Originally posted by: nehaahmad
Yaar I don’t think anyone condoned that behavior or said that DILs have to face this. I might have missed it. But I think what we are saying that unfortunately sometimes women are in such position of weakness that when they are subjected to these kinds of situations they ar r unable to fight back. They are not strong enough. Socially emotionally financially to squash these kinds of behaviors.
It is totally not okay to say these things to anyone be it a mil or a dil or A sil. Ppl who have broken the chain are ones who are strong enough to set good boundaries and respect themselves enough to take a stand. But the problem is the way a whole generation or two has been raised. Maa baap say sawal na karoo. Larki ho seedha baitho. Yeh karo woh karo. Doosray ghar Jana hai. Awaz neechay karoo. When you have been taught that all your life and then haven’t been given a chance to develop your own sensibilities and personality or sense of what is right or wrong. Then ppl fall victim to these kind of scenarios.
Just a thought. 😘
Yes I completely agree.
bold: Yes, that's an issue. Thankfully, My parents never taught me things the way that I'm a girl so I have to behave this way that way, they always taught me to fight and never take shit from anyone including them. But then yeah there are some other people in family who are like why didn't you teach her to behave and dream like a normal girl and all that.
But I feel bad for what happened to Imlie today, poor girl is so broken, she will need lots of healing now, that's why in pregnancy promo also she seemed so emotional and happy because she might have thought that she would give such a life and also a good father's name to her child which she herself couldn't get. But I feel sad because they won't be actually showing them becoming parents, so, poor imlie might have a miscarriage or pregnancy might turn out to be fake. But in future or in the end whenever they have a child, I've a hunch that it'll be a baby girl only.