Life is not a bed of roses .. kabhi Khushi kabhi ghum - Page 7

Originally posted by: Elska18

Some men are wired that way.. he has taken after his father.. the way Ninad was a puppet of Bhavani.. Although Virat is not like a 100 percent copy of his father, but he is like him.. the way he always gave importance to Pakhi and Shruti (the other women in his life). Believe me, this is the story of at least 45 percent women. However, his love is not unconditional, which is pretty much evident in the show since inception, makers didn’t wary to show this part. He did try to love Sai unconditionally, but nature is nature, and the heart wants what it wants.. it won’t be denied.

In western countries like the U.S., a lot of homosexuals live in a childless marriage because they face a lot of issues in adoption process where sometimes the mother backs out or the agency won’t give them the baby, it all comes back to basics.. their understanding and bonding and on top of it LOVE!!! People don’t give up on people they love.. Dumbledore said and i quote “don’t pity the dead, pity the living, and above all those lived without love” which makes a lot of sense to me.. Yes, couples do separate, but not just after one miscarriage.. they do after years of trying maybe or losing a child to an illness where both of them were so connected that it becomes difficult to deal with it... *stranger things (Jim and his wife separate after witnessing their daughter die to cancer after years of treatment)

Not communicating with wife, saying I can’t live in the same bedroom as her... again and again betraying her over trivial issues just confirms the fact that some people can’t handle a marriage. Virat has a pattern of abandoning Sai since inception. He takes on a task with all the principles and stuff, but when push comes to shove, and even a little inconvenience and he loses his shit.

I think he expects Sai to be grateful that he even married her and gave her family. She should be forever grateful to him for that.

Sorry just frustration speaking.

It’s just cruel cruel that he knows his behaviour but doesn’t do anything to correct it.

Originally posted by: saa2929

I think he expects Sai to be grateful that he even married her and gave her family. She should be forever grateful to him for that.

Sorry just frustration speaking.

It’s just cruel cruel that he knows his behaviour but doesn’t do anything to correct it.

people often don’t introspect wrt their behaviour!

Originally posted by: Elska18

people often don’t introspect wrt their behaviour!

We see all that in real life. We don’t need this stupidity in TV shows too.

He tells Ninad all this, so he is aware enough. Sai has been surprisingly open and clear about what she is feeling. Doesn’t he care. What love is this?

Originally posted by: Elska18

Some men are wired that way.. he has taken after his father.. the way Ninad was a puppet of Bhavani.. Although Virat is not like a 100 percent copy of his father, but he is like him.. the way he always gave importance to Pakhi and Shruti (the other women in his life). Believe me, this is the story of at least 45 percent women. However, his love is not unconditional, which is pretty much evident in the show since inception, makers didn’t wary to show this part. He did try to love Sai unconditionally, but nature is nature, and the heart wants what it wants.. it won’t be denied.

In western countries like the U.S., a lot of homosexuals live in a childless marriage because they face a lot of issues in adoption process where sometimes the mother backs out or the agency won’t give them the baby, it all comes back to basics.. their understanding and bonding and on top of it LOVE!!! People don’t give up on people they love.. Dumbledore said and i quote “don’t pity the dead, pity the living, and above all those lived without love” which makes a lot of sense to me.. Yes, couples do separate, but not just after one miscarriage.. they do after years of trying maybe or losing a child to an illness where both of them were so connected that it becomes difficult to deal with it... *stranger things (Jim and his wife separate after witnessing their daughter die to cancer after years of treatment)

Not communicating with wife, saying I can’t live in the same bedroom as her... again and again betraying her over trivial issues just confirms the fact that some people can’t handle a marriage. Virat has a pattern of abandoning Sai since inception. He takes on a task with all the principles and stuff, but when push comes to shove, and even a little inconvenience and he loses his shit.

Okay I agree earlier decisions of divorce and rejecting wedding anniversary party was misunderstanding due to both of them.

But if Sai looses her child what's her mistake?

This is too much.

He didnt even console for Jagtap issue, nor he stopped his family for abusing her. Infact he should apologise to her for everything that happened.

Even now he's not shown following up on Jagtap as he killed sam and might harm Sai in future.

