Chalo Aaru jaap karein By Abhimanyu Birla - Page 2

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Thank You for this post I am tired of how ppl have such small minds to cant even see what the Man is going through.

Everyone is human so mistakes will happen because of their experience and viewpoints and nature of the person.

But Aarohi is a manipulator Grandparents are always but softer than parents. If Naira's kid are well behaved but the horrid Sheela blood in Aarohi is making all this happen.

Yucks,

Thank you, totally agree I am not excusing anybody from the mess or the ensuing drama.

But somewhere greed always will have a bigger role and as the saying goes "enough for the need but less than the greed".

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I loved how you expressed Abhi ki Kahani in his Jubaani without using filthy vocabulary ❤️❤️❤️ now next Aarohi is already getting so much bashing in this forum and I am not going to defend her here either. And let me tell you I am not her supporter but neither I hate her. And being her supporter also doesn't mean I dislike Akshara or Abhimanyu.

But I still feel she doesn't deserve so much hatred and neither her depression is faked. Yes she is jealous sister but makers did rush the plots and it's not easy for any girl to accept customs repeated same way that soon. She claims she moved on for her sisters happieness but not able to. Everytime she sees those customs repeated her inner jealousy get triggered. She feels helpless and we want her to be super Happy for her sister. But she is not able to. She feels suffocated and doing mad things in that like throwing Thaali. I feel She needed space or moved to different place instead of being in this wedding. That would have given her peace of mind and Goenkas or anyone in their family Manish/Kairav/Akshara could have done that. Have heart to heart conversations. So atleast 1% think on that level because people like Aarohi do exist in real.

Thank you I believe habits are the culprits in this, we all form them because they help us achieve things and get habituated so much that sometimes we can't let go off them even when they are not giving the desired results. Habits have triggers or stimuli attached to them.

In this case arohi's habituated to snatching anything from akshara by emotionally guilt tripping akshara and getting the desired result.

Akshara is also habituated to giving up everything to avoid disappointment to others she care for.

The only difference this time is abhimanyu is involved so it kind of became a tug of war and arohi lies were laid bare.

Arohi's concerned about the damage to her image which is a trigger for her habit of guilt tripping people.

She will look for targets typically akshara was her soft target not anymore due to Abhimanyu's support, the nateeja of trying to blame akshara in the mandir fiasco is a lesson for arohi.

Hence arohi's feeling left out and lost because she has none left to blame.

Hence her effort to separate abhira, so that akshara remains weak forever and arohi can continue with her old habits.

I don't wish to see people blame arohi and I think she should have a good companion who is bold enough to confront, nurture and help her overcome her weakness.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Thank you I believe habits are the culprits in this, we all form them because they help us achieve things and get habituated so much that sometimes we can't let go off them even when they are not giving the desired results. Habits have triggers or stimuli attached to them.

In this case arohi's habituated to snatching anything from akshara by emotionally guilt tripping akshara and getting the desired result.

Akshara is also habituated to giving up everything to avoid disappointment to others she care for.

The only difference this time is abhimanyu is involved so it kind of became a tug of war and arohi lies were laid bare.

Arohi's concerned about the damage to her image which is a trigger for her habit of guilt tripping people.

She will look for targets typically akshara was her soft target not anymore due to Abhimanyu's support, the nateeja of trying to blame akshara in the mandir fiasco is a lesson for arohi.

Hence arohi's feeling left out and lost because she has none left to blame.

Hence her effort to separate abhira, so that akshara remains weak forever and arohi can continue with her old habits.

I don't wish to see people blame arohi and I think she should have a good companion who is bold enough to confront, nurture and help her overcome her weakness.

Nicely put with slightly different perspective. Loved reading it ❤️❤️

Originally posted by: chremma

I love how wonderfully you told Alpha male dr. abhimanyu birla's side of story🤩🤩🤩

And i also agree to your pt. that he is the victim of Arohi's manipulation to the entire story and he did suffered badly of this along with his akshu.

