Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #19 - Page 17

Originally posted by: Bana

I am not liking this new BTS at all. Mental health is a serious issue so they shd not show some half-baked behaviour by Vedika as a ‘mental health’ issue - it is like misleading or trivialising.

Vedika does not have a mental health issue, she is an immoral selfish woman who desires something she cannot have, tried all foul means, still failed, so she is angry and desperate. That is natural, even if disgusting, behaviour, but not mentally ill.

Secondly, as I posted before, I do not support this excessive vilifying of the ‘other woman’ or painting her as mentally ill, in order to whitewash the husband. I think we all agree Vedika would have been a zero factor if Ram had not glorified his infatuation, put that stupid no-love condition to Pri, hid the ex-matter from Pri, and continued to give Vedika mixed signals.

Does all arranged marriages work this way? The writers should think what they are projecting in front of society regarding arranged marriages!!

Hopefully Priya will be mad at Ram but instead of monologue this time around they have conversation where Ram clears his stance with Vedika and answers Priya's concern...this is the further building of trust which is required as Priya has trust issues and Ram has to address it... regarding portraying of arranged marriage...things CVs to sometimes in name of creative liberty is baffling but hope they use this to further build trust...Ram just needs to have conversation and calm Priya's worries as they will now need to rely more on each other as Amrit Manthan is going to bring poison to the front and this poison will need joint efforts of both Ram and Priya to negate it.

what you guys think will priya confront ram and will ram clear the mu? or as usual we will only get priya monologue and not actual confrontation and matter will be kept under carpet and more mu

Originally posted by: Zanutix

Couldn't agree more!!!

99% of their problems could've been resolved with a frank conversation.

I understand that's not how soap operas work, but communication is necessary in some aspects of the plot.

Ram should've been more vocal about his intentions - both with Priya and with Vedika.

You are mostly right about explicitly clearing it.

But I thought Vedika knew and that's why 'helped" Ram get kachori for valentine's day as well as was *helping* Ram in his marriage. He even once mentioned that Vedika should fight for her marriage if she loves Shashi and let it slip that *he now cannot imagine his life without priya.*

The thing is due to his crush on Vedika he has always been there for her and kept a respectful distance. He still thought he's there and the moment she made a comment as bizzare as "dusra mauka" he moved her out of KM, this is where your point about explicitly mentioning to Vedika would have helped. He did it in his way by telling "call mom or adi" but did not make it clear that Vedika shouldn't think about him because he loves Priya.

Been away from forum for a while so dunno if this is discussed i was thinking about these few things...

1. Where is Sid, is he still friends with Shubhu and what happened to the business venture? 🤔

2. Neeraj works for Ram and got an explicit warning on Ram's birthday, how sadistic is he to still work on Vedika's side at the cost that he will mostly lose his job( i hope that's the other punch Ram hits him with). Actually when nandini and shubham didn't pick V's calls, this guys picks it up in the middle of the night, why? does he know that Priya helped him get out of the jail? Priya should've let him stay in jail 😵

3. Why didn't Sara tell Priya that Ram wanted to tell about Vedika but she is the one who stopped Ram from telling the truth because Priya had just had the accident? Will she say that today?😕

😆away from forum and web but balh2 running in my head ☺️

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

Someone please enlighten me, why is lard governer/ (gk’s male leads) adored and his rudeness justified with circumstances that made him…

While pri’s disposition is disliked?why she is expected to behave in a certain way, no matter how she feels?

Ram felt betrayed by priya during Shikki wedding, he gave her annulment papers…

His family was being questioned in media, he asked her to keep this annulment thing aside, and Priya kind of made him stand proud in the public.

Anjali thing happened, he was ready to break off Shikki’s marriage without enquiring or listening to any party…

the idea of breaking of their own marriage was always there on priya’s mind during that time, (may be even now, she is still in the thought that she is an obligation he chose to do for his sister, the messages on his phone didn’t help either) because he called her mother aunty, and her brother a cheat and did not open his mouth as his mother and aunt were dissing her openly, back then …

while ram’s stance changed, he didn’t mention/say it to priya…. She was thinking that he hates her, only emotional assurance she got was from her mother, she also thought that he was doing things for her for the sake of sashi and vedika’s lohri party.

This wasn’t cleared to her as well when she almost died… and she woke up from accident, she has a huuuge guilt on her head that her own father did the accident , and ram saving her was the ehsaan she repeatedly reminds herself while she went in the middle to die for him😆

She acted that way in the second iv, coz it was a open q Pictionary, even if he tells the wrong answer, she will tell that the answer is right but will get her own answers from him… she didn’t manipulate this time… she outwitted him just like last time… when ram’s first love topic was brought up… she went on and on about medicines, though wrong, she outwitted both the media and ram😆

Why wasn’t her making him uncomfortable last time with her answers ok, while this time, it wasn’t ? Infact this time, if he said shart, she would have said, correct and moved on…🤷‍♀️ She was voicing it in her head that , if it is that deal to him, she was going to play along… why did we overlook this?

