Aryan character

Aryan character getting little down. He should become little rude, passionate. He has soft feeling for Imlie. That's why he is getting married to her because he don't want to lose her. His dream affected him so much and when he saw Imlie is sacrificing herself for Aditya and his family he get scared. So he proposed her for marriage. And he also want to save her from Aditya's irresponsible behavior.

But all I seeing Imlie never apologize to him for her behavior. First time when she said "Tum to humko insan hi nahi lagat ho" She never showed what she uttered. Then calling him "Rakshash" , "Tumse rang lagwa k hum apne aap ko maila nahi hone denge" but the next time she used wife position to badi maa "Imlie Aryan Singh Rathore k liye ee rakam bahut choti hai". Writer should be care about her dialogues. These are little disturbing. Today once more dialogue of Aryan broke my heart when he said "Tumhari chappal se mujhe chot lagi par taras tumhe uss chappal pe aa raha tha". He really deserve not all this ignorance.

Okay I can understand It is not easy for Imlie also to believe someone so easily. She want her friend back. It's not easy for her her close one deceive her and don't know how to react. And It's ok. But I want to say when Imlie will got to know about Aryan real intention the writer should write proper monologue for her. Her proper redemption much needed to feel the story.

And Aryan character should become like little Arnav now. He should ignore Imlie for sometime, little anger, but not should behave like Arnav. He should not hurt Imlie in his angriness. Become rude little once again. Leave her for some time be alone.

Writer should also focus on Aditya character also. For the Aryan vs Aditya they also have to keep Aditya. When Aditya would be turn completely into villain. It would be great to watch.

And I feel bad for Aryan more than any character because I started watch this show for him only. And I definitely don't want to watch him hurt only. If he will keep getting hurt by Imlie than I will lost my interest.

So writer should work on Imlie character. Need to progress, and become strong.

That's right. We need a proper redemption from Imlie's side after all this raksash, maili crap. She needs to apologize. She's been insensitive towards him from time to time. Like injuring him after Shiddat party (it was totally unnecessary), making fun of his injury from chappal, her words now, before PF being rude with him when all he did was help and most importantly that Pagdandiya track. She has a history of being nonchalant about his feelings and pain. And don't remind me about her insensitivity about Arvind revelation in office😡

I don't know why she does it. Maybe because she thinks he's a pahaar and can never hurt? Or because he doesn't have feelings cause remember the conversation they had about mere jesa bnna chahti ho? And maybe because Aryan was never able to convey his feelings or show that he hurts?

Also more than her dialogues, I'm hating how she pushes him. I don't know why it feels disrespectful instead of equality I Don't see how that's a 50-50 partnership because Aryan never hurt her physically or emotionally for that matter. He is so receptive and sensitive about everything she does or anything about her. Maybe a lack of proper monologue is the reason her character looks like that. But she loves everybody apparently and is vocal about it. Even Narmada and Arpi. But not Aryan. If we look at it, it's always been a one sided journey uptill now only from Aryan's side.

That how I have felt so I am biased towards Aryan's character and only watch because of him. In this way you're right. He looks OOC. Why does he take her crap? Don't hurt her but don't become so docile. That not the ASR I fell in love with. The ASR with his tough version of love. His character has indeed mellowed down.

I would love to know others' thoughts too.

You feel he's occ because he's taking imlie's crap, while some of us feel he's occ for being heavy handed and forcing this marriage on her.

My personal belief he's not OCC...

He takes her crap because he loves her simple.

And he's heavy handed with force wedding thing also because of his protectiveness/possessiveness (which stems from his love)

He's the kind of person to burn the world including himself for his love. Imlie's pain rn (and I'm not trying to trivialise her pain or trauma) but is a collateral damage at best in this narrative.

She hasn't actively tried to stop the wedding, she's just playing childish games while taking time to adjust to the idea that her friend is not a friend but more.

See i agree with imlie's character needing an upward arc sooner rather than later because she's been this confused for like 100 episodes already, but the breaking of cycle is happening, the confusion is surfacing and solution will also emerge.

One thing I'm not sure about in this show is Imlie's apology. I totally expected it after Pagdandiya track but never got one. Imlie was borderline cruel with her words at that time too and all that was very conveniently forgotten.But she did apologise for making him relive his trauma in Aryan's office. So this gives me some hope.

I'm okay with snail pace too. All I want is, they do not forget whatever she is serving him. Every time she had pushed Aryan, every insult she dished his way, all those taunts needs to be addressed. In very similar way, what pain Imlie is going through, should be recognised.

Want one proper heartfelt apology session(If not to eachother than in their hearts) from both sides.

Originally posted by: SundariP

You feel he's occ because he's taking imlie's crap, while some of us feel he's occ for being heavy handed and forcing this marriage on her.

My personal belief he's not OCC...

He takes her crap because he loves her simple.

And he's heavy handed with force wedding thing also because of his protectiveness/possessiveness (which stems from his love)

He's the kind of person to burn the world including himself for his love. Imlie's pain rn (and I'm not trying to trivialise her pain or trauma) but is a collateral damage at best in this narrative.

She hasn't actively tried to stop the wedding, she's just playing childish games while taking time to adjust to the idea that her friend is not a friend but more.

I understand that. There are different perspectives regarding this whole track. And I respect that❤️

It's just that I want to see progress from Imlie's side. Because it has been somewhat Khali Khali sa in this equation from the start because it looks one sided. So sometimes it becomes harder to enjoy their equation. And by the way imlie's character has been so far, it doesn't seem like she'll reciprocate the same level of intensity anytime soon.

