very very well saidOriginally posted by: SmithaRam
Their support would make it a little easier. But, the char Anupama seems to want everyone to agree with her. Every single person in the family to be happy for her. If they arent she will go above & beyond to make them happy, make them like her choices. The truth is that you shouldn't force anyone to love or respect you. You can try gaining their love/respect. But, if it doesnt work, it is only prudent to let it go!
She must detach from SH, no matter what. There is no other way to put it. Of course, there will be some ties to that home. That is what divorce means when children are involved. This is not the same as disowning. When she made the decision to divorce, she should have first come up with a plan on how her life is going to be soon after she signs te dotted line. Ditto for V as well. It is not a joke, but one of the most important things to do.
Just like how everyone prepares to live with another person soon after marriage, the opposite is true as well.
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