But Abhimanyu has to take responsibility, that he was wrong for bringing the alliance for Arohi, just bcz his lady love denied his proposal he is gonna marry her sister and then deliberately try to make her lady love jealous or hurt her bcz she did the same. Also agreeing to marry another bcz his mother wishes is so stupid, you are destroying 2 lives just to keep your mother happy😏😏😒😒

The makers really did a bad job at that track, like akshu doing everything for arohi and then reconciling with her lover on her sister's wedding day, the makers butchered the leads there, story could have been portrayed different but the cvs are hell bent on whitewashing arohi and irritating us

I think we should remember the situation at Birla House when he proposed alliance to arohi.

He was dejected with akshara's multiple rejections, his father was getting onto his nerves about what a fool he is to choose and waste his life for akshara.His mom the only support system has collapsed with Akshara doing his beijjati with her brother and sister.

He himself got out of a 🔥 accident and the most important person to him akshara didn't bother to find out his well-being when he called her.

In all this Arohi the opportunist 🤠took advantage of this, but the thing with opportunism is that 🎲paasa palat bhi sakta hai, it happened at the opportune moment of wedding day.

CVs ka sood sameth wasool for Arohi's character🤣. Typical kudrath ji karishma style.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Just now i saw video of hc posted by nandini on harshad at 😆

To all arohi whitewashers over abhi just because she

got into some depression now even though she was totally responsible for akshu's trauma this is my response 😆

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CajmK6eDeB6/?utm_medium=copy_link

Note: i love if they show her doing something good than bringing this depresssion drama and whitewashing her past deeds

That was a 😍 video compilation.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I loved how you expressed Abhi ki Kahani in his Jubaani without using filthy vocabulary ❤️❤️❤️ now next Aarohi is already getting so much bashing in this forum and I am not going to defend her here either. And let me tell you I am not her supporter but neither I hate her. And being her supporter also doesn't mean I dislike Akshara or Abhimanyu.

But I still feel she doesn't deserve so much hatred and neither her depression is faked. Yes she is jealous sister but makers did rush the plots and it's not easy for any girl to accept customs repeated same way that soon. She claims she moved on for her sisters happieness but not able to. Everytime she sees those customs repeated her inner jealousy get triggered. She feels helpless and we want her to be super Happy for her sister. But she is not able to. She feels suffocated and doing mad things in that like throwing Thaali. I feel She needed space or moved to different place instead of being in this wedding. That would have given her peace of mind and Goenkas or anyone in their family Manish/Kairav/Akshara could have done that. Have heart to heart conversations. So atleast 1% think on that level because people like Aarohi do exist in real.

I had been very vocal about the depression aspect because I do not like it being used for the track. I hope it doesn't but the clues are there so maybe it will be. My objection for this stems from knowing how serious a topic it is, that TV won't do it justice and will in fact twist it.

The thing is since I understand the mechanics, I find it very difficult to be into shows/movies/books 100%. It gives me an aerial viewpoint. I understand and accept the motivations but I don't get emotionally invested unless it is done exceptionally well. That does not mean I don't get annoyed, I do especially when stories are rushed, half baked or strands simply dropped or even weird motivation/response is given and may differ abstractly.

So from that viewpoint I think all 3 leads have been true to character but there had been few wobbles with Akshu and Arohi. Abhi has been the more consistent one. I also think none of them deserve hatred certainly not even Arohi - without her, this would not be the story we are watching. And before many say exactly, she was created to be a thorn in Abhira side so like it or not they will all react strongly, violently and out of the box when confronted with situations and new tracks. She is here to stay. Like her or not, understand her or not, she will be with Abhira for a long while. A real life person like her would need lots of love and attention, therapy and understanding. Lot of the actions by Arohi could have been avoided if we had more well rounded people around her.

I love Abhi (and HC) but I think he over did with Arohi on tilak 3 day. Yes he was angry, rightly so and let his tongue get away from him. This has now created the situation we are seeing. I like that, it means the mechanics are working. In story terms he has made a blunder but he is human and we all live and learn and so will he. The thing is, he had never had the chance to get rid of his anger on Arohi and he did it that day. He did it again in the hospital scene and he will do it again when the wedding card scenario is raised.

