Arylie Discussion Thread 49 🧿 - Page 73

Originally posted by: rnrozzy

why suicide???? this show goes from 0-60 in like 2 seconds

the way this show trivializes suicide and mental health issues is reprehensible

pre-Aryan entry Malini attempted suicide twice, once because she felt Aditya didn't love her anymore and another time she faked it to get sympathy from Aditya - which is awful already - but the actress who played Malini (Mayuri Deshmukh) lost her husband to suicide just a few months before they made her do those scenes knowing what she had been through

That’s too much. Unbelievable

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

No wonder arpita have took the decision to suicide.

Once arvind closure is out, she didn't had a time to progress it and blue devil started her venom emotional dialogues. She was taunting Arpita and narmada as widows for sometime now and Everything affected her mental health badly. Now Aru and narmada would understand what she going through and still Sundar isn't a solution for it. Arpita needs sometime for herself to recover from this trauma and Sundar can be a good friend. Whatever may marriage isn't a solution for her.

this is such crap. Why can’t we get time to breath from the situation yesterday. What’s the bloody hurry first of all. Second of all why suicide. That doesn’t jive with her characterization. Third of all where are the bloody writers. What kinda of garbage is this. But lastly once again why is everything being rushed. No reason anymore. AKT gone no schedule to keep. We could take the rest of the week For Imlie and aryan to reflect on what happened here.
I am so taken aback that I am typing garbage right now.

Originally posted by: rnrozzy

yes, so frustrating! i don't understand how things like fights and kisses can be censored on tv but topics like suicide aren't??

no, haven't seen Atrangi Re yet!

One popular pakistani zahid ahmed actor once commented that we are restricted to do intinate scenes by censor board..we have our limitaions..but when it comes to.domestic violence or mental.health issues..

One has to highlight as it creates more drama

Originally posted by: Wanderbug

One of the underrated dialogues of the Scene when Imlie comes back at the T house after marrying Aryan is given by Aryan.

Aditya : Lehrein bhi laut k Kinaron par aati hai.. Tumne Kinara badal diya.

Aryan: Mr.Tripathi, Imlie ko bejaan cheezon se compare karna bandh kijiye.

I remembered that one and I wasn’t sure in that moment how I felt about it. Help me a bit wanderbug.
my thought process has always been that imlie’s fire was too much for this patarkar babu. He couldn’t handle her spirit. Her fire. Her craziness. He wanted to change her in that sense. These are Things that amuse and attract aryan to her. He has shown us that he is not only capable of handling her crazy ideas but her crazy physical outbursts as well. Hence for me the dialogue was meaningful because to me he was basically saying. She is too much for you dude. You don’t have what it takes to handle her.
What was your thought process ?

Originally posted by: KrishnaSourav

dosh mujhe na do tum sab pyaasi ho tharkan pan tum sab mein hain

bold subha se gala phad ka bol rehi hoon they will do their first night in office dekhna

sorry guys these ramzan are kicking my butt. That’s why I haven’t been able to be on regularly BUT I always come back to you jokers talking about tharki pan. My favorite topic. 😘. Did you guys see the new synopsis. Man I am ready to blast off Atif. Idiot. Isski konsi train bhag rahi hai.

im over this show, i'll come back when all these haram nonsensical tracks are done lol

Originally posted by: rnrozzy

why suicide???? this show goes from 0-60 in like 2 seconds

the way this show trivializes suicide and mental health issues is reprehensible

pre-Aryan entry Malini attempted suicide twice, once because she felt Aditya didn't love her anymore and another time she faked it to get sympathy from Aditya - which is awful already - but the actress who played Malini (Mayuri Deshmukh) lost her husband to suicide just a few months before they made her do those scenes knowing what she had been through

OMG that is so awful.. Makers have no conscience. This feels so low.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Sundar and arpita is end game, already narmada said he is son on fammy IG. End game is fine but it should come from them because they're the one going to face sweet and bitter of their marriage , it's should not imposed by imlie.

Aryan and Arpita is right on their own way about imlie

During marriage track imlie is fully sided with Tripathi family and she didn't have much attention to rathore's, if she thought about it she wouldn't have played that stunt on reception , Aparna pointed it well and arpita really not happy with her that day. She also stressed Aru isn't her APNA and she isn't his wife, Humsafar, she came back for di and Kaki ma. She also not ready to accept her own feelings as Arpita said.

