are over everything too and we saw Huzaifa 😂😂😂😂

Lol so nothing to watch 🥺🤣

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

Then why Romeo is wearing jacket like it's snow fall in Pakistan. How is he able to move around in jacket when it's hot like hell?

Oska body main koi ac hona behin idhar tou humsy sirf shirt nah pehini ja rahi

Originally posted by: Rubabbb

Lol so nothing to watch 🥺🤣

Initial scenes were good, Sadaf looked very pretty. Huzaifa was equally funny and so were R2 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Sadaf is getting married to someone else by her parents.

Shehroz was lovey dovey with Ushna in bedroom when she was sleeping.

Zainab is getting blamed for stealing khandani jewellery.

Shehroz being mama's boy goes against Zainab and Ushna without listening to their sides.

Wahab being spineless busy pleasing his wife.

So they are turning shehroz into hamza 🤬

Naima meesni ullu ki pathi abhi 10 episodes hongy or maybe less how they gonna clear this mess

Originally posted by: Araya

You brought up a very good point about your classmate and how Sufiyan and Sadaf was raised with certain values instilled in them.

Raeesa is someone that has to feel superior, she used to pit Sufiyan against Huzaifa and Sadaf against Ushna, and she always considered her children better than anyone else's. Rafaqat was ruthless, had expectations for his children, and ruled the house with an iron fist.

Before Sufiyan turned crazy, he was the dependable, respectable eldest son in that household. He cruised through life until he came upon the biggest failure where he was denied his coveted shiny toy. That's why he said he would never be at peace until Ushna dies, he can't process nor handle this rejection. It goes against what he's known all his life. It's the same thing with Sadaf, the girl that she's been told is below her all her life, the one that's eating her table scraps not long ago, suddenly rises in status above her. That just makes Shehroz all the more desirable because she gets to knock Ushna off her pedestal as well. That's also why she took his insults quietly the first time, but went mad when she thought Shehroz was rejecting her because of Ushna.

Raessa is still delusional where she believes her children are little angels that need time and patience. Even after everything that's happened, she still doesn't get it. At least she's more firm after Rafaqat issued the ultimatum, she knows there are consequences, too bad her dumb kids don't understand that concept. 🤣

yea, sadaf and sufiyan were brought up competing with their cousins and thats why they are such miserable people. I have also seen that in some relatives as well -- they are so obsessed with marks and winning that they bring up the children to be such brats. then they are shocked that no one wants to hang out with their children and their family have no real closeness with other relatives. well if you see a relative as a threat and competitor, how can you have a relationship? if you cannot be happy for your sibling or empathize when they are going through a tough time, then your kids will be messed up as well right? as a parent, if you cannot show the value of other people to your children, then they will grow up thinking that people are either to be used, manipulated or competition.

raeesa is the type of mom who competes with others through her children. that is why she cannot accept that her children are not angels. to do so would be to accept that she failed as a mother and failed in the competition against others.