Wrong social messages thru protagonist - Page 3

Ok, now if we want to go technical, let's try to crack this through:

1. So, we are saying, Anupama has legal right on the Shah house considering she is no longer the DIL and she is exercising her rights as the daughter of the house? Really?

Why did this point even come up I wonder.

Oh may be that is why Anuj ensured the house etc. was in Anupama's name so that no Barkha or he himself can exercise any rights, smart move, I must say 🤨🤔.

2. To say ALL the positive traits are Anupama's and any glitches are attributed to the makers/writers is being selective, isn't it? Good or bad should equally be attributed to the makers or the character (as the case may be). Since we are reviewing Anupama, the character and the contradictions in her characteristics, for ALL practical purposes, I will only be speaking about Anupama (which effectively is a review of the writing and makers and NOT individuals).

So, effectively, Anupama has forgotten the family she was born into. She did not bother that her mother (who gave birth to her) and her brother are also in no less difficulty and despite their humble state, welcomed her, offered her a home when she walked out of Shah house.

3. Who are these grown-up kids, children, who discuss their parents' life in public even if it is in front of chacha-chachi? None even stops them. Curious for gossip, eh?

This for ALL the sanskaar gyaan?! Oh why did Anupama not tell, "Beta mata-pita ki baatein aise sabke saamne nahin uchalte. Aur apni hi maa ko aise sunate nahin sabke samne".

Oh wait, she can't say the second half, thanks to her own.

4. Exaggeration is shown to put across a point, I agree but here, Exaggeration has crossed unimaginable grounds. She wants to interact with her grown-up kids, fair enough. Technology has brought people closer. Like people have mentioned, there are common places like Academy, public places, Anupama's house she can "catch up" with them.

When Anupama was out on Honeymoon and when Shahs were at their Nani's who took care of The household chores and Kinjal, one wonders.

I will believe that they are showing 2days as 1 day

4th June to 6th June leave Sunday as 1day

Then 6to 7th June 2nd day

7th June to 8th June 3rd daythen

8th June to 9th June 4th day

10june pagfera to 11th June 5th day

So anupama stay at kapadia sadan for 4 days

Then anupama shown in kapadia house from 13th June to 18june that is for 3days

Then again from 20june to 24th June in house about 2and half days

So techcally anupama stay at kapadia sadan 9days

And in shah house anupama visit shah only for half day during pagfera

,

So if we go by anupama serial timing

So out of 10days anupama lives at kapadia house for 9 days

That means average dekha jaaye to anupama with in 30days only 3 times shah house jaati hogi

Ya, phir yeh bhi hai anupama do mahine mein ek. Hi baar jaati ho

Now I am. Asking why bhavesh did not pick anupama for pagfera

When her brother is not picking anupama for pagfera then how can anupama ca

n go to kanta house without her brother

In pagfera it is brother who took his sister from in laws then after that husband take wife to his home

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Now I am. Asking why bhavesh did not pick anupama for pagfera

When her brother is not picking anupama for pagfera then how can anupama ca

n go to kanta house without her brother

In pagfera it is brother who took his sister from in laws then after that husband take wife to his home

Ok so, the "kids" forgot they have a mama? Anupama did not give a miss you call to her mommy dearest?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I will believe that they are showing 2days as 1 day

4th June to 6th June leave Sunday as 1day

Then 6to 7th June 2nd day

7th June to 8th June 3rd daythen

8th June to 9th June 4th day

10june pagfera to 11th June 5th day

So anupama stay at kapadia sadan for 4 days

Then anupama shown in kapadia house from 13th June to 18june that is for 3days

Then again from 20june to 24th June in house about 2and half days

So techcally anupama stay at kapadia sadan 9days

And in shah house anupama visit shah only for half day during pagfera

,

So if we go by anupama serial timing

So out of 10days anupama lives at kapadia house for 9 days

That means average dekha jaaye to anupama with in 30days only 3 times shah house jaati hogi

Ya, phir yeh bhi hai anupama do mahine mein ek. Hi baar jaati ho

Show timelines and real life timelines cannot be equated and best left unsaid.

Because tomorrow if they show a few months leap, how many days, times, frequency are you calculating? Also I hope your calculation uses 1 week = 6 days instead of 7 (since it is telecast only till Saturday).

ALL in ALL, Isn't it better to centre our arguments on the frequency of her interactions as shown in the number scenes and the topics discussed in Shahs

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Now I am. Asking why bhavesh did not pick anupama for pagfera

When her brother is not picking anupama for pagfera then how can anupama ca

n go to kanta house without her brother

In pagfera it is brother who took his sister from in laws then after that husband take wife to his home

Agar bhavesh lene na gaya ho toh anupama ko uske second husband ke ghar par he rehna chahiye tha ! Kaun jata hai aise pagfere ke liye uss ghar mai jaha ex-husband rehta ho?!

