I don't think I have read any Rahul Desai review that isn't sardonic or dripping in sarcasm. That's his style. He likes to paint absurd critical hyperboles. This one crossed the line by using the misogynist trope of fridging to take a potshot at Yami's acting. It's ok to be sarcastic, but this was a poor judgment call.
That being said Yami took it a bit too seriously. It is natural to feel hurt and it is perfectly reasonable to call out something that is problematic. I think it would have been fine to say the dead girlfriend reference was uncalled for and a disrespectful criticism. But to denounce an entire platform for one review is just the same as reducing an actor's entire body of work to one trope.
Even when Anupama panned A Thursday for poor screenplay and unplausible drama - Yami was the only one who was praised. So while Anupama Chopra has her biases, it's not as egregious as Yami makes it seem. Asking a critic to never review your films is a step to far.
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