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Posted: 3 years ago
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I have always been able to see only bits & pieces of Virat honestly - I just can't seem to get the jigsaw puzzle right. With Sai, I can see the whole of her - so whatever she does, I understand her motivation most of the times.

Virat can be strong when he wants to - not superstrong, but strong enough for his family to be not able to shake his resolve if he is set on something. By now BK should have known😆 . Atleast in his mind, he wants his partner to be equal. But in practice, during times of conflicts, he invariably climbs the patriarchal high horse. He seems to be poor at understanding others POV. He is too emotional - and it gets the better of him at times. He comes across as unknowingly (or knowingly?) selfish at times. But I cannot understand his psychology or his character as a whole.

In short, way too complicated for me to comprehend.

Edited by nethraa_99 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Knowing rono will give some perspective. He is tweaked to fit ITV mould so appears confusing. He is made more playful, romantic and less in age compared to rono!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

Knowing rono will give some perspective. He is tweaked to fit ITV mould so appears confusing. He is made more playful, romantic and less in age compared to rono!

Then I guess, it's time you wrote an essay on Rono. 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
#44

Yaar msin, ghum is made regressive than KD in my opinion. There rono and emon planned their child. Here sai and virat might just have it as an obligation?

Why can’t they show something so important like this which is more essential in joint family set up where the couple are forced into it?

As moor said career vs kid is such a big decision and for once make the ITV couple chose career first and show that it is okay. How difficult is it to write such things 😒

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Posted: 3 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: sadiltl

If a couple can argue on their wedding night, then you can be sure there will be only excitement and fun in their life! 👍🏼


Today's episode gave me a glimpse of how SaiRat's married life is going to be. Their contrasting personalities, their way of handling things, their priorities are going to play a major part in their life. As it should be for any modern working couple. What keeps them together is their love for each other.


Virat is emotional and Sai is logical has been brought out in the first quarter of the episode. Virat's career is made! Sai is yet to make. Her dream is under progress so she will have the anxiety and truly so, she got distracted by that fear now and then. Virat, being emotional explained the reason for his decision, quite beautifully. He doesnt want to spoil this moment for them. Everything can come later, but this moment which is very emotional and important for them, he wants to protect it any cost. He explained to her so romantically and clearly so she gets it. Not without asserting the fact that she is everything to him and he loves her more than anything. This is one thing SaiRat should retain, to communicate. Because one is emotional and one is logical, they speak and think differently. But they can have a common language of love, where they keep asserting their love for each other. Communication.


The second quarter, where Sai talks about confronting the lies, Virat understands she needs logical answers and gives more explanation why it is right at that moment. Because Kaku was playing vile. The main reason is that he doesnt want to spoil the moment(is it?) but he is trying to justify it. Sai is not convinced so she runs to clarify it with Kaku. This will be one of the reasons going ahead SaiRat will have fights on. Sai will be quick to respond and Virat wants restraint. It takes years to come to balance, but just like Virat stopped her and made her understand and just like how Sai listened and gave him time, they have to discuss more before launching off in their own way. Virat too should not delay whatever Sai asked him. Consultation.


The third quarter is beautiful. Sai said she is not going to behave like before. She was thinking about her career and her life before (which is not completely true. May be she meant how she was ready to leave him). But now she loves him and he will be the major part of her decisions and so will be his family. Virat also clarified in words which he showed and wanted from her for the longest time, that they are a unit. Nothing is his or hers but theirs. Material and spiritual. Commitment.


So all the 3 beautiful aspects of marriage are shown today communication, consultation and commitment. 👍🏼 I understood this way because I found these are the things they lacked before and somehow this episode showed they are now present.


Will Ashwini turn grey? There is a chance. Kaku completely believes Virat! He really has an uphil task. Wife puts him on hold and he cant easily bring Kaku to the hold. Only divine intervention is needed now, may be Kaku will fall sick! 😲


PS: Virat is totally giddy in love. He is overwhelmed that he is her first love. Will Sai ever get that feeling? I hope he tells her atleast that. Even though he said he loves her more than anything.

Beautiful description of today's episode Sadiltl❤️. I thoroughly enjoyed it. The way in which you expressed sairat journey from being a couple who were completely mismatched in the eyes of society but are complete with each other in their own way. Communication, consultant and commitment are the most important things in couples life. You brought it out beautifully,👏👏👏👏. To much extent my thinking about sairat is same as yours. That one being logical and another one is emotional ,but that's the beauty of sairat. Communication which they used to do rarely earlier,which was the major reason behind their conflicts and separation. But now they are giving chance to each other. Sai being a good listener and virat providing a better explanation to her insecurities and problems. Consultant as you said sai reacts too quickly i agree with that. She needs to workout on that and virat should try to give answers in a crystal clear manner. Commitment ,this one is most important aspect of their relationship because earlier he did blunder in that and gave that absurd promise to someone. But now he should rectify his mistakes and should try to give sai her deserved status as his wife . And sai should also trust him and must not bring Kaag the hag in their personal matters. Your reviews are nice 👍🏼.
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Posted: 3 years ago
#46

Thanks! Hopefully they talk more tomorrow and I pray pakhi will be there outside for once

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Posted: 3 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: msin

Sai will realise it .. till she gets hurt again ..

Abhi she won’t .. yehi bechari ki life life hau

I am saying the same thing..

That's my gut feeling too...

She won't realise now that she forgave him too easily.. vo next kaand pe hoga...

When V in his overconfidence about her trust will do something she is not comfortable with.. tab use pata chalega... Abhi filhaal 'sab changa si' 😭

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Posted: 3 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: msin

Para nahi Kyu .. that’s why I am scared for the deed .. because in Hindi tv .. when the leads do it .. it immediately leads to pregnancy..

either a couple conceives immediately or they are having problems they cannot conceive .. koi wait n enjoy marriage nahi hota hai

Because it is itv and drama audience especially trp aunties are impatient that's why. In real life, it is not possible . Especially itv makers don't allow couples to enjoy their life . They follow this route - starting the story of leads by hatred,then them encountering numerous times by hook or crook,then their realisation,them facing numerous problems,new trend is third wheelers earlier it it was naag naagins bicchos,then they allow them to do gulu gulu for one day ,poor them . In real life ,it is completely immmmmmpossssible ,until you have hormones like viru sir .Then immediate pregnancy and kaands back to back for mirch masala and thrill. They also includes planning plotting, murders ,ons , torture of female leads,making them Mahanta ki muraat,tyaag ki devi and what not.
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Posted: 3 years ago
#49

Less passionate also 😂😂😂

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Posted: 3 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Thanks! Hopefully they talk more tomorrow and I pray pakhi will be there outside for once

Pakhi will be roaming around there , afterall gundaraaj in chavan niwas like thisImage🐷. Sometimes i wonder who gave permission to makers to telecast this scene. She looked like a Batista here. After reading my comment , Batista to me -Imagehe might make my Chatni 😰😰😰😰

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