I totally agree with all of your points. Aarohi cannot see Akshu having "more" than her in any aspect of life. She was totally fine until Abhira weren't accepted by the family, but started getting triggered the moment things started going Akshu's way. She constantly needs all of the attention on herself, because she honestly believes she is the center of the universe. Her saying that she misses Sirat every single day but Akshu only misses Naira today pissed me off so much!! Just because Akshu does not go around self victimizing herself like Aarohi does, does not make her pain any less real or traumatic.
The Mahima-Anand dynamic is really interesting, and Mahima is truly a grey character. Her insecurities towards Akshu was unjustified and unacceptable in the way she treats her, but I understand how she feels so deeply neglected and as if she never gets any credit. Anand blasting her is just going to trigger her more now, and he needs to learn how to respect his wife.
In terms of Abhi wanting to make Akshu's family his own, I thought that line was so cute, because he already has!! He did it from the day he called Manish bade papa. I love him being pampered by the Goenkas, because he worked so hard for their approval!
Seriously Arohi is so much into self victimizing herself.
Bhai you are not the only one in the world with dead parents/ mother!
Akshara alien hai kya jo "akshu aaj apni ma ko miss kar rahi hai main daily karti hu".. even if arohi does turn positive or whatever one fine day, before being a doctor she herself needs serious medical help. Which obviously won't be shown in the show
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