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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiamondLife


Considering what Aarohi did, if one is left at mandap, It will be reality check to acknowledge that what she was holding was just sand. she never tried to use cement and bricks of love and care to build solid fence. One day it will loose the grip and fall. With maturity I will move on as the guy has no feelings for me.

I agree if we are in Arohis shoes, we wouldnt ever accept abhis proposal... But arohi is not us right... she has an entirely different personality and entirely different priorities.. and dreams as well... I agree arohi is selfcentred.. she is jealous.. she cant help that... but wat i mean to say is others too equally should be accused.. Nobody is saint here..

Arohi do have positive emotions though it can be seen only in few extreme cases.. we could see her concern in the fire incident.. she was least bothered when all the kids were trapped inside that room.. and also she had a good grip over aksharas hand who was trying to get into it.. She knows akshara very well and wanted to protect her there.. Next due to abhi, akshara somehow jumped in to that fire... and then we can see the least bothered arohi going and working, trying to do anything and everything like crazy to extinguish that fire.. simply cause now her sister got trapped inside.. If she was an all out evil devil why should she be so concerned for her sister.. She could have allowed her to get killed there right.. and that would have put an end to all the competitions and jealousy she faces on daily basis.. Did she do that??? No right.. then later wen ak comes out with abhi.. the first person she runs to is Akshara.. she didnt even bother to give even a glance at abhi.. but she was checking all around her sister's body for any burns or physical injuries...and after confirming that ak is fine.. she moved on to check abhi.. I agree taking the credit of saving abhi is another self-centred act..


Next when Akshara went missing in the hospital, she was the first one to realize it and was searching like hell to find her.. we can see her concerns there though insecurities as well.. and when she found her.. she ran to her and checked whether she was alright or not..


When akshara met with an accident,, Arohi was totally scared of losing her sister.. her first reflex was to run to the OT and see her once.. that was her love and concern for her sister.. and the fear of losing her sister.. She was even tensed, if akshara would lose her voice and probably can sing or not.. She even forgot to breathe for a sec standing outside that OT when akshara had stopped breathing during the surgery..she even wanted to stay back to take care of akshara in the hospital..


During Ani time, Arohi as a sister was protective for aksharas welfare and hence we can see her warning her again and again.. and even asked her to just communicate with abhi to check what is the issue.. and when Akshara was heart broken... she even gave a shoulder to cry on.. She didnt want Ak to get into problem there or be left cheated.

Next after her marriage was broken..after facing the public humiliation.. She still had the guts to face the society and face all the mockery that comes along with it.. and went to hospital and even fought with the management for her rights.. Agree paying money to compensate the delay in applying for the entrance exam for MD cant be justified, she could have been patient and attempted that same exam next year..

She preferred rather than hiding in a hole at home to face the society head on and accomplish her dream and to be successful in her career with her hardwork and dedication.. Thats her self respect for herself.. why should she let go her dreams and its not like her career or any of her achievements were served to her on a golden plate.. She strived and toiled day and night for it..and even now she is doing it.. Rest everything is secondary to her.. And for the same reason she wanted to get married into Birla family.. All the couple in the world do not solely marry for love.. each person has different priorities.. and how can v say that their perceptions are wrong.. Its their life and they fully have the right to decide wat they need in llfe and what are their priorities in life.. for some its love like abhi,, for some its family like akshara and for others its their careers.. who are we to say or judge one is right and the other wrong??So many couples get married solely for the reason of money.. thats their wish..and priority in life. and its their decision..

How can we say Abhi was right in proposing Arohi when he didnt hav any emotions for her and clearly stated so?? Just because Abhi was getting into this for his mom, does it make him right??? He very knowingly was spoiling his life and the life of Arohi as well and on top of that even after getting engaged to Arohi.. he ws still two minded and trying for Akshara.. How is that right morally?? and Im sure even if Akshara hadnt confessed he would have abandoned Arohi in the altar.. Does any girl deserve that??? We can say that Arohi in the first place shouldnt have accepted this alliance and intentionally went into this.. But her priorities was never love.. She wanted a partner equal to her in all aspects and felt Abhi ws the right person for it.. And love ws the least concern for her... The girl never understands relationships or love,, then how can we expect her to behave like any other normal person.. She was a confident girl who had the belief that they could lead a normal life with their profession as their priority.. To understand relationships and love we need live examples around ourselves and unfortunately.. arohi never had that.. She lost her parents at a tender age.. and on top was badly influenced from her vile Naani.. who filled her mind and heart with hatred and poison against her own family and sister..

