Originally posted by: Maneetlover123
I agree with most of the part. I also think if they have hit a person it may be original parent of Abhi. It is really interesting to see now what will happen.
Bold in red. I really don't agree with that. Because Abhi always understood her. Her priorities. He accepted them because he knows how imp they are for her. He accepted everything in her life. After 1st tilak Arohi accident he gave her time to be with family with her sister. In bade papa incident he gave her time he took her there. After confession ph call. She just without any word and he understood her. Because of Ak's foolishness these confusion created and he even forgive her. Now today also he just called her asked her sorry. Bade papa accident time Abhi gussa she doesn't care about him. Goes with family again he accepted that. Without any ego any complaint he accepted that. That date thing. She doesn't care to inform him abt the pooja he again gussa still again he just accepted and forgive her. Again mandir she was going for Ar he stopped her. She was standing there unwillingly. It was their happiness and she was just concerned for Ar. ( I know in that situation no one will be happy. Because Ar was innocent). I'm not telling her to forget family and do Abhi jaab but don't take him for granted. He doesn't say much and forgive her easily doesn't mean he is ok with it. He is hurt. He time and again told her about his insecurity his fear and again this girl is taking him for granted. Time and again she always chose her family above Abhi. She always thought he will understand her but girl for once you try to understand him.
May what I said above will be wrong in your POV. But my Heart always go for Abhi. The big man child. He is actually a child.
Ps:- I don't know why in this show only makers are hell bend on making cry the hero. All the pblm comes on hero. He just go and cry. From the tilak1.0 Abhi started his crying misery and not ended till now. He always has a pblm to solve. Whether it in his home or on behalf of Ak. Poor boy.
ABHI♥️
🤗 No wrong or right. Everyone's POV is important.😊
On the face of it, Abhi looks as if he understands that Akshu often gives her family priority and that he accepted it. But in times of charged emotions, he makes comment about her being with her family, that it's always them, Aru, Aru and etc and those are times the truth slips out. I doubt he is doing it in a jealous way or even a toxic way. No, he is just deeply sad that he is not coming first (in his POV). He is ready to throw aside his own family for her (think back to the shaart) except for his mum. So it frustrates him that she is often more busy with her family. As you have rightly said, he always accepts it - but underneath there is a lot of pain and one day Akshu will have to answer for constantly putting Abhi last as well. It is paining him and she has to know that. In that respect yes she is taking his love for granted.
The writers are making it into a big thing so we will have a drama charged episode where Akshu finally ends this tug between love and family. Abhi will get his answer.
See there is a reason for showing Abhi crying and getting emotionally upset. It is because he is affected emotionally and has invested a lot in this relationship. IMO too much, too quick and it points to a characteristic of his that could give rise to future concern. From day 1 he has given himself totally over to Akshu without even once asking if she feels the same. Who in their right mind would arrange for a tilak without once talking to find out if the other person is on the same page as you? but it was needed to show us that he can be emotionally unstable and intense, that once he sets sight on something he goes after it with a singular purpose. Not bad in a dedicated surgeon but not good in general day to day life because they will always end up feeling they are not getting enough in return.