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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: anuandavi


I agree... Abhimanyu and Neil had Manjiri with them.. But Parth, Anisha, Nishtha have a mother who discourages them.. Agreed and that's why I said it's not comparable but it has a similar foundation - loneliness, unseen, seeing abuse-first hand. To better illustrate, Akshara and Abhimanyu have different traumas, but the emotions they feel are quite similar and enable them to understand each other better. They have found a mother in Manjiri but still......

Is a found mother that different from a biological one? Cause as of now, its unclear whether Manjari is Neil's biological or found mother. If it's the latter, should we feel differently about his attachment to Manjari or how he feels when he sees her victimized?

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

It's not his responsibility, nor is it Akshara's yet she's going to go on a mission to save everyone's relationships. But that's beside the point.

I guess it's just a comparison in my head that I couldn't help but draw from the beginning of the season. Abhimanyu and Neil's biggest grievance was the fact that they've always felt alone, despite living in such a grand home. They've both seen their mother (figure?) get abused by her husband, and it's left such a scarring mark on them. Yet, how they've tackled the situation is completely different. Neil's heart grew bigger and more selfless despite it whereas Abhimanyu's grew colder (until Akshara came along) and focused on his self-interest (only protecting Manjari and caring about his happiness). Neither approach is wrong, they're both rooted in trauma and a means to protect oneself. I condemn no one, rather I relate as I've lived both sides.

But, if I was Shefali, I would feel bad for my husband who has given more than he's received and overlooked by his parents and brother. I would point it out, hopefully in a more calm rational setting with a solution in mind rather than insecurity.

Similarly, Parth, Anisha and Nishta felt alone/unseen by their parents and saw their maternal figure (who they definitely like more than both their parents combined, idk about love), Manjari, get abused. And they've all handled it in different ways. Anisha's was to flee the situation and find her happiness elsewhere whereas Parth stayed (I presume because of family). Their pain is not comparable to Abhi's but it is rooted in a similar cause so the expectation would be to look out for and understand each other.

Akshu has been raised in a totally different environment than Abhi. She has lost 3 parents and been taught that family is everything. She wants to preserve bonds that to others wouldn't seem worth preserving. And, a part of this, is due to her own trauma. So, we cannot compare Abhi and Akshu's approaches to this.

And yeah, all of the Birla family members have dealt with their trauma in different ways, but that is how it works in reality too! It is a very realistic portrayal of how kids in abusive households grow up.

Even just take Parth and Abhi for example. They both witness their fathers demeaning their mothers and not valuing them. While Parth took after Anand and now does the same, Abhi took a different direction. He is the exact opposite of Harsh when it comes to respecting the women in his life. Either people fall into the abusive traps and continue the cycles, or they are able to get out of it for a better future. Or, it's a mix of both.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: anuandavi


Shefali's words have left Abhimanyu shocked.. So maybe now he will think abt that.. Hope the makers show that...

I do, too because I'd love to see the brothers hold a closer bond and support each other. Abhimanyu is a great pillar of support for Akshara, like Neil and Manjari, but it would so beautiful to see the rest of the cousins at her side too. I imagine Parth would support her regardless, but I'd like more scenes like the jeep scene after Abhimanyu manoed Akshara and Manish with his "baraat".
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: tptwi

Akshu has been raised in a totally different environment than Abhi. She has lost 3 parents and been taught that family is everything. She wants to preserve bonds that to others wouldn't seem worth preserving. And, a part of this, is due to her own trauma. So, we cannot compare Abhi and Akshu's approaches to this.

And yeah, all of the Birla family members have dealt with their trauma in different ways, but that is how it works in reality too! It is a very realistic portrayal of how kids in abusive households grow up.

Even just take Parth and Abhi for example. They both witness their fathers demeaning their mothers and not valuing them. While Parth took after Anand and now does the same, Abhi took a different direction. He is the exact opposite of Harsh when it comes to respecting the women in his life. Either people fall into the abusive traps and continue the cycles, or they are able to get out of it for a better future. Or, it's a mix of both.

It is very realistic and I applaud the show for the same. Children who grew up in similar dynamics appreciate the versatility because most of us can relate with one of the Birla youngsters or another. I personally am a mix of Neil and Abhimanyu so it's refreshing to see someone with similar shades on tv :)

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: In_love

I don't feel bad for parth in career becoz people who don't help themselves then God will not help you.

I haven't given it much thought so I don't feel any way about his career.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

akshu is busy planning surprise parties.. little does she know surprise party will turn into shock party.. 440 volt ka jatka to a lot of people

Manjari- shocked to see someone cared about her special day

Harsh- shocked that he has to stand and smile besides Manjari for entire party

Mahima/anand- shocked that harsh/Manjari got importance as a couple

Shefali- shocked because she has to take a day off from work yet again 😆

Parth- shocked because he didnt think of this party to make his chachi happy all these years

Abhi- shocked because akshu opened Pandora’s box so soon and thinking about all the plates he will have to break for all the drama that is coming soon.

Neil- he will chill like us with popcorn and sleep when party is over and have akshu make kachoris next morning
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This is the best 🤣


Akshu is sending in a typhoon to unearth all the insecurities, secrets, and disfunctions in this Birla household. At least she is getting all the information up front. Talk about crash course welcome to the Birlas' the bahu who has been here less than 3 days shaking the foundations to do clean up.

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Posted: 3 years ago

i was not expecting much from today’s episode bt i absolutely love it..❤️Abhi ki excitement for ak was on it’s peak.first time on itv I have seen a husband is happy n wants his wife to achieve more..abhi is setting goals so high..ak was so much in guilt for ruining his excitement by denying the department..I loved abhi’s justification abt the whole scenario of gifting department..I m glad abhi didn’t react n did his 2+2..he caught her lie instantly thts y they are made for each other couple..❤️

Finally I got to see my angst Birla back..love how he was fighting for his wife..pb insulting ak back n forth is getting on my nerves now..ak took the right decision bt seriously I wanted her to work somewhere else n not with this toxic birla’s..if abhi wants her to succeed Thn it should be anywhere y only birla’s..precap is exiting as well..finally we are getting shama ko jaise diwana mil gaya..❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: In_love

I don't feel bad for parth in career becoz people who don't help themselves then God will not help you.

His dreams and aspirations have been destroyed by his parents. No child is supported in that household unless they want to be a doctor. His own sister ran away from home because she couldn't breathe there and had absolutely 0 support nor encouragement from Mahima nor Anand. It's not as simple as Parth not wanting to help himself. This type of neglect and abuse from a parent can really destroy your self confidence. I think we will get a track where Akshu helps him.

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