Life is not a bed of roses .. kabhi Khushi kabhi ghum

Interesting episode… today everything was paced well with proper thought . virat was finally ready to go to office when his father caught him . I like it when parents take charge..,ninad suits this much much better than the over dramatic ashwini

They go in the cafe .. it’s not like virat is waiting.. to reveal all to ninad .. with a lot of prompts ( girl ) things come out that he finds it difficult to be with Sai in the same room .. as he cannot let it go .. they have lost their baby .( it is natural ) many people are selfish .. ( virat always considers is pain . Even though he knows and feels Sai is under immense stress and wants to help him out . He is unable to do anything .. it is his major defect . ( weakness in character ) as a husband he is failing Sai ..

Ninad tells him to consider adoption or surrogacy ( I am happy ninad is ok with the issue of adoption zz not every grandparent agree to this .. considering they are so particular about Chavan blood )

virat says he wants to experience this journey with Sai .. the 9 months .. well life is not a bed of roses .. this journey of pain .. when you have lost a child is also a journey ..

I have seen life a little more than most of you .. every couple sees this dream of having kids .. most succeed.. a but few face a lot of hardship .. some fail … sone give up abd and some get adverse situations .. but every
Journey is a journey which couples have to take .. virat has to consider that by abandoning Sai at this juncture .. he’s doing her a big disservice.. a lot of couples break up .. because partners could not let go of their pain

I wish they had shown the journey to pregnancy a little bit more .. then shown miscarriage.. everything is so sudden .. samrat is like totally washed away

We see Sai dealing with her pain in a stoic .. she has taken the most bitter pill of working in a children’s ward . Kavita tells her to work in a different department.. but she has her reasons .. I am glad Sai is getting somebody to talk with her .. she always needed someone disconnected with Chavans.. I hope they keep kavita for a longer period .. Sai will need her more

Patralekha is very very lucky .. today fate has given her a chance to over hear what is the problem .. Bhavani had thrown her out but this time fate has helped her .abd her years of experience in eavesdropping.. she could hear their conversation from so so far in the table ..the distance was too much ..

She will use this opportunity to go back to Chavan niwas .. she feels she can give virat a baby Zz because she feels virat needs a baby

I am sure she will suggest to virat to give a baby a normal way .. but virat will take it like a surrogate ..both Sai n virat will consider it. It is almost set P will take this golden chance to destroy them ..

but right now the pain is so much .. it is still stinking ..

I want to discuss what should the couples do.. nor the off screen antics .. or should the show go off air ( it is very boring for me to discuss all this day in day out .. I am not even keen to discuss the acting abilities of all the actors .. ) .. Pls resist from discussing all these point in this thread ..

Many couples face this issue of infertility and Ghum is not the right show to start these topics

for once I am not blaming P .. fate has given her a chance and since she has accepted she only wants to be near virat she will take it with both hands .. so Sai n virat are not doing her a disservice.. only being Silly to not look at her past antics

I feel the husband shouldn’t neglect the wife’s pain. They are not like other couples their circumstances are way way worse. If he pauses and if the makers too pause and think about what Sai went through jail , Jagtap antics; kidnapping sams death, pakhis blame game miscarriage and infertility

His selfishness to not provide comfort to his wife is disgusting. He wasn’t even protecting his pregnant wife or was he able to stop pakhis nonsense. When he can see sai is in pain and hee efffort. It’s cruel. Is hugging her back even stoicly such a big deal. does he want sai to think that her presence is a misery to him. if he breaks down, and blames himself or feels guilty for not protecting sai and his kid also makes sense, but he is like based on his body language is behaving like she aborted his kids. This show is cruel to sai. She has no choice but to pick her sadness and move on. And he has failed every crucial moment. And is it so hard to show sai depressed too. Fam trying to cheer them up. He left her every single time when she attempted to make him feel better. And this sai every time forgives him sorry he never apologised

He can have kids but sai can never experience that joy nor if he leaves her will there be any prospects practically, as ghums world men have prospects but esp good hearted folks suffer

Again, one emoji is not enough. ❤️👍🏼 🤣and wow.

I was waiting for your review to speak up heard truths.

Yes Virat is failing Sai big time. she is bearing it all . I think this is how virat is!

Once I used to hate ninad more than pakhi but now we are forced to love him.