Ofcourse her dreams are shattered and hence she is hurt.... we can say that she could have achieved the same on her own with her own efforts.. but when she got the option or was proposed by Abhi she felt her dream could be attained easily and hence opted for it.. It was not arohi who went and proposed Abhi.. but the other way round.. With full consciousness Abhi did this grave mistake.. So Abhi too is equally responsible for the fiasco and hurting others... Akshara too broke and betrayed her sister.. humiliated the family publicly and the whole fiasco if u ask me the root cause was akshara who preferred to b on the mute and sacrificing mode for arohi.. How is she correct there?? It was her selfish dream to achieve her sisters love that she went ahead and tried to pass the parcel of abhi to Arohi without considering his emotions anytime..

so for me all were equally wrong here... And Arohi doesnt have the sense to understand relationships nor love or any such feelings.. the only thing she understands is to get attention or draw love and affection from everybody towards her by achieving no1 tag in whatever she does.. She simply doesnt understand selfless or unconditional love for somebody.. like Akshara who has it for her.. and hence doesnt value it. So she doesnt understand nor know the need to build relationship on love or anything as such.. She feels that if she gets the No1 tag people will appreciate her for her worth and love her more.. She doesnt understand to love somebody you actually dont need any reason.. So its her indirect way of acquiring love from others by becoming the best version academically and professionally with the no1 tag and hence she toils for that.. So when that dream is crushed, she is hurt.. somebdy should have sat with her and talked it out to her.. and made her understand where she is going wrong.. she should have been send to a completely new place far away from Abhira,, where should could hav concentrated on herself and moved on in life.. She is unable to do so due to the reoccuring flash backs triggered by abhira presence.. And she will feel only victimised in this state and would never regret her actions as she still doesnt sense where she has gone wrong.. and until that is achieved.. she will never try to transform herslf for the better..

Last about hurting others and finding happiness for others.. i feel both abhi and arohi are the same there.. Both are least concerned when it comes to hurting others.. both back lashes at people,, we hav seen so much of thod phod of Abhi for watever reasons.. at the end of the day it hurts people around.. Abhi is least concerned about it.. Happiness too.. he worked on getting his happiness by getting Ak.. whereas Arohi worked on getting her happiness on rising in her career.. both of them were least concerned about others in this matter..

so i will conclude that each person portrayed here are having their own set of flaws and none of them are saints.. each of them were equally wrong..

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Posted: 3 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: IAMHope

So what does that mean? Tilak she was sanskari and Ganesh puja she regressed ? Where is Harsh and how come Ak is ok that he didn’t attend Ganesh pooja?

This made me laugh!🤣

I think she was too busy with emotions...but it is a subtle sign that Akshu is not in marriage mind or thinking about it.

Abhi is very eager, taken her family as his but not so Akshu.

Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I understand why people keep referring to the past. For everything Akshu went through, Arohi has been given an answer in return and a thumping one at that.

They have all changed. The Arohi we saw in the beginning has changed. Same as Akshu. Same as Abhi. Some of them have learnt to be strong, some to bend a bit, some to accept their flaws, some slowly facing their fears and being pleasantly surprised and etc.

I am a Abira fan, and love Abhi so much even at his worst. I enjoy Arohi because she is very well drawn character with clear flaws and qualities but I can also hate her when she is at her worst. That is a sign of well etched characters.

Akshu I always had a problem with because she is too passive and very idealised. The problem with idealisation is that it is not relatable nor realistic. What I do like her about very much is her essence of love and how she sees good in people. This is needed and I hate it when her good nature is used by others. But let's face it, lot of things that happened to her is because she refused to stand her ground. I get it, understand the mechanics of it but It's done now.

But now Akshu has changed as well, slow but it's still a change and I am eager to see where she will go and how far.

I doubt we had seen the last of Arohi and her grey shades though, purely because she would provide the much needed perspective, harsh light of the day, kinda POV needed by our loved couple. Not a bad thing as long as it does not go overboard.

Beautiful thoughts Freddie.

@Bold how true is that..I have always been saying whatever happened to Akshu in past cannot be blamed on Aarohi alone. She chose that for herself. If she would have stood up, I don't think Goenkas would have opposed it. Please remember that if Aarohi said fire truth lies it was also Akshara' who knew it and choose to lie about it to Abhimanyu. If Aarohi blackmailed her it was Akshara also who accepted that. So I blame both victim and abuser here.

After confession she became very insensitive to her feelings like saying Jiju and all and it happened overnight which was hard to understand...She did come very strong yesterday which showed her real personality. Right balance between her sister and Abhimanyu. If she would have done that before I think things would have in better shape for all 3 of them. But I am looking forward to see after this accident if there will be big impact on their lives

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: IAMHope

Abhi told Ak after confession “Your family is sweet mai unka dil jeetlunga” - Abhi express doing that swiftly. 🚂



Abhi says words but Ak does on actions. So it's her slow win process always

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