Is anupama acting middle class?

Indian middle class is very forward actually

The way anupama acts is more lower middle class than any middle class family. Middle class is not what Shah family or anupama behaviour being shown actually. Middle class is very forward and exposed to outside world unlike anupama or shahs too.

Most middle class stay in individual homes, if they have aged parents they buy another home or aprtament near by for them so they can live independent of kids. Middle class ladies even at 70 years wear salwar, chudhidhar, parallel and sometime pants too in the last 8 to 10 years esapecially in big cities). Many woman attend yoga classes, english training course, dance classes or singing classes een after 60 years in middle class

Many woman may just be 5th class or 10th class studied before marrying as they were born in 1960s or 1950s but they speak nice hindi or english unlike anupama who speaks in some accent everything like suriiii. No middle class woman talks english or hindi in accent in middle class family especially in last 10 years.

Writer has no idea how much middle class has progressed in last 20 years after liberalization. May be in 1990s and early 2000s you could find anupam akind of woman not now. Even maids speak excellent english and auto guyys too. The writer has zero knowledge of what middle class people live in big cities

Most will be like kavya or devika in their 50s or 70s than a anupama 80% will be like kavya or devika very forward and nice dressing and talking etc no matter they were born in village never went to college but moved to city later

No one behaves like anupama, she behave much more like a lower middle class lady than a real middle class person. No one who meets her will believe shes finished 10th std or gone a year to college. Atleast in big city even maids speak excellent english. 10th and 12th pass or those who have done diploma or degree are doing maid jobs or cooking job in hotels nowadays in cities. Because there is lack of jobs especially for educated women so very educated come and cook at home or do maid jobs etc.

Nowadays in big city for 1 hour maid job they get 5k or 10k as salary. If they work in 6 houses 1 hour a day that means they earn 60,000 Rs as salary in amonth. They live very nice life. In city even auto guuys earn 5k per day and taxi guys 10k per day. Their actual income per month is in lakhs. So they own 72 inch TVs and bullet bikes and even cars at their home. In bangalore IT company gardners come in biikes and Hyundai and latest cars to office. They may be uneducated but are well off

Ideally marrying a rich sauve educated anuj kapadia was golden opportunity for anupam ato progress individuallly and professionally But shes not ready to do that instead want anuj kapadia to go to her and shahs level. That is why clash between anuj brother family and anupama or shahs.

I do not see anything wrong if anupama stops her false sanskar chants and progreses in her mindset and way of living. We all know what great sanskar her kids, hyusband and in laws have all two faced criminal people who are after others wealth and business and are tom toying with anuj kapdia and anupama only because anuj is super rich and US returned not out of real love or affection. If you go to USA you cannot tell USA people to behave like indians in office or party. You have to behave like those people. If a peon attends party of corporate or his owner he cannot insist please keep party like lower class people. he has to behave like their standard and dress and talk like corporate party.

Anupama wants anuj kapadia to come down to her and shahs level which is not how he lived life for last 45 years

Why anupama cannot live as per anuj kapadia life style?

Imagine anuj kapadia hhad parents and grand parents and brother and bhabhi at home than anupma marries and goes will all his family change to her ways or she alone has to change as per his family? Usually new bahu adopts husband family ways not other way. Because there are his parents, grandparents, sibkings who live there and they will not change for anuj kapadias one wife. Or they will be clash and family breaks usually.

Anuj and Mukku are not less sanskari than Shahs indeed morally ethically they are way above million times better than anupama kids or vanraj

So whats anupama issue to adopt to his family life style?

Middle class is not decided by behavior of person

Middle class is decided by income of family

If family is earning this much from this range to the range

Suppose if family earning 50000per month then they come under middle class

If it's lower than they are lower middle class

Then agar border line se earning kam hoti है then they are considered as poor

So अगर कोई engish nahi bolta ya phir har kaam traditional way mein kaam kar rshs है isks matlsb yeh nahi uske behavior lower middle class family ka hai ya woh regressive hai . Middle class, lower class and higher class always decided by income

Sub aapka apnna rehna ka tareeka hota hai . Yeh anupama ka tareeka hai ki woh kaise apna life style jeena chahti hai. Nobody has right to decide other 's life style and way of speaking

Anupama ka ghar uski marj woh chahe jaise rahe

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Middle class is not decided by behavior of person