It's all hitting together to imlie, she done well with exposing uday but she should leave the rest to Sundar and Arpita, entire family Concentration should be on them not on imlie imposing.Imlie should not take Sundar matter as too personal.

Everyone family have different expectations towards bride and groom. Apart from love there is many other things. Yes Sundar may love arpita dearly but he needs to stand for himself first, his career ambition it's all matters. Top of it Arpita needs to speak what she wants.

Sundar and Arpita no match! It hurt her to hear aryan say stay out at my business but she is the one who started this with don’t calmly amma amma and you are not my sathi pati and partner. And he doesn’t know about her recent changed feelings even she doesn’t know it. So how is he to act. Also they both know each others triggers and use them to hurt each other. Time and time again like tea husband wives. This is the way they hit out. By being mean and saying things to backlash at the other.
Imlie needs to keep he mahanta in check and no match making please. I mean the man has no balls. He was running away. Imlie is more vested in him marrying arpita than sundar is. what is he going to feed her. he gave up all of his savings to the Ts and AKT took that money to Australia.
and arpita Bechari. Yaar ppl say such mean things. BM is probably responsible. Being a widow is such a terrible situation back home that I get it.
but once again what is the bloody rush to move the story forward every episode. Her episode par aik bomb. Why can’t we get an introspective episode. The bombs are giving me palpitations 😂

Originally posted by: KrishnaSourav

dono typical pati patni hain ek dusre ko tanna marenge fight karege phir ohi baat ko leke tanna kya kamal ke jodi hain

https://twitter.com/s_dnair429/status/1519674656881618944

so if Aryan say sorry Tamradina ko bhi rakshas baat ke liye sorry bolna chiaye kya nehi

aryan has to apologize for every teesri baat he has given her and us. We are just as traumatized and upset as she is.
I have a better idea. What if Dancing together like they were yesterday her hands around her neck and his around her waist. He tells her every single teesri baat and she instead of saying sorry tells him that he is her sathi. Her pati. Her everything.
I will totally settle for that. 😘😂😜🤪

Originally posted by: nehaahmad

I remembered that one and I wasn’t sure in that moment how I felt about it. Help me a bit wanderbug.
my thought process has always been that imlie’s fire was too much for this patarkar babu. He couldn’t handle her spirit. Her fire. Her craziness. He wanted to change her in that sense. These are Things that amuse and attract aryan to her. He has shown us that he is not only capable of handling her crazy ideas but her crazy physical outbursts as well. Hence for me the dialogue was meaningful because to me he was basically saying. She is too much for you dude. You don’t have what it takes to handle her.
What was your thought process ?

Interesting perpective. Its one of the reasons why love these kind of forums either for books or shows. Everything has different interpretation by different people. I remember I once heard this, "Same words spoken by one mouth are heard differently by different ears".

To me it seemed the Aditya being a poet/writer at soul thought he was being profound by comparing Imlie a living breathing woman to ocean and waves. But Aryan who respects Imlie first and foremost as human disliked it. In a previous episode Aditya called Imlie a butterfly and even then Aryan disliked the metaphor and told him that she was a survivor.

When you compare a human being with certain things you are basically reducing the entirety of that human to that object to validate your comparison. In this case, by comparing a woman to waves, he was setting a boundary for her. Waves come and hit the shores because thats their boundary. They do not move forward. They have a fixed path. They are limited to the shores and break away. They have no other options. By saying that to Imlie he was binding her to these characteristics. Like saying you crossed your boundaries, you betrayed me. You left me. Its degrading for a woman especially when she has been the only one fighting for the relationship from the beginning. Trying to guilt her into being the deceiver.

Aryan not being the one with word surprising can see through them to understand its an insult to Imlie. Imlie, though was doing it for AKT and T family was fighting Aryan. She has the fire and power to pick herself up and move forward breaking the norms and the tides. He was not taking that insult on her lying down. Thats why Imlie stopped him and said I can fight my battles and proceeded to give Aditya a fitting reply. But a man who doesn't do poetry and words are not his strong suit, for him to identify these nuances of manipulations hidden behind pretty words is just worth a mention.