Did abhimanyu birla really fight hard for his love?

This post should be avoided by abhimanyu birla lovers. Don't read it. It may piss you off.

I read so many times on twitter and if that abhimanyu birla fought hard for his love...i want to point out few things..where did abhi actually fight hard for his love?

He proposed the girl , got rejected and himself gave up on the love story by getting engaged to the same sister of his lover . People say his love for ak is extreme but i don't think so. If it was so , he would never get engaged to her sister.

It took a fire incident photo as a proof of the girl's love and he pulled off a typical cheap psychotic stunt to get confession out of her . That too ak realised abhi's feelings is deep for her because she had an accident.

Then after all this happened, abhi kept forcing himself on bade papa ...it instigated bade papa to the extent that he sent him to jail after he created ruckus. If it wasn't for bade papa's heart attack, he would not have accepted this proposal so easily. So abhimanyu just used his skills as a doctor in convincing people.

Here I don't see any fight or struggle from either of abhira's side. Birlas as it is give a hoot about Abhimanyu's decisions. Goenkas also seem a pretty chill family ..else who would marry off the other daughter when one daughter is jilted...so even ak's claim of family izzat, don't want to make family unhappy to strech the family were so stupid because goenkas are literally the most chilled out family ever. Abhimanyu birla himself says bade papa is so chill. Abhi n akshu openly romance...

Real fight of love when lovers stay true to each other. I would say abhi's love is infinite if he decided he won't move on from akshu and akshu wouldn't donate her lover to her sister..and then if real family problems crop up like birlas not accepting akshu as bahhu and goenkas not accepting abhi as they think aarohi is a better match...then I would say that is struggle for live when you actually make the family understand your feelings and gave them time to accept.

Yaha toh kuch tha hee nai. Family drama was a joke as everyone accepted abhi n akshu... Bade papa immediately had a change of heart after getting successfully landing in birla hospital

Honestly When I first read the first two lines I was not sure weather I should read this or not. But I am glad you stated out your facts without using any abusive words or language.

I will first say why I think some users think that way

When akshara rejected him after first Tilak he could have moved on but he didn't and still went to her with hopes and confidence that she still loves him

Then she rejected him again in Birlas house.. He again had confidence she loved him and was lying

Then on his birthday akshara did all planning and his hopes raised again.. Then Ruby truth and all

Later when his mother's health went down, that was when he accepted Aarohi but here also I think he knew that Akshara would get uncomfortable and might accept his proposal so he kept saying her I am your Jijaji, eating sweets showing him in pain and making her understand that but Akshara still didn't agree. Only when he saw fire photo he was confident akshara loves him.

Then on marriage day I don't know if he would have married to Aarohi or ran away. Maybe he had confidence his mom will see his pain and might help him back out but whatever it is leaving girl on marriage day was no sense.

Now this is one way of seeing things but if we see it other way like you mentioned your not completely wrong either. Everyone can see this differently.

Now coming to Akshara I think she was more wrong here because like you mentioned Goenkas were cool with her and I didn't understand how she kept rejecting him for Sirat but after confession that Sirats death no longer mattered. She was one who was standing outside airport on marriage day and lying. She was the one who was giving him hopes after every rejection or flirting with him.

All other points on Abhi giving damn about birlas and heart attack completely agree but let's see how story moves forward now. Because now this is past and I'll be interested to see if all Shiv Parvatiji references they gave will they stick to it or make a joke about that.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Honestly When I first read the first two lines I was not sure weather I should read this or not. But I am glad you stated out your facts without using any abusive words or language.

I will first say why I think some users think that way

When akshara rejected him after first Tilak he could have moved on but he didn't and still went to her with hopes and confidence that she still loves him

Then she rejected him again in Birlas house.. He again had confidence she loved him and was lying

Then on his birthday akshara did all planning and his hopes raised again..

Later when his mother's health went down, that was when he accepted Aarohi but here also I think he knew that Akshara would get uncomfortable and might accept his proposal so he kept saying her I am your Jijaji, eating sweets showing him in pain and making her understand that but Akshara still didn't agree. Only when he saw fire photo he was confident akshara loves him.

Then on marriage day I don't know if he would have married to Aarohi or ran away. Maybe he had confidence his mom will see his pain and might help him back out but whatever it is leaving girl on marriage day was not sense.

Now this is one way of seeing things but if we see it other way like you mentioned your not completely wrong either. Everyone can see this differently.

Now coming to Akshara I think she was more wrong here because like you mentioned Goenkas were cool with her and I didn't understand how she kept rejecting him for Sirat but after confession that Sirats death no longer mattered. She was one who was standing outside airport on marriage day and lying.

All other points on Abhi giving damn about birlas and heart attack completely agree but let's see how story moves forward now. Because now this is past and I'll be interested to see if all Shiv Parvatiji references they gave will they stick to it or make a joke about that.