They don't give Sairat scenes but want us to feel their emotions.

Trp audience who saw the 730 show PS will definitely compare the emotions of both shows when it comes to pregnancy.

During wedding anniversary we could feel as they showed very nice moments between them earlier.

Here nothing at all. Looks so disjointed.

After few days it will look like he was eager to be with PP and take care of her , due to lack of Sairat scenes.

FB s don't help. Can't connect.

I feel the same way dear .. virat is doing wrong to sai it cannot be me me and me .. this was the time he had to support Sai totally .. but he failed her

Yes it is like that .. you all expressing it better than what I could .. there is no justification for what virat us doing but unfortunately how he is behaving . Is also normal .. a lot if people cannot rise above their own pain .. and fall to see what abyss they are throwing their partner abd relationship into

Even if without the Spectre of immediate surrogacy . If by some fluke ( don’t know how ) Sai does end up conceiving and delivering a healthy child . This pain of abandonment will always be with her ..

Originally posted by: saa2929

We see all that in real life. We don’t need this stupidity in TV shows too.

He tells Ninad all this, so he is aware enough. Sai has been surprisingly open and clear about what she is feeling. Doesn’t he care. What love is this?

That’s what i said, his love is not unconditional. That’s what even Vankar has shown since inception, and that too in a straightforward way except for the WW part..

Originally posted by: msin

Yes it is like that .. you all expressing it better than what I could .. there is no justification for what virat us doing but unfortunately how he is behaving . Is also normal .. a lot if people cannot rise above their own pain .. and fall to see what abyss they are throwing their partner abd relationship into

Even if without the Spectre of immediate surrogacy . If by some fluke ( don’t know how ) Sai does end up conceiving and delivering a healthy child . This pain of abandonment will always be with her ..

Yes, people’s basic instincts never change!

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Okay I agree earlier decisions of divorce and rejecting wedding anniversary party was misunderstanding due to both of them.

But if Sai looses her child what's her mistake?

This is too much.

He didnt even console for Jagtap issue, nor he stopped his family for abusing her. Infact he should apologise to her for everything that happened.

Even now he's not shown following up on Jagtap as he killed sam and might harm Sai in future.

They don't give Sairat scenes but want us to feel their emotions.

Trp audience who saw the 730 show PS will definitely compare the emotions of both shows when it comes to pregnancy.

During wedding anniversary we could feel as they showed very nice moments between them earlier.

Here nothing at all. Looks so disjointed.

After few days it will look like he was eager to be with PP and take care of her , due to lack of Sairat scenes.

FB s don't help. Can't connect.

Like Msin said, this TRP and writing is irrelevant to this discussion.. Virat is wired that way like a lot of men and women in reality, mostly men..Vankar has always showed Virat like that (this is where Vankar has done a good job😂🤣🙌🏼) Virat didn’t talk much with her when KJ (Abba) died saving him.. he never talked about how Jaggy misbehaved with her all the time in GC when Virat wasn’t in the picture.. that’s what I explained, Virat as a person doesn’t introspect and take things into consideration about how others feel. Leave Sai, he never took the liberty to find out as to what Devi, Ashwini, Shivani, and even Pakhi went through. He lives in oblivion.. in his own world where it’s his principles, rules, and other narrations!! I, Me, and Myself... major difference in personalities between Sai and Virat

Sai: goes out of the way and does things for people in general as well as her closed ones (saved Pari, went out looking for KJ, save the kid Virat, found sammy and convinced him, saved the a complete stranger (kid-ganpati visarjan).. so on

Virat: does everything as per the need of hour and as per his schedule... his principles.. his rules...

*Left Pakhi at the alter when he could’ve easily explained to Samrat and his family
*married Sai coz of his principles

*Saved Shruti and Sahas coz of his principles

Everything he does is out of necessity!

Yes we are in on the same page in this .. virat is unfortunately like that and people don’t change unless there is a major shake up ..though virat has had so many hurdles in his lifetime .. he has not taken stock ..

Pata nahi kab karega .. maybe his daughter and interacting with her.. can build this instinct in him .. it is beyond Sai or his mother to develop this trait in him