Originally posted by: Shabia1

That's right. We need a proper redemption from Imlie's side after all this raksash, maili crap. She needs to apologize. She's been insensitive towards him from time to time. Like injuring him after Shiddat party (it was totally unnecessary), making fun of his injury from chappal, her words now, before PF being rude with him when all he did was help and most importantly that Pagdandiya track. She has a history of being nonchalant about his feelings and pain. And don't remind me about her insensitivity about Arvind revelation in office😡

I don't know why she does it. Maybe because she thinks he's a pahaar and can never hurt? Or because he doesn't have feelings cause remember the conversation they had about mere jesa bnna chahti ho? And maybe because Aryan was never able to convey his feelings or show that he hurts?

Also more than her dialogues, I'm hating how she pushes him. I don't know why it feels disrespectful instead of equality I Don't see how that's a 50-50 partnership because Aryan never hurt her physically or emotionally for that matter. He is so receptive and sensitive about everything she does or anything about her. Maybe a lack of proper monologue is the reason her character looks like that. But she loves everybody apparently and is vocal about it. Even Narmada and Arpi. But not Aryan. If we look at it, it's always been a one sided journey uptill now only from Aryan's side.

That how I have felt so I am biased towards Aryan's character and only watch because of him. In this way you're right. He looks OOC. Why does he take her crap? Don't hurt her but don't become so docile. That not the ASR I fell in love with. The ASR with his tough version of love. His character has indeed mellowed down.

I would love to know others' thoughts too.

Bold - Because they want to show feminism or women empowerment. It's not both of them. She hurt that man who always take stands for her & sacrifice for those who insulted her. I could connect Malini more than her. Because she was victim and many time she had said very right things to Imlie. But it doesn't mean I am supporting her criminal act.

Absolutely correct i too want aryan should keep some distance after marriage or now so that she should understand his presence or while he is not talking to her how it feels or when any person talk shit about you when you are not responsible for that... I so need that aryan should do something so that she will get to see her mistakr... 😒😒

Originally posted by: Shabia1

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I don't know why she does it. Maybe because she thinks he's a pahaar and can never hurt? Or because he doesn't have feelings cause remember the conversation they had about mere jesa bnna chahti ho? And maybe because Aryan was never able to convey his feelings or show that he hurts?

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I am going to go about this in a very indirect way. So any story needs a conflict -- without it, there is no story. Some stories require a third part to create conflict -- so this could be Malini or Aditya etc. Some arcs are created by self -- meaning the conflict is within. These are the most richest conflicts in terms of juice because there is so much to discuss. People always think that you only learn from serious dramas but in my years of watching and participating on different forums, it is the popcorn dramas that actually generate conversation where we learn from each other. For me, the most learning has happened as we dissect relationships and reactions. When we break it down and ask what is about the character that is annoying us -- it can be really interesting to hear each other's perspective.

For me, the question on why she reacts so strongly to Aryan but does not react to the Tripathy family is confusing as well as frustrating. My answer would be that she has an honest comfortable relationship with Aryan where she knows he will not reject her. She cannot truly say what she feels like to the Tripathy family because she is deluding herself that they are her 'loved ones'. In the episode where Imlie becomes CEO and she runs because they are in trouble, Aditya is raging and insulting her. So is Malini. Does the Tripathy family say anything? They are mute spectators. Later Arpana comes and apologizes and I was rolling my eyes. This is an unhealthy family which revolves around one person and no one feels comfortable to say "moron, that is not the way to treat someone" -- so who says it? Aryan. Always Aryan.

So the bigger question for me is why does she put up with Tripathy family?????? Why does not she not see what Aryan sees -- that they are using her and don't protect her. Why does she feel compelled to not reject them? Why does she not feel comfortable to question their behaviour? Why can't she fight there?

With Aryan, there is also a hilarious competitive streak happening. I was laughing when Aditya was mumbling to himself that the game is on. He is enjoying toying with her and so is she. They are like little kids in school competing to see who can put each other down the best. There seems to be more push and pull in their relationship. It is also part of their dynamic and there is a part of them that really enjoys it. The question would be when is competition fun and healthy and at what point does it become destructive and harmful.

So to go back to your question, I think she is being honest in her confused self with Aryan. She is reacting out of hurt because she thinks he used her and it hurts because she values his friendship more than she can express. In order to stop jabbing, she needs to know from him that she matters to him. She is not a tool for his revenge but rather she is a friend at the very least to him. She needs him to express it in words. It looks like when it comes to romantic relationships, it is words and not action that she understands better. The problem is that Aryan is communicating in actions and not words. So there is a clash in signal and it is getting messed up. She is unable to really read and understand him.

Ruko jara, sabar karo. 🤚🏽 All in good time, amigos. Every time I see a thread about this, I only have one thing to say. When Aryan is himself not admitting his feelings for Imlie, what love/feelings exactly is Imlie supposed to see/feel? She’s never going to see something that he refuses to show her. Each time we’ve seen her confused about Aryan so far, has been when his true feelings were situationally forced out of him. It needs to start with Aryan acknowledging and accepting his feelings for Imlie, and then consciously acting towards her on the basis of those feelings. He needs to stop denying or rationalising it. That’s what’s going to open up a new perspective in Imlie’s mind to apply to the recent happenings, and set her on the path of realising and understanding his feelings for her. Eventually, her own for him. All of this is going to take considerable time. But as it is with all things inevitable, it will nonetheless happen. Till then, we take in all the fun of their shenanigans and wait. 😉