Originally posted by: tptwi
It's not just Harsh and Anand! It is also Parth. He appears to be tamer, but he is no less in insulting his wife when it comes down to it!! I want the makers to explore his dynamic with Shefali more too, because there is so much potential there.
In general there are respect issues going on in the Birla household.
Harsh does not respect Manjari for all she does for him and in the house. He does not know how to show proper gratitude nor concern. He hides it under the mask of his very straightforward statements that sound very harsh.
Anand does not respect his wife at work.
Mahima does not respect Manjari for all she does and belittles her just because she stays at home to take care of the house. Yet she takes full advantage of the things her sister does to make the house comfortable.
Abhimanyu does not respect his father. We know there is more to the story but he crosses that line more often with his dad in the way he responds to his decisions/words/actions. Not saying Harsh does not deserve some of it for some of the nasty things that have come out of his mouth. Essentially Abhi pours more fuel to the fire cause he is so highly emotional.
None of the adults (only exception maybe be Manjari) respect their children's decisions. They always have some input or feel one way or another about certain life choices the children make. We see how Annad and Mahima treat Parth and Anisha. We see how Harsh treats Abhi. The person at this moment shielded from this is Nishtha as we haven’t seen too much of her and she is the youngest.
Shefali does not respect Parth's decision on why he is at home. There has to be a reason but again we haven't been shown that track to understand both parties. There is lack of communication between the two. Parth in turn lacks understanding of his wife who is career oriented and does not respect her work. The issue is balance between family and work.
One comment about Neil I don't know what he actually does. Is he a vlogger? Does he have a business degree? I think in the very beginning of the show he was shown making arrangements for a family photoshoot with a magazine. So I assumed he was involved with some sort of management.
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