Life is not a bed of roses .. kabhi Khushi kabhi ghum - Page 6

I don't know but somewhere I still feel Sai will definitely give birth to Sairat's daughter, this surrogacy just doesn't add up, it may come or not come but the way they are showing Fbs and dream sequences, maybe it's to give fans hope to hold on.

The team is cruel we all know but Surrogacy track has opposition and backlash from very start, whether solo or shippers, everyone is against this track, if this track comes, how long will they able to hold their audience, ppl have already started quitting and if Sairat's kid is born through Pakhi then nobody would even will be interested in generation leap, it's like losing the whole audience with no hope of getting back atleast in Shruti track ppl stayed bcoz of impending confession, here in this track no chance.

Plus I used to think they want to whitewash Pakhi and hence brought this track & she'll be made victim at the end and I had a guess that they would not show Pakhi inclined towards Virat from start but would eventually get attached to Virat and the child in the process but here the scenerio is totally different they are establishing this as her motive to get back Virat making her completely dark, hence it'll be injustice to the kid coming, and his/her life will be result of dark motive than love and it'll not be poetic justice to Sairat's kid, their kid should be out of love not some malice.

Also, I think just like Sairat's journey to confession was painful, same way their journey to parenthood will be painful too, but eventually how they get love same way they will get the happiness of parenthood at the end with their own kid just how Virat wants, the kid which will be result of their love and their shadow without any third party involvement.

Although still hoping against hope.

Ha .. that’s another story ..don’t take it over seriously.. frankly I don’t have the stomach for reality .. I was over connected to bb13 .. and I don’t like discussing reality any more just give me reel .. nothing real

Or may be pp may have miscarriage.

Later Sai will deliver during separation.

Then Virat will meet her somewhere and will bring.sai and the child.

Then pp will snatch the child from Sai like n KD as she is depressed due to miscarriage.

Yeah I get you .. but scripts in serials are written Every week according to trp .. so it seldom makes sense

OTT is better because atleast the thought process is done for a chunk of episodes ..

I doubt the makers have thought so long . They can very well white wash pp in the end of the pregnancy .. kill her off like they did to shruti ( shruti has gone I don’t see her coming back .. maybe Sahas will in next generation)

they can show pakhi dying during child birth and confessing her crimes to virat .,or they can make her write Kuch Kuch hota hai type of letters to her daughter 😂😂…. I hope not .. where the kid brings both parents together.. I hope the leap is not that long ..it does not work .. how will PP write I was so vile .. I drove your mom away .. you are so bright in studies because you got your genes from your topper mother .

though I want separation I want it max 3-4 years .. so that sai finishes her MD .. and starts practicing properly



though it can also be .. that patralekha does not deliver the bsby.. since her intentions were evil .. even she miscarried..

there was no reason for Sai to miscarry.. considering they showed Sam being so optimistic about her babies abd foetus .. but they jerkily showed her abortion ..

I don’t know what audience may connect or may not connect .. I only look at episodes on a per day basis . This episode was good .. but I don’t want to watch it again .. as it was just a bitter pill

That’s too much torture .. vankar will love this .. kill her .. throw out .. when she’s recovering .. bring her back to kill her again .. 😂😂

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Was not Ninad the same way?

Ninad & Ashwini drifted apart....because they got immersed in their reponsibilities..Ashwini was mangaging his home, taking care of his extended family

And he responded by being cruel & abusive towards her for years....

Virat emulates his father, especially domestic/emotional abuse. His mother made that comment early in sairat marriage (pulkit lunch).

- there were many occasions where Ninand held Ashwini's hand and dragged her to room,

- pushed away things from her hand, (if not direct physical abuse, fear of abuse)

- put downs (taunts) Ninand to his Vahini and others, Virat to Pakhi

- separation of beds

- emotional separation

- if Ashwini doesn't heed vahini's way -- send you back where you came from. (Virat actually sent her to Gharchadoli)

Virat took away food, and locked her in the room as well. We don't know if Ninand did it, or Virat improvised what he observed from his father :-(

But Ninand corrected his ways, hope Virat learns this also from his father.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I froze at “Mei Virat ko bachcha de sakti hu.”

Yeah children emulate their parents unconsciously… virat even though he may not approve .. he has done even worse with Sai than his father did with his mom ..

They pick up these traits .. and in their mind it becomes a Normal .. even though virat understood his father was being wrong to his mother . He did nothing as he felt his mother belonged to his father . So they were in a private space . Where he did not interfere . It’s the same with him and Sai .

the way he behaves with Sai is totally different with the way he behaves with pakhi , shruti , Shivani Bua .. ..

with pakhi he still took a little more liberties as she was his friend . With others it’s a mere formality..

But with Sai .. it’s his partner ..he does not act . He just does what he wants to do .. expresses his emotions exactly how it is coming .. if it’s anger . Vent it out . If it’s happiness show it .. if it is grief .. continue to grieve ..

Have not been actively taking part in discussions from sometime now seeing the absolutely rushed episodes & almost destroyed storyline. But yeah here's what I feel they should have actually focused on before & after miscarriage.

Virat taking care of Sai properly in every sense & making efforts to shield her from the constant mental torture from paapi. They could have shown some really amazing conversations bw sairat in this span. After miscarriage too, if not emotionally, but physically virat should have been shown supporting her. Agreed that he's in pain & has lost equally, but Sai's pain is much worse coz she actually had to go thru it physically which is no less than her already added up traumas 😢. Maybe he didn't want to fall weak in front of her & worsen things, but he's not realising his coldness is hurting her like sharp blade leading to more pain. He's not understanding that this behaviour of his may lead to affect the mental health of her leading to self doubt & loneliness!!! Agreed, Not everyone r of same kind & them dealing with such tragedies also differ, but this is one of the imp phase where he needs to stay with her both mentally & physically. For once that man needs to think about how his reactions r affecting Sai! It's difficult, but when you know there's someone whom you can rely on even in your worst phase, you can get over it bit easily.

Ps- Pardon for the long rant, but had to put it over here.

Some men are wired that way.. he has taken after his father.. the way Ninad was a puppet of Bhavani.. Although Virat is not like a 100 percent copy of his father, but he is like him.. the way he always gave importance to Pakhi and Shruti (the other women in his life). Believe me, this is the story of at least 45 percent women. However, his love is not unconditional, which is pretty much evident in the show since inception, makers didn’t wary to show this part. He did try to love Sai unconditionally, but nature is nature, and the heart wants what it wants.. it won’t be denied.

In western countries like the U.S., a lot of homosexuals live in a childless marriage because they face a lot of issues in adoption process where sometimes the mother backs out or the agency won’t give them the baby, it all comes back to basics.. their understanding and bonding and on top of it LOVE!!! People don’t give up on people they love.. Dumbledore said and i quote “don’t pity the dead, pity the living, and above all those lived without love” which makes a lot of sense to me.. Yes, couples do separate, but not just after one miscarriage.. they do after years of trying maybe or losing a child to an illness where both of them were so connected that it becomes difficult to deal with it... *stranger things (Jim and his wife separate after witnessing their daughter die to cancer after years of treatment)

Not communicating with wife, saying I can’t live in the same bedroom as her... again and again betraying her over trivial issues just confirms the fact that some people can’t handle a marriage. Virat has a pattern of abandoning Sai since inception. He takes on a task with all the principles and stuff, but when push comes to shove, and even a little inconvenience and he loses his shit.