This is where the ram’s support without asking for explanation regarding kangan was important to her… she will see that he is keeping his obligation thing aside, to actually value the relationship.

And this is also why she trusts ram to be untainted, when she got the news from mythri… despite his hiding of v’s matter .

Itna kyun sochna? Arre simple si baat hai ... mostly females watch ITV, and they mostly are ML's fans chahe misogynist ho ya feminist ... they are lauded.

Where as FLs are bashed ... chahe seedhi sadhi bahu ho ya tagda feminist ... ya fabuous idealist ...

Originally posted by: Ramya2

You are mostly right about explicitly clearing it.

But I thought Vedika knew and that's why 'helped" Ram get kachori for valentine's day as well as was *helping* Ram in his marriage. He even once mentioned that Vedika should fight for her marriage if she loves Shashi and let it slip that *he now cannot imagine his life without priya.*

The thing is due to his crush on Vedika he has always been there for her and kept a respectful distance. He still thought he's there and the moment she made a comment as bizzare as "dusra mauka" he moved her out of KM, this is where your point about explicitly mentioning to Vedika would have helped. He did it in his way by telling "call mom or adi" but did not make it clear that Vedika shouldn't think about him because he loves Priya.

Viper understood clearly. The problem is the writers want to drag the fest.

My two cents regarding Ram explicitly telling it to Vedika that "this ain't happening anymore".

According to Ram( other than the doosra mauka slip, which he is associating with Vedika being lonely and insecure about Sashi, ), Vedika is not in 'love' with him so there is no point in making her sit and tell her, ' See baba, I am not in love with you anymore so don't harbour any hope'

His comments like 'I can't imagine life without Priya, I wanna win her over' are explicit enough for normal people to understand that he has moved on...

Yeah that's another fact that vedika is delusional. But that we know, but ram doesn't.

So while ram can be blamed for not telling about vedika to Priya, he is not at fault for not telling it to Vedika. Because he actually did.

Originally posted by: Ramya2

Been away from forum for a while so dunno if this is discussed i was thinking about these few things...

1. Where is Sid, is he still friends with Shubhu and what happened to the business venture? 🤔

Looks like Sid is out of the story. Even looks like Shashi is also out along with Viper. The whole Babbars are gone, imo. I may be wrong, though.

2. Neeraj works for Ram and got an explicit warning on Ram's birthday, how sadistic is he to still work on Vedika's side at the cost that he will mostly lose his job( i hope that's the other punch Ram hits him with). Actually when nandini and shubham didn't pick V's calls, this guys picks it up in the middle of the night, why? does he know that Priya helped him get out of the jail? Priya should've let him stay in jail 😵

I have zero ideas. Apparently, Neeraj was out of the scene till Friday he appeared through Viper. He didn't directly do anything but through Maitrayee. This is a loophole b/c if Ram comes to know about his involvement, then he is DEAD for sure. On the contrary, he thinks Ram is the weak link that he can BREAK.

3. Why didn't Sara tell Priya that Ram wanted to tell about Vedika but she is the one who stopped Ram from telling the truth because Priya had just had the accident? Will she say that today?😕

We need to wait for the development of the story on Monday. We still don't know how Pri will agree to get ready for the Holi.

😆away from forum and web but balh2 running in my head ☺️

Originally posted by: Ramya2

You are mostly right about explicitly clearing it.

But I thought Vedika knew and that's why 'helped" Ram get kachori for valentine's day as well as was *helping* Ram in his marriage. He even once mentioned that Vedika should fight for her marriage if she loves Shashi and let it slip that *he now cannot imagine his life without priya.*

The thing is due to his crush on Vedika he has always been there for her and kept a respectful distance. He still thought he's there and the moment she made a comment as bizzare as "dusra mauka" he moved her out of KM, this is where your point about explicitly mentioning to Vedika would have helped. He did it in his way by telling "call mom or adi" but did not make it clear that Vedika shouldn't think about him because he loves Priya.

Oh she knew Ram was genuinely trying to woo Priya, of course she recognised the cues. But she's greedy and conceited, hence refused to acknowledge them.

In Ram's defense, he had no idea his ex harbours ill-will towards his wife, so he did not find it necessary to clearly state his intentions. He thought it'd be obvious.

But when it gets to the point where a third person interferes a bit too much into your personal relationships, you must take a stand and firmly tell them to not do so.

Ram should've spoken up during Vedika's 'ek aur mauka' comment and during Priya's 'mujhe hamari shart yaad hai Mr. Kapoor'