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Originally posted by: IAMHope

Tabi toh that’s MimiLulu shovel - pinga cancel 😂

Manjari’s “ Mat kar” and Ak’s “ Galti sudhaar lo”

Same, same?

Originally posted by: Pr1yanka

I saw that but still as I mentioned above he should not have regretted his marriage…not in keeping with his character sketch …that is my main grief

example 1- abhi-ar mehendi fight- he said to ak that he doesn’t want to see her face and does not want to keep any relation with her. Next when she was on hospital bed after accident, he apologized and said sorry, “Maine tumhe kitna hurt kiya. Kya Kya bol diya gusse mein” and then he went to pray to Mahadev that nothing should happen to akshu. He will live just knowing that she is happy and safe.

Example 2- accident track. He told Manjari that after knowing about all this, I will not marry ak. And when manajri said “okay. Mat kar”, all the color drained from his face. Like he couldn’t stand the thought of not marrying ak. And then he suddenly changed his tune to “arohi ko sazaa milni chahiye” 😆

There was one more incident but I can’t recall it now.

But my point is that he always has been like this only. He lets anger control his emotions and says crazy things when he is angry. Gusse mein kuch bhi bolta hai yeh ladka.

And it is actually very realistic for people who have anger management issues. They can say the most hurtful things when angry but they hardly ever mean it. Once they calm down, they can’t believe they said such things in the first place and then they go above and beyond to apologize for hurting their loved ones. (I can tell from personal experience as I know some very nice people with anger management issues)

Now abhi will melt down but not akshu 😂😂😂 namune

Aise mein SR bhool jao ab 😂😂

Now abhi will get to know akshu is not manjiri. She will not kept running behind him like majiri to hb.

Ak will definitely go to Goenka house now.

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

I feel he always has been like this only. When he is super angry, he always says extreme things that he doesn’t mean.

example 1- abhi-ar mehendi fight- he said to ak that he doesn’t want to see her face and does not want to keep any relation with her. Next when she was on hospital bed after accident, he apologized and said sorry, “Maine tumhe kitna hurt kiya. Kya Kya bol diya gusse mein” and then he went to pray to Mahadev that nothing should happen to akshu. He will live just knowing that she is happy and safe.

Example 2- accident track. He told Manjari that after knowing about all this, I will not marry ak. And when manajri said “okay. Mat kar”, all the color drained from his face. Like he couldn’t stand the thought of not marrying ak. And then he suddenly changed his tune to “arohi ko sazaa milni chahiye” 😆

There was one more incident but I can’t recall it now.

But my point is that he always has been like this only. He lets anger control his emotions and says crazy things when he is angry. Gusse mein kuch bhi bolta hai yeh ladka.

And it is actually very realistic for people who have anger management issues. They can say the most hurtful things when angry but they hardly ever mean it. Once they calm down, they can’t believe they said such things in the first place and then they go above and beyond to apologize for hurting their loved ones. (I can tell from personal experience as I know some very nice people with anger management issues)

Yeah agreed…it doesn’t make it the right thing though…my issue is everything aside he got the love of his life after so much struggle n he is saying his love n marriage are a mistake (simply going by akshu’s dialogues)… doesn’t sit well with me …marriage is not a frivolous thing doesn’t matter anger management issue…the one thing which makes him special is his undying care n love for akshu …n I had issues with writers touching that by making him insinuate marrying her was a wrong move …the one thing I wanted in this season was staying together n working through the issues…n here they are making abhi say in 5dats of marriage that it might have been a wrong move!!

Yet when Ak said something similar to him outside the hospital after he saved Bade papa, he was triggered but did thandav privately and settled his mind.
This time he erupted. And we know he blabbers in his rage.

She sneezes and he runs behind her, no way he meant what he said.

Just like Manjari ( mat kar shadi) , Ak ( galti sudhaar lo) called his bluff. She will deliver him to Khandeshwari and then move in with Khandeshwari into that new bedroom.