Thanks for understanding my point of view and yes agreed. He didn't give up.. if he wanted to he could believe she doesn't love him and moved on..

So yeah it's good ..

But their story seems very unrealistic to me..

Do u know someone like abhi, akshu or aaru

Or this two sister- one guy story .

Originally posted by: Abhirafan

Thanks for understanding my point of view and yes agreed. He didn't give up.. if he wanted to he could believe she doesn't love him and moved on..

So yeah it's good ..

But their story seems very unrealistic to me..

Do u know someone like abhi, akshu or aaru

Or this two sister- one guy story .

Yeah I know and it happened with my best friend only. That family was very close to me too. It's not dramatic like this one but one sister flirted and then rejected him and to make her accept he proposed another sister. But kept pursuing first sister and later first sister accepted. Here atleast Aarohi didn't love him but there by then second sister started loving him as first sister rejected. Now both sisters wanted him. Then lot of family fights and her mom asked me to help. That guy was my good friend too and he was not regretful of anything. Finally after few years both sisters ended up marrying different boys and boy is also married to another girl. I don't speak to that boy anymore but both sisters are very happy in their life's.

So this is reality. I don't think any family will accept guy if he left another sister on marriage day. But this is ITV where logic has no place.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Yeah I know and it happened with my best friend only. That family was very close to me too. It's not dramatic like this one but one sister flirted and then rejected him and to make her accept he proposed another sister. But kept pursuing first sister and later first sister accepted. Here atleast Aarohi didn't love him but there by then second sister started loving him as first sister rejected. Now both sisters wanted him. Then lot of family fights and her mom asked me to help. That guy was my good friend too and he was not regretful of anything. Finally after few years both sisters ended up marrying different boys and boy is also married to another girl. I don't speak to that boy anymore but both sisters are very happy in their life's.

So this is reality. I don't think any family will accept guy if he left another sister on marriage day. But this is ITV where logic has no place.

Why is that he loved first sister and not the other sister?

And kept pursuing like? Pushed her to accept her feelings by flirting again? Or like abhi showing full angst..

Why did first sister reject? For her other sister?

Originally posted by: Abhirafan

Why is that he loved first sister and not the other sister?

And kept pursuing like? Pushed her to accept her feelings by flirting again? Or like abhi showing full angst..

Why did first sister reject? For her other sister?

First sister was in our college and he used to guide her in studies. He knew the other sister only through her when she started taking him home for her studies.

Yes he pushed her to accept feelings by flirting with her or making her feel jealous with her sister. That is why I like Abhi here because he didn't flirt with Aarohi.

She rejected him because she didn't want to marry him. He was IIT guy and his knowledge was helping her in studies. But she wanted to marry someone from her caste and more handsome than him. But when she saw him with her sister then she started feeling jealous and accepted him. He anyways didn't like second sister so was happy and that's what he wanted.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

First sister was in our college and he used to guide her in studies. He knew the other sister only through her when she started taking him home for her studies.

Yes he pushed her to accept feelings by flirting with her or making her feel jealous with her sister. That is why I like Abhi here because he didn't flirt with Aarohi.

She rejected him because she didn't want to marry him. He was IIT guy and his knowledge was helping her in studies. But she wanted to marry someone from her caste and more handsome than him. But when she saw him with her sister then she started feeling jealous and accepted him. He anyways didn't like second sister so was happy and that's what he wanted.

but he did use other sister and that's so mean...so what happened then? like families didnt accept proposal...its good they didnt as this guy is not trustworthy

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

First sister was in our college and he used to guide her in studies. He knew the other sister only through her when she started taking him home for her studies.

Yes he pushed her to accept feelings by flirting with her or making her feel jealous with her sister. That is why I like Abhi here because he didn't flirt with Aarohi.

She rejected him because she didn't want to marry him. He was IIT guy and his knowledge was helping her in studies. But she wanted to marry someone from her caste and more handsome than him. But when she saw him with her sister then she started feeling jealous and accepted him. He anyways didn't like second sister so was happy and that's what he wanted.

also would like to know...did he do any functions with the other sister? like abhi...tilak, engagement,etc

Both Abhimanyu and Akshara had made lot of mistakes in the initial stages of their relationship and they have paid a heavy price for it. Now I am more interested in seeing their behavior, personalities and actions post marriage. Let's see what they will show post marriage.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

but he did use other sister and that's so mean...so what happened then? like families didnt accept proposal...its good they didnt as this guy is not trustworthy

Yes families tried to explain but both sisters wanted to marry him. . Fights continued.. . After few months second sister fell in love with her best friend who proposed her and then first sister also didn't wanted him . So both finally dumped him.. I don't think Tilak and all happened but parents knew everything because it was all open book and boy often to visit or stay with their family.