Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #35 - Page 45

Originally posted by: SummerBorn

okay crazy! But you said the exact same thing that my vest friend said in the morning. The dholi and shivratri thing.

But yaar even then she was wrong. To get someone high without their knowledge is crime. To ask a husband of lying to his wife abiut his ex is toxic. She might have been a good friend to him... but itna bhi kya overprotective hona? That you literally can stake everything around him? And kaahe ki saving? Kaahe ki safety? Come to think of it, uske chuone chupane k chakkar mein vedu scene itna lamba khinch gaya tha. Now she will play this stunt.

Also, i'll say what my friend said... she calls him jaan? Why? Baby bol... babe bol... RK bol... kuch aur bol but jaan is a little too much for just a friend. Shenis not his gf/lover/wife. So why this jaan? Its all about over possessive behaviour which is jist as toxic as passive regressive obsession nandu has with ram.

So the only people who love him are adi, vik and kunal... and un sabse upar PRIYA! And honestly how could priya even tolerate this jaan thing. Mere aadmi ko koi jaan bulao... seedha ghomp degi mein usko! But Priya is devi jagat mata. She will tolerate anything and everything, take sabka blame apne sar and save everone's arse except her and her husband's.

And the fact that its brinda who is the one who will drive a wedge between the two... she knows if ram gets to know k proya is pregnant with his baby, he will fogive her at all costs and she does not want him to compromise. But why? Ek toh she was not even close to shivi, second of all... if she really cared for ram, she should have let this be the chance to let them come closer again. Shivi is gone, usse zindagi ni chalni ram ki. Proya se chalni iski zindagi. She should be with him and this was the miracle everyone kept obsessively mentioning yesterday. But Brinda the bi🤬ch has come to ruin it all. I wish i could say the abusive word for her thats coming to my mind...but IF wont allow that! It begins with a c and ends with a t...

@bold: She is extremely possessive of Ram, also very impulsive and hot headed. Uske actions ko abhi hi kyun "negative" label karein..she has been like this only. We didn't give it weightage because we went with the flow that her intent was to keep them together. Her picking a side in the current scenario is not surprising to me at all.

As for the whole "jaan" thing, Pri would never interfere with Ram's old relations as she has said and shown before. In the starting only Bri of all the friends gang wanted to bring RaYa together..abhi woh bhi reverse ho gaya.

I'm thinking when will a day come when Ram tells all these people, including Pri to not decide things on his behalf..they all treat him like a toddler who will not be able to think for himself or make a decision!

Bacche ko bada hone ka mauka toh do 🤣

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

If she is on Ram’s side she should help him get back with Priya coz she knows he loves her madly. She also knows his step family gives two shit about his happiness. Sorry but this is a disgusting thing they r showing in the name of twist. Khair I realised one thing. If a show like GoT could be ruined yeh toh kuch nahi hai 😆

Everyone does what they think is best for Ram. Kabhi kisine usse poocha hai?

Originally posted by: SummerBorn

okay crazy! But you said the exact same thing that my vest friend said in the morning. The dholi and shivratri thing.

But yaar even then she was wrong. To get someone high without their knowledge is crime. To ask a husband of lying to his wife abiut his ex is toxic. She might have been a good friend to him... but itna bhi kya overprotective hona? That you literally can stake everything around him? And kaahe ki saving? Kaahe ki safety? Come to think of it, uske chuone chupane k chakkar mein vedu scene itna lamba khinch gaya tha. Now she will play this stunt.

Also, i'll say what my friend said... she calls him jaan? Why? Baby bol... babe bol... RK bol... kuch aur bol but jaan is a little too much for just a friend. Shenis not his gf/lover/wife. So why this jaan? Its all about over possessive behaviour which is jist as toxic as passive regressive obsession nandu has with ram.

So the only people who love him are adi, vik and kunal... and un sabse upar PRIYA! And honestly how could priya even tolerate this jaan thing. Mere aadmi ko koi jaan bulao... seedha ghomp degi mein usko! But Priya is devi jagat mata. She will tolerate anything and everything, take sabka blame apne sar and save everone's arse except her and her husband's.

And the fact that its brinda who is the one who will drive a wedge between the two... she knows if ram gets to know k proya is pregnant with his baby, he will fogive her at all costs and she does not want him to compromise. But why? Ek toh she was not even close to shivi, second of all... if she really cared for ram, she should have let this be the chance to let them come closer again. Shivi is gone, usse zindagi ni chalni ram ki. Proya se chalni iski zindagi. She should be with him and this was the miracle everyone kept obsessively mentioning yesterday. But Brinda the bi🤬ch has come to ruin it all. I wish i could say the abusive word for her thats coming to my mind...but IF wont allow that! It begins with a c and ends with a t...

About her calling him jaan, its still OK bcoz as friends their bond was slightly different from others. Infact Brinda was my fav supporting character coz she was a no nonsense person.