There is a powerful saying 'To err is human, to forgive divine'. Honestly, given Arohi's situation, if Abhi had applied that saying Arohi would have calmed down, some of her shame and sense of failure would have been assuaged. Now she is inflamed even more because he once more hurt her ego/pride. When people get blinded by their emotions, driven actually, all sense of right and wrong goes out the window. They can be very dangerous in those moments. The only redeeming factor I can see in Arohi at the moment is she does love Akshu. It is deeply hidden, often reluctant, but there are moments it comes through. I think ultimately that would surface and may help save the day.

And as for Akshu, well I wish she is more wiser and understands the pain it is causing Arohi. Not for Arohi's sake but for herself so she can enjoy this moment she has been longing for. Her tendency to brush things under the carpet or turn a blind eye cannot work every time. Abhi compensates for her but we can all see what's happening because of that. She needs to take over, she has the best tack but it is a given she will be the bone the other two fight over.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I had been very vocal about the depression aspect because I do not like it being used for the track. I hope it doesn't but the clues are there so maybe it will be. My objection for this stems from knowing how serious a topic it is, that TV won't do it justice and will in fact twist it.

The thing is since I understand the mechanics, I find it very difficult to be into shows/movies/books 100%. It gives me an aerial viewpoint. I understand and accept the motivations but I don't get emotionally invested unless it is done exceptionally well. That does not mean I don't get annoyed, I do especially when stories are rushed, half baked or strands simply dropped or even weird motivation/response is given and may differ abstractly.

So from that viewpoint I think all 3 leads have been true to character but there had been few wobbles with Akshu and Arohi. Abhi has been the more consistent one. I also think none of them deserve hatred certainly not even Arohi - without her, this would not be the story we are watching. And before many say exactly, she was created to be a thorn in Abhira side so like it or not they will all react strongly, violently and out of the box when confronted with situations and new tracks. She is here to stay. Like her or not, understand her or not, she will be with Abhira for a long while. A real life person like her would need lots of love and attention, therapy and understanding. Lot of the actions by Arohi could have been avoided if we had more well rounded people around her.

I love Abhi (and HC) but I think he over did with Arohi on tilak 3 day. Yes he was angry, rightly so and let his tongue get away from him. This has now created the situation we are seeing. I like that, it means the mechanics are working. In story terms he has made a blunder but he is human and we all live and learn and so will he. The thing is, he had never had the chance to get rid of his anger on Arohi and he did it that day. He did it again in the hospital scene and he will do it again when the wedding card scenario is raised.

There is a powerful saying 'To err is human, to forgive divine'. Honestly, given Arohi's situation, if Abhi had applied that saying Arohi would have calmed down, some of her shame and sense of failure would have been assuaged. Now she is inflamed even more because he once more hurt her ego/pride. When people get blinded by their emotions, driven actually, all sense of right and wrong goes out the window. They can be very dangerous in those moments. The only redeeming factor I can see in Arohi at the moment is she does love Akshu. It is deeply hidden, often reluctant, but there are moments it comes through. I think ultimately that would surface and may help save the day.

And as for Akshu, well I wish she is more wiser and understands the pain it is causing Arohi. Not for Arohi's sake but for herself so she can enjoy this moment she has been longing for. Her tendency to brush things under the carpet or turn a blind eye cannot work every time. Abhi compensates for her but we can all see what's happening because of that. She needs to take over, she has the best tack but it is a given she will be the bone the other two fight over.

Agree that Arohi has love for akshara and I believe their bond will evolve and develop in their separation from each other after akshara marriage, because akshara has been taking care of arohi like a mother, the importance of shade can be understood only one is made to stand in the ☀️ and they had to face the heat.

I love to see arohi evolve into a better person and hence no revolutionary tracks for her, but she can be grey with occasional caustic or sarcastic one-liners but definitely not a full-time vamp character like spoiling wedding etc.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I had been very vocal about the depression aspect because I do not like it being used for the track. I hope it doesn't but the clues are there so maybe it will be. My objection for this stems from knowing how serious a topic it is, that TV won't do it justice and will in fact twist it.

The thing is since I understand the mechanics, I find it very difficult to be into shows/movies/books 100%. It gives me an aerial viewpoint. I understand and accept the motivations but I don't get emotionally invested unless it is done exceptionally well. That does not mean I don't get annoyed, I do especially when stories are rushed, half baked or strands simply dropped or even weird motivation/response is given and may differ abstractly.