Bacche toh nadaan hai aa gaye anupama ko Shah house le jane aa gaye but 45-50 saal ki maa ko toh akkal hona chahiye na ki aise pagfere ke liye jaha ex-husband rehta ho waha nahi Jana chahiye.

Why I can't calculate if other can calculate that 5day as 1day then I can also ccan calulate according to my own

Originally posted by: surabhi01

. As far I know anupama only to go to shah when there is festival or function or some prob

all i can say is precaution while following so called role models on TV and movies

youngasters get easily influenced

so if fav hero smokes or drinks they start smoking or drinking saying its cool

anupama is no way a role model to any woman or human shes as worst as vanraj and shahs

no woman should blindly follow her watching this serial

imagine a woman marries second and behaves like this with 2nd husband like shes doing to anuj kapadia

in one month he will divorce her or start ema himself or turn drunkard like devdas(thats rare)

this is imaginary story no woman in usa will behave like anupama madam with first hubby or ex in laws or goes to their house like this in usa too

and do not take anuj kapadia as role models too is advice for men

do not write 100% property and business in wife name out of crazy love(even girls will say same unless they are gold diggers) write 50% to yourself with after death as wife and 50% to mukku or siblings (if parents are alive give 33% each to yourself, mukku, and mom dad)

if your wife loses 50% of her property by hara kirito toxic ex or her kids and you come on roads another 50% of your sister business is there to feed you and your kids. Ideally keep most to yourself

If my hubby when i marry writes 100% property and business to me i will divorce him next day as hes a fool person and unfit to be mature human actually. i want a mature bold capable human as my hubby not lunatic lover majnu jhoru ka ghulam like anuj kapadia. If my hubby was anuj kapadia i will say give 40% to anuj himself with me after his death as nominee, 20% to GK whoever he wants as nominee, 40% to Mukku. That is best way to distrubute business shares. And signing authority to himself and mukku for business. Create a joint account himself and me and put money there to use for me in emergency. Ideally a man should see ability and education quality to give property or business not family relations.

Same way way i do not want my 2nd hubby business or property to go to my first hubby kids although they are my kids if i am anupama. Only vanraj property should go to them not my second hubby anuj prooperty or business. I will keep both family away from each other as far. Even if vanraj and my 3 kids were great humans next to saints i do not want them interacting much with my 2nd hubby. And i will tolearte ankush and barkha for a month after that they must leave my hubby home and go. I have not opened orphanage or old age home for anuj relatives or vanraj relatives at my hubby home to take advantage of him. Only his parents and siblings can come and stay permanent no cousins or even my kids from other hubby. And none of my and vanraj kids or barkha kids or his cousins shall be allowed to work in his company by me. Also i myself am not interested to work in anuj kapadia company. I am not dependent on parents and husband for work or self worth i have my own ability no parent or hubby or sibling or kid give me any job. I will get on my own ability or i will feel disrespect working in relatives company. It means i have no capability to get job or do business on own. So thanks but no thanks to anuj kapadia i will reject his hotel business offer bec i am capable enough not depending on family for job or business or money in life.

If my daughter is pakhi and marries anikh i will say shift to own home this is my home not your husbands home. If samar marries sara i will say same go take sara and go to shah house not allowed in my hubby home sorry. Only baby anu can stay in house with me and anuj. And GK and mukku. Rest all please take a walk after a month or so max

No matter how saintly human is one day his lalach willl come out whether kids ex hubby or relatives etc. Every human is jealous of others who are richer and more powerful than them. In big city 80 year olds live alone in apartments when kids are in same city? Why? Because only till kids come to home they act nice than they want you to write your property in their name immediately(after death anyway it goes to kids only na) and bank account they want joint etc they make aged parents do house work and take care of grand kids etc. No great kid is there who will take care of parents without any benefits(as you see shah kids and barkha kids). if anuj was in hut with anupama no shah no ankush or barkha and anik would come only mukku and GK would be there. So see who will stay with you in hut and allow them only to stay with you(munnai bhai strategy ). Rest all can take a walk after few days

now anupam anad shahs will say we supported you when you came on road. Excuse but anuj kapadia came on road because of shahs and vanraj manipulation and neither baa bapuji nor anupama or her 3 kids spoke against vanraj or told him off. So first you bring anuj on road than offer sympathy than keep that sympathy yourself

Originally posted by: shriz

which is always 😊

Maine kal sapne mei dekha ki Shah house ke cooker ki seeti nahi baj Rahi thi, daal jal gayi thi. Jaise hi anu ka pata chala uske aansoo nikal aaye aur woh phataphat Shah house pahunch gayi

Bolo sapne bhi aise, 😒AK daal jala deta toh bhi samajh mei aata😉