Anupama and Rakhi: two colours of motherhood - Page 3

I do not understand what great problem kinjal has with rakhi

Rakhi is working cannot spend 24 hours with her child

Most of our mothers work for 10 hours in office

So we also have not had mothers with us for 12 hours a day

We are not angry at our mothers

We know they worked to give us better life

This villanization of working mother not acceptable

Its not easy to work 8 to 10 hours than travel 2 hours than do house work at home

Not at all a joke

Anupama working in house is nothing compared to working mothers in india

The poor working women have no time to eat food also

Specially after 2000s company want you to work 12 to 14 hours a day even at home on laptop or mobile

Anupama does not know ABC how tough life is for working women

Her behaviour that i am best wife i am best mother i am best bahu is totally wrong and that working women are all not as good as her she behaves like that

Kinjal also not liking rakhi confirms this wrong notion that working mothers are bad mothers bad wives bad bahu

what sort of message they want to say?

Anupam ahas to face one vanraj and baa to face but working women face 10 vanraj in office and 10 baas in office than again vanraj and baas at home

Originally posted by: Fighter03

Except for her over-dramatisation and typical vamp antics- Rakhi is a wayyy better mother and woman.

Yeah Kinjal can keep blabbering about lack of time and lack of love and blah blah. She still turned out to be more accomplished, well adjusted and kinder person than the Shah kids.

Because in reality it matters what kind of atmosphere a child grows in. Even if its a house managed by servants, if all the child’s needs are met and there is peace between parents and harmony in the house, the child will be fine.

And however much the mother showers the child with love, if the place is toxic, parents are unhappy, mother is constantly taking abuse, the child will be problematic.

The less said about the toxic Shahs, the better. Leeches is an appropriate term.

I guess she will quit her job after childbirth to stay home with the baby, again glorifying stay at home moms and demonising working moms. If toshu doesn't get his act together they will face even more financial problems. Then dadi anupama and dada anuj will chip in for milk powder and diaper costs. Poor Rakhi will have a meltdown then, kinjals transformation into anupama 2.0 will be complete and irreversible.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

So u r mocking me? This is open forum and is it neccasary my pov should match with u. If my pov does not match with u then I am funny .??My point is regresssive???What kind of logic is this?

Don't be so serious yaar, this is just a discussion forum. And everyone has right to their views

But you have to admit when you use phrases like- bacche zid karte hai - for 20, 30 year old people, it is kinda funny

Bache zid karte hain

Bache zid karte hain

Yes anupama ko bache ko zid ki wajah se aana hota hai shah house mein

Bache chahe jitne bade ho jaaye but maa ko hamesha apne bachon ki chimta rehti hai

Yes yes bache zid zid karte ha

Duniya ke liye bade hote hai

But maa ke liye hamesha bache rehte है

Main aaj to bhi bolti hoon naani ke bache

Naani ke bachhe chahe jitne bade ho jaaye but jub kahenhe nani ke bache hi bol jaayenhe

Lol pata nahi kahan kahan illogical stuff again and again khuch log posi karte rehte hai phir dissapear hote h

Maa ke bache nahi bolenge to aur kya word use karenge maa ke bacchon ke liye,???

This conversation isn't my business, but since I posted this topic I feel obligated to reply. Ha bacche jid karte hai. Jab mai choti thi to blade se khelne ki jid karti thi, but mere parents mujhe rokte the because it is harmful. Anupama ke bacche jid karte hai, but har bar unki jid poori karna unke ke liye sahi nahi hai. Har ocassion jo vo sath manate hai waha shah family ki taraf se koi na koi problem jarur khadi hoti hai, jisne ultimately taklif anupama ko hoti hai. Baa ne kai bar publically bhi tamasha kiya hai, jisse unki reputation pe asar karta hai, baccho par jo asar hota hai vo alag. Ye sab roka ja sakta hai agar baccho ko ye samjhaya jaye ki family ko isse kitni problem ho sakti hai. This is called drawing healthy boundaries, which ultimately benefits them all. Unfortunately ye show is baat ko ignore karta hai.