I think the girls will go shopping and do their nails 💅 and go to concerts ( Ak goes to work when she gets time off from Bahu duties anyway) - and Abhi can sit in his room with his dumbells.

Originally posted by: Pr1yanka

Yeah agreed…it doesn’t make it the right thing though…my issue is everything aside he got the love of his life after so much struggle n he is saying his love n marriage are a mistake (simply going by akshu’s dialogues)… doesn’t sit well with me …marriage is not a frivolous thing doesn’t matter anger management issue…the one thing which makes him special is his undying care n love for akshu …n I had issues with writers touching that by making him insinuate marrying her was a wrong move …the one thing I wanted in this season was staying together n working through the issues…n here they are making abhi say in 5dats of marriage that it might have been a wrong move!!

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

I feel he always has been like this only. When he is super angry, he always says extreme things that he doesn’t mean.

example 1- abhi-ar mehendi fight- he said to ak that he doesn’t want to see her face and does not want to keep any relation with her. Next when she was on hospital bed after accident, he apologized and said sorry, “Maine tumhe kitna hurt kiya. Kya Kya bol diya gusse mein” and then he went to pray to Mahadev that nothing should happen to akshu. He will live just knowing that she is happy and safe.

Example 2- accident track. He told Manjari that after knowing about all this, I will not marry ak. And when manajri said “okay. Mat kar”, all the color drained from his face. Like he couldn’t stand the thought of not marrying ak. And then he suddenly changed his tune to “arohi ko sazaa milni chahiye” 😆

There was one more incident but I can’t recall it now.

But my point is that he always has been like this only. He lets anger control his emotions and says crazy things when he is angry. Gusse mein kuch bhi bolta hai yeh ladka.

And it is actually very realistic for people who have anger management issues. They can say the most hurtful things when angry but they hardly ever mean it. Once they calm down, they can’t believe they said such things in the first place and then they go above and beyond to apologize for hurting their loved ones. (I can tell from personal experience as I know some very nice people with anger management issues)

Reva...i definitely agree on you..abhi never would imagined akshu would burst like it too..abhi character in anger management well said too with instances

Originally posted by: Pr1yanka

Yeah agreed…it doesn’t make it the right thing though…my issue is everything aside he got the love of his life after so much struggle n he is saying his love n marriage are a mistake (simply going by akshu’s dialogues)… doesn’t sit well with me …marriage is not a frivolous thing doesn’t matter anger management issue…the one thing which makes him special is his undying care n love for akshu …n I had issues with writers touching that by making him insinuate marrying her was a wrong move …the one thing I wanted in this season was staying together n working through the issues…n here they are making abhi say in 5dats of marriage that it might have been a wrong move!!

Do people with anger management issues behave like this? YES

Is it right for people with anger management issues to behave like this? NO, but it’s a weakness/negative trait/disadvantage of having such an issue.

Do they mean those hurtful things said in anger? NO- just like abhi would not have meant it when he said love and marriage was a mistake.

Do they hurt their loved ones when they say those hurtful things? YES- even when he said that in anger and doesn’t mean it, it would still hurt ak badly

Bottom line- people with anger management issues like abhi should work on controlling their anger. It’s a constant struggle but I am sure that with akshu’s help and once he gets some relief from the pain of seeing Manjari in this toxic relationship, he will get better at controlling his anger. Sad Reality is that it takes momentous effort to achieve that control on your anger and even then some people never come out of it.

(PS- I am no medical or psychology expert. Whatever I am writing in my post is from knowing people who have been dealing with similar issue. So apologies if I said something that is not accurate)

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Tomorrow we get to watch the content in these two frames. I think they will leave it hanging over the weekend to fuel fans. 🤣

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

https://twitter.com/abhirayrkkh/status/1537243667290673152?s=21&t=PEm4uzWX_3fKnrjlWWg-yw

Ok, I have major fomo going on!

Obviously they are not getting separated or anything but them facing all this shit in the 1st week or 10 days of their married is immensely sad. And the fact that their fundamental differences are glaring right in the face is worse. Right now it doesn't feel like the yin yang that they are because Abhi is just too upset..