Tum kya kar logi - #1 INVITE ONLY (DT Note pg 109) - Page 94

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SundariP

In short he always felt emasculated by men who stand their ground in front of him. Like satyakam and Aryan.

Even though he felt jealous of prakash/sunder (even Nishant, I'm not sure about this one) before but not threatened that imlie will chose them over him

TBH, more than jealousy or insecurity (on which I do 100% agree with your points) what sealed it for me was the IMMENSE lack of trust, faith in the relationship.

It's just....incomprehensible to me that the sight that Aditya saw would convince him of an affair. It's SUCH a leap. It makes me think he never really trusted Imlie.

Not to go into my own life history and bore you, but I've grown up watching my parents be extremely secure in their relationship, laughing at their couple friends who get suspicious over all kinds of things, get anxious about male-female friendships, etc, and mom always drilled in my head that if you don't trust your partner to not cheat on you, break up because the relationship is doomed.

And that's kind of what I hear in my head when I see this fiasco play out. Forget Aryan, Aryan is irrelevant. How little faith does Aditya have in his own wife here? He knows what marriage means to her- he knows how much she's endured because of how she values the sanctity of marriage. Yet, it takes SO LITTLE to make him think she's cheating? And this while he's trying to seek forgiveness for not trusting her when she said she didn't attempt to kill the pregnant mother of his child. Yikes.

Not a man worth being anyone's partner.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Bea1

I can't remember how I expressed it. I'll try scroll through all my posts and find it and post it here.😆

Bro that was your other Id bea2 and like DT #2 probably

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

TBH, more than jealousy or insecurity (on which I do 100% agree with your points) what sealed it for me was the IMMENSE lack of trust, faith in the relationship.

It's just....incomprehensible to me that the sight that Aditya saw would convince him of an affair. It's SUCH a leap. It makes me think he never really trusted Imlie.

Not to go into my own life history and bore you, but I've grown up watching my parents be extremely secure in their relationship, laughing at their couple friends who get suspicious over all kinds of things, get anxious about male-female friendships, etc, and mom always drilled in my head that if you don't trust your partner to not cheat on you, break up because the relationship is doomed.

And that's kind of what I hear in my head when I see this fiasco play out. Forget Aryan, Aryan is irrelevant. How little faith does Aditya have in his own wife here? He knows what marriage means to her- he knows how much she's endured because of how she values the sanctity of marriage. Yet, it takes SO LITTLE to make him think she's cheating? And this while he's trying to seek forgiveness for not trusting her when she said she didn't attempt to kill the pregnant mother of his child. Yikes.

Not a man worth being anyone's partner.

Dropped your mike, did you?

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Dropped your mike, did you?

Whoops? Honestly I can write a thesis 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

TBH, more than jealousy or insecurity (on which I do 100% agree with your points) what sealed it for me was the IMMENSE lack of trust, faith in the relationship.

It's just....incomprehensible to me that the sight that Aditya saw would convince him of an affair. It's SUCH a leap. It makes me think he never really trusted Imlie.

Not to go into my own life history and bore you, but I've grown up watching my parents be extremely secure in their relationship, laughing at their couple friends who get suspicious over all kinds of things, get anxious about male-female friendships, etc, and mom always drilled in my head that if you don't trust your partner to not cheat on you, break up because the relationship is doomed.

And that's kind of what I hear in my head when I see this fiasco play out. Forget Aryan, Aryan is irrelevant. How little faith does Aditya have in his own wife here? He knows what marriage means to her- he knows how much she's endured because of how she values the sanctity of marriage. Yet, it takes SO LITTLE to make him think she's cheating? And this while he's trying to seek forgiveness for not trusting her when she said she didn't attempt to kill the pregnant mother of his child. Yikes.

Not a man worth being anyone's partner.


Honestly he wasn't even seeking forgiveness tabhi... He was again convinient option route, I've told malini she's my responsibility and asked her to leave the house, now allz well between us, come back, happy Anniversary 😒 👀 😷

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SundariP


Honestly he wasn't even seeking forgiveness tabhi... He was again convinient option route, I've told malini she's my responsibility and asked her to leave the house, now allz well between us, come back, happy Anniversary 😒 👀 😷

LOLL trueeee but I'll give him a slight pass there because that's what Imlie herself said, that tell her to move out and I'll come back and we'll pick things up.

He can't apologize, because that involves taking accountability, and Raja Betas don't believe in that 😳

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SundariP


Honestly he wasn't even seeking forgiveness tabhi... He was again convinient option route, I've told malini she's my responsibility and asked her to leave the house, now allz well between us, come back, happy Anpniversary 😒 👀 😷

Happy anniversary, darling! Won't you please come to the surprise party no one invited you to?

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

LOLL trueeee but I'll give him a slight pass there because that's what Imlie herself said, that tell her to move out and I'll come back and we'll pick things up.

He can't apologize, because that involves taking accountability, and Raja Betas don't believe in that 😳


Entitled hum-galath-kabb-thhe Raja beta(s)

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SundariP


Entitled hum-galath-kabb-thhe Raja beta(s)

"Galat? You think I'm galat?? Pls note, I'm in possession of a Y-chromosome- keeping that in mind, please explain to me ki hum galat kab the?"

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Happy anniversary, darling! Won't you please come to the surprise party no one invited you to?

Why does she needs to be invited though? She must know that babisahab requires her attention through the soul connection they have 💁

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