Middle class is decided by income of family

If family is earning this much from this range to the range

Suppose if family earning 50000per month then they come under middle class

If it's lower than they are lower middle class

Then agar border line se earning kam hoti है then they are considered as poor

So अगर कोई engish nahi bolta ya phir har kaam traditional way mein kaam kar rshs है isks matlsb yeh nahi uske behavior lower middle class family ka hai ya woh regressive hai . Middle class, lower class and higher class always decided by income

Sub aapka apnna rehna ka tareeka hota hai . Yeh anupama ka tareeka hai ki woh kaise apna life style jeena chahti hai. Nobody has right to decide other 's life style and way of speaking

Anupama ka ghar uski marj woh chahe jaise rahe

As per me anuj kapadai should not allow shahs or annkush family at home

Casual visit ok

Just stay with GK anupam aanuj and Mukku

Thats what all does

They will not suddenly let cousin come and stay permanent at home or ex hubby family too

If anuj father or mother was here will they allow Shahs or barkha in home other than casual visit Nooo

Same anupama and anuj do

When anupama already knows how vanraj and toshu acted taking all business from anuj and did ema to mukku she should not allow vanraj baa and her family too much in his house or business

wife first duty to protect hubby even from her mayka attacks be it parents or siblings or ex hubby or own kids

but anupama openly forcing anuj to get close to shahs by crying and saying i want both family etc

she must ask barkha to buy her own home and move and shahs to ocassionally visit and not join anuj business etc because of what happened before by vanraj and toshu

but anupam aforcing anuj to keep both family he will be in danger later from both sides

Anupama has condider barkha opinion and that is why barkha able to change kitchen. Other who will give other person permission to change home design according to other person taste

Even anupama put two name plates outside home. So every time anupama is considder bakha but barkha totaly want to dominate anupama which I'd totally wrong

If anupama is considered barkha pov then barkha should consider anupama pov too.

Other wise better live seperate

Anupama behaviour is lower middle class because her real mayka was lower middle class.

In Shah house too she was made to feel the same n that she was lucky to marry in Shah household.

Vanraj never allowed Anupama to grow personally n financially. Salary of vanraj was diverted to baa n Anupama has to do rationing in it.

The issue with television is exaggeration and stereotyping.

Like none talking anything below crores, bungalows, mansions, easy access to weapons and goons, plots-sub-plots-schemes-sub-schemes🤦🏻‍♀️.

There are some contrasts also:

a. Like in some shows, stylish hairdo, fusion wear / saree clad, No bindi, contemporary jewellery, Educated = Vamp written ALL over the face.

b. While in others, traditional saree, big bindi, traditional looking = Vamp

None of these traits are identifiable with people today, anywhere.

Why can there not be a normal story with normal characters?.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Anupama behaviour is lower middle class because her real mayka was lower middle class.

In Shah house too she was made to feel the same n that she was lucky to marry in Shah household.

Vanraj never allowed Anupama to grow personally n financially. Salary of vanraj was diverted to baa n Anupama has to do rationing in it.

true vanraj and baa and toshu pakhi have never helped her

or toshu and pakhi could have taught her english class by now

is 26 years less to learn english

maids who work from 6am to 9pm in other houses will learn engish asking their school going kids

they ask owners and open bank accounts etc

if you have will others help

problem is for 26 years anupama was never interested in improving herself till vanraj gave her shock by marrying kavya

she was not even interested in divorce or moving out of shahs till anuj told her to do so

that also she did after staying ot of home at night and them doubting her

world is suc they are jealous of all humans they try to suppress them not allow them whether its at family relatives classmates or office because no one wants another to be better or richer than them

like shahs are jealous of anuj because hes richer than vanraj and shahs and barka too

pakhi wants to go too usa to study not because she loves studying she wants to be like anuj kapadia and mukku and sara and annikh she wants to be rich and high class like anuj kapadia and mukku

hardly 1% will be happy if you succeed in life thats usually your parents and teachers may be

rest are always jealous of your success they may or may not show

look at shahs vanraj do not even like own son samar and will not support him like he does toshu or pakhi

parents also do favoritism with kids and do not treat all equally in love and helping to come up in life etc

so do not wait for others approval or help, help yourself should be motto

who is vanraj or baa to stop or help anupama, help yourself stand up for yourself learn for yourself

if anupama wanted she could join 12th and degree course and pass it in these 26 years

i know ppl who work in office 10 hours do degree or masters part time or offline plus do house work at home

wives and their hubby do not support them just like anupama and are jealous wife studying more may come up equal to them or earn more salary than them etc

70% hubby think like that only in world (even USA/UK)

facing all jealousy and abuse of huby in laws still women work or study and do house work take care of full house etc it all depends on will power and interest than time and support by anyone