.abd her years of experience in eavesdropping.. she could hear their conversation from so so far in the table .

This is 🤣🤣

I am sure she will suggest to virat to give a baby a normal way ..

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It is so surprising that she misses virat used the adjective "Sai's" before every 'bachcha" word he took. May be he said Sai more than bachcha. but she has only selective hearing

Well she took things into her hand, so she will destroy herself. I felt bad for Pakhi's mom today. Poor thing, she could not stop her spoilt child. I think she will help her in her mission. She specifically said Sai and Virat were having "man mutao" which is common but Pakhi has no experience with marriage, so she doesnt understand.

PS: Samrat is washed away, just like that. SaiRat baby has more importance than him

I totally agree dear …virat is being cruel to sai .. someone who is an orphan and is going through so much trauma .. it cannot always be me , me and me .. if anything this is a time for some one to make an entry in Sai’s life and provide emotional support .. which Sai needs badly

Originally posted by: msin

I totally agree dear …virat is being cruel to sai .. someone who is an orphan and is going through so much trauma .. it cannot always be me , me and me .. if anything this is a time for some one to make an entry in Sai’s life and provide emotional support .. which Sai needs badly

Yeah. He can be this super understanding to a terrorists wife. But such indifference to his own wife I can’t excuse.

He can atleast say Sai I need some space I know you need me etc. Sai being an orphan makes me extra sad for her. She said to him her mom died when she gave birth to her, she opened up to him about her pain, he just walks away, atleast show him thinking about Sai’s words alone and voice out his confusion. Why do they make him like this? His cruelt reserved to Sai.

For once Sai openly voiced her worries and still. anyways what to do,

Yes .. virat has been shown very selfish .. I am glad he is shown having proper conversations to know what he is feeling .. today ninad got a chance .. from next week P will be back in the house his dukh ki sathi ..

pakhi was very very lucky today.. this was a conversation she was not fishing to hear .. but as they say God helps in mysterious ways ..

Pakhi thinks god has given her a chance .. but maybe through her .. the chance has been given to virat n Sai . The way things were going . They would have drifted apart with a lot of bitterness or worse stayed together without any love zzz like ninad n ashwini.

with pakhi’s entry .. maybe the much needed hope .. that both need will be provided .. if it’s a surrogate .. ( proper one ) the bond between the 2 will be formed ..even if they drift apart ..the mix of Sai n virat will keep them tied to meet again ..

I don’t want surrogacy.. but the way things are playing out it definitely looks like that .. pakhi will want to give her baby to virat .. but virat will think she’s offering herself as a surrogate.. more than him ..Bk will jump at the chance ..

Sai n virat will definetely separate by the time this baby is born ( too much feud created by pakhi and even the Chavan family ) .. but this baby will be the one who will bring the biological parents together ..

We are all thinking it will be fake 🤪.

He has taken Sai for granted .. just like he takes his mother for granted .. he doesn’t wear a mask of nicety .. around her .. he was doing in the initial phases of marriage .. but the more she became his wife .. the more warts of his came out .

virat is basically nice to all around him .. but it takes a toll on his patience … so with Sai it is more of him first .. it has been the case after shruti ..Sai became more his wife than ever .. because his anger and frustration were always towards her . It’s wrong no doubt .. and Sai has to voice it out

Originally posted by: msin

He has taken Sai for granted .. just like he takes his mother for granted .. he doesn’t wear a mask of nicety .. around her .. he was doing in the initial phases of marriage .. but the more she became his wife .. the more warts of his came out .

virat is basically nice to all around him .. but it takes a toll on his patience … so with Sai it is more of him first .. it has been the case after shruti ..Sai became more his wife than ever .. because his anger and frustration were always towards her . It’s wrong no doubt .. and Sai has to voice it out

Perfectly said. rono was exactly like this . Here they made virat so soft And also renamed him to virat sai Chavan, so people get disappointed big time 😅

There is no Balance in this show even happy moments are shown not exclusively but interspersed with painful moment. We all watch for entertainment. But this is like we are searching for good moments amidst toxicity and careless dealing of such a sensitive topic. despite having TRPs this is their creativity. Could have been a turning point of Pakhi.

My problem is despite showing Pakhi as vile and evil they glorify her unlike other shows. Otherwise third angle tho is common in all ITV shows

anyways love your review . I don’t think I can ever write a unbiased one