So from that viewpoint I think all 3 leads have been true to character but there had been few wobbles with Akshu and Arohi. Abhi has been the more consistent one. I also think none of them deserve hatred certainly not even Arohi - without her, this would not be the story we are watching. And before many say exactly, she was created to be a thorn in Abhira side so like it or not they will all react strongly, violently and out of the box when confronted with situations and new tracks. She is here to stay. Like her or not, understand her or not, she will be with Abhira for a long while. A real life person like her would need lots of love and attention, therapy and understanding. Lot of the actions by Arohi could have been avoided if we had more well rounded people around her.

I love Abhi (and HC) but I think he over did with Arohi on tilak 3 day. Yes he was angry, rightly so and let his tongue get away from him. This has now created the situation we are seeing. I like that, it means the mechanics are working. In story terms he has made a blunder but he is human and we all live and learn and so will he. The thing is, he had never had the chance to get rid of his anger on Arohi and he did it that day. He did it again in the hospital scene and he will do it again when the wedding card scenario is raised.

There is a powerful saying 'To err is human, to forgive divine'. Honestly, given Arohi's situation, if Abhi had applied that saying Arohi would have calmed down, some of her shame and sense of failure would have been assuaged. Now she is inflamed even more because he once more hurt her ego/pride. When people get blinded by their emotions, driven actually, all sense of right and wrong goes out the window. They can be very dangerous in those moments. The only redeeming factor I can see in Arohi at the moment is she does love Akshu. It is deeply hidden, often reluctant, but there are moments it comes through. I think ultimately that would surface and may help save the day.

And as for Akshu, well I wish she is more wiser and understands the pain it is causing Arohi. Not for Arohi's sake but for herself so she can enjoy this moment she has been longing for. Her tendency to brush things under the carpet or turn a blind eye cannot work every time. Abhi compensates for her but we can all see what's happening because of that. She needs to take over, she has the best tack but it is a given she will be the bone the other two fight over.

That was long one but very valid points. Loved reading it.

@Bold that's why I loved when Abhi gifted her book. That was the sweetest but I don't blame him too because he is going with his character who doesn't flow with emotions and acts promptly.

Second bold one beautifully written ❤️❤️

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Agree that Arohi has love for akshara and I believe their bond will evolve and develop in their separation from each other after akshara marriage, because akshara has been taking care of arohi like a mother, the importance of shade can be understood only one is made to stand in the ☀️ and they had to face the heat.

I love to see arohi evolve into a better person and hence no revolutionary tracks for her, but she can be grey with occasional caustic or sarcastic one-liners but definitely not a full-time vamp character like spoiling wedding etc.

@ red - I don't think there will be that big a separation.

Arohi will develop, already is.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Thank you I believe habits are the culprits in this, we all form them because they help us achieve things and get habituated so much that sometimes we can't let go off them even when they are not giving the desired results. Habits have triggers or stimuli attached to them.

In this case arohi's habituated to snatching anything from akshara by emotionally guilt tripping akshara and getting the desired result.

Akshara is also habituated to giving up everything to avoid disappointment to others she care for.

The only difference this time is abhimanyu is involved so it kind of became a tug of war and arohi lies were laid bare.

Arohi's concerned about the damage to her image which is a trigger for her habit of guilt tripping people.

She will look for targets typically akshara was her soft target not anymore due to Abhimanyu's support, the nateeja of trying to blame akshara in the mandir fiasco is a lesson for arohi.

Hence arohi's feeling left out and lost because she has none left to blame.

Hence her effort to separate abhira, so that akshara remains weak forever and arohi can continue with her old habits.

I don't wish to see people blame arohi and I think she should have a good companion who is bold enough to confront, nurture and help her overcome her weakness.

@bold This!

This is the main personality trait that Arohi has. She tends to only look at what others have done and never look at what she did. She easily blames others for situations instead of taking a step back and look objectively or understand if she may have contribute to the problem. Her taking undue opportunities to get something is what gets her in trouble.

I get what the writers are trying to show and I agree to a point that she is going to be sad and feel awkward about this wedding. That is only natural. But she is getting a taste of her own medicine. The two other leads are also dealing with the consequences of their actions too. They are not by any means getting off scott free either.