@bold - Exactly my point! She detested Nandu, Shubhu and Shivi to some extent for sidelining Ram and she was the one who always believed Priya was the only one capable of giving Ram true love. Then why is she so affected by Shivi's death that she is hating Priya? When I saw in her insta post she is back, I was so happy. Little did I know makers brought her in to butcher her as well. There are no words right now. This show can shut down tomo and I give two hoots about it. My only regret is why did I start watching it? And when I decided to ignore it till 160 odd episodes y did I pick it up after that only? In a matter of 40 episodes (2 months) the show is ruined. I can only imagine how those who have been watching it since the time it aired feel about this.

Originally posted by: DazzlingLight

Everyone does what they think is best for Ram. Kabhi kisine usse poocha hai?

The only people who fit in this category are Brinda and Priya. His so called family never thought and will never think whats best for him. Whats best for them is all that counts. Baaki duniya jaaye bhaad mein. Coming to his friends, they have a fair idea whats good for Ram but they cannot open their mouths. Adi is being sensible but is a coward before Bri. He won't open his mouth.

I donno y Brinda will do what she will do and after reading the spoiler script Mages posted, I have no interest left to watch what will prompt Brinda to do that. All I know is, I loved this character and was waiting for Aanchal to come back but the makers have butchered it all so bad. Ram jaaye bhaad mein, Priya jaaye bhaad mein aur show jaaye bhaad mein. That's all I can think of now.

Female friends call each other baby babu to male female mein kya issue hai ..in this gigantic mess Jaan is a miniscule thing.

Is brinda supposed to look away from someone's death and priya ka own admission of cheating on ram? No good friend will let a woman like that come close to their friend.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

Female friends call each other baby babu to male female mein kya issue hai ..in this gigantic mess Jaan is a miniscule thing.

Is brinda supposed to look away from someone's death and priya ka own admission of cheating on ram? No good friend will let a woman like that come close to their friend.

Read the spoiler script. Brinda will probably manipulate Priya to tell that lie and no good friend will do that.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Read the spoiler script. Brinda will probably manipulate Priya to tell that lie and no good friend will do that.

What I think is bri will go to priya and maybe give her the realisation that whatever happened due to her criminal fam is a mistake. Then ram comes and he's like i will manage both you and my mom for our kid. Then she lied to ram. Bri may not manipulate but she will plant the seed that she's not good for ram.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

A. Female friends call each other baby babu to male female mein kya issue hai ..in this gigantic mess Jaan is a miniscule thing.

B. Is brinda supposed to look away from someone's death and priya ka own admission of cheating on ram? No good friend will let a woman like that come close to their friend.

A. No its no more a miniscule thing given the present scenario. The use of word Jaan becomes highly significant now. Its okay to call your friends with endearments... we do too! Everyone does. My male best friend calls me "love", i call him "honey". But problem arises when you start attaching obsessive symptoms with thes terms, like Brinda. Bolta toh Ram bhi hai usse Jaan...but he is not crazy for her. Nor will he ever jeopardize her relationship with Adi, in case he hurts her, especially if its BY ACCIDENT. HERE, brinda has always been the toxic kinda obsessive. She was all happy to let priya come close to ram as long as she saw her as a figure who would make him forget vedika. But even then she has always been interfering in their relationship. Like WHY? She went off from the show like two months ago... and thats when Raya came closer than ever because they were just two individuals working on their relationship ON THEIR OWN. Settling misunderstandings and giving space to themselves... with brinda its always been interference that resulted in creating massive misunderstandings between the two.

B. What someone? Its Shivi! Someone she didnt give a fig about and someone she low key loathed for sidelining Ram. She always believed k ram is better off without his step family. So now whybis she suddenly being the one who is imposing shivi ki importance in ram's life. As i said before too. Sshe was good as long as she was there. Now she is gone. And uske jaane se ram ko dukh hona laazni hai, but why should it be the end of all good things for him? Shivi k jaane se uski life mein kyunissues ho? Uski life shivi k jaane se rukni toh nahi chahiye. His life will move forward with his OWN family- wife and child... not shivi, shubhu, nandu! So shoukd she not make him understand that... use this baby thing as a chance to get them closer as she tried in the beginning... keyword beingbtried because usne sirf problems create kari hai since day 1. Priya ka admission of cheating? Joh brinda ya nandu plant karvayenge? PLANT... its not as if priya really cheated on ram... she is being made to say this. If its brinda ka ploy...SHAME ON HER! If its nandu, then brinda, if she were really a good friend to Ram, should have tried to make sense with ram that priya will never cheat on you... go talk to her n clear your misunderstandings. But nai iss mata ko toh alag hi khujli hai

I somewhere have a feeling her animosity against vedika was also just her obsessive behavior for ram and that just makes her all the more toxic

To each of our own. But show won't go that way for bri i guess. 😆

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

read it. The twitter wala page na? It's half

What I think is bri will go to priya and maybe give her the realisation that whatever happened due to her criminal fam is a mistake. Then ram comes and he's like i will manage both you and my mom for our kid. Then she lied to ram. Bri may not manipulate but she will plant the seed that she's not good for ram.