Deewane Ka Kissa Ya Phir Ek Deewani*STRICTLY INVITES ONLY* CC#4 - Page 76

DKP are teasing us

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Originally posted by: firewings_diya

yes the focus would be more on balaji damadji because channel does not get much trp. But i feel they try in the beginning if it does not fetch much trp they will not force it. Coz channel is new. This is all trick to make people aware that channel exists. I have noticed this whenever a channel starts they will add atleast 1 show where leads are popular so that people get to know that there is a channel

Yes but don't people know that channel because of Radhaji and Kanhaji show?

Yes but balaji damaadji show is already predictable. Something will happen to his bade bhaiyya and he will marry bade bhaiyya's dulhan.

Balaji damaadji FD is no less in vidhvans....they didn't even spare choti malkin...Luckily she comes from the same world as Sonam/Rhea/Masaba so knows how to restrict comments on IG and ignore unlike cockroach leads who are milking the trolling.

If damaadji doesn't get TRPs, they will bash AbhiRa. Saying damaadji show should get AbhiRa' time slot on parent Sitara. They were upset when RS ended previous damaadji spin off show saying replace flagship show timeslot with that show.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I have a genuine Question....

Why are cockroach FD sooooo delusional about their hero? He needs a makeover to look normal handsome; celebrity handsome toh doooooor ki baat hai. Grooming naam ki bhi koi cheez hoti hai.

I don't want to shame someone based on their looks so I won't even say anything more.

Also, ALSO cockroach on set, off set, FD, actors crew EVERYTHING is just drama.

I have nothing to say about cockroach FD. I read some stuff about how the FD is only divided xD they don't like the show, they either like Ayesha or Neil xD

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Today on not without my family kya bebaasi hai yeh kya majbooriyan, hum paas hai phir bhi kitni hai dooriyan; jism tu jaan main teri pehchaan main; ro raha mera dil meri aankhen hai nam; yeh hai teri karam Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Ghum; na judaa honge hum kabhi khushi kabhi ghum🥺🥺🥺🥺

Disclaimer:, if you haven't watched Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Ghum, then perhaps my analysis will not be relevant for you today. Or perhaps wasn't even yesterday. That movie resonates with what I am watching on this show in many ways. Not just because KJo said that its all about loving your parents; but also about how the characters reacted to love, to parents, to family. Therefore, I am using it as a reference. You might still be able to make sense of what I say. However, if like me that movie was your first intro to Bollywood, as a kid, and the world of motherland storytelling (and my main man😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 for whom there will never be enough heart eye emojis in the world) then my analysis will make.perfect sense to you.

To those who will get irritated or annoyed with the comparison, please stop reading here. This analysis today might not be for you.

My poor baby. My darling Abhi. Firstly, regardless of what the nay sayers say, my darling is the karta dharta of this show which is most likely why he said yes to S3. This show is THE STORY OF ABHIMANYU BIRLA. That's why I call it my deewane ka kissa. Matlab every action and every reaction is based on what my Abhi does.

Anyways I digress:

1. Abhi comes to morning aarti and instead of calming him down, Manjari tells him that he WILL speak to Harsh and he WILL ask him to come. Respectfully. Like a son should to his father. Not like Dr Abhimanyu Birla and his sir or like sir to Dr Abhimanyu Birla. My baby is stuck. Stuck between what he feels he is doing to protect his future wife and what his mother expects from him. Why put him in this situation. I can see this from his POV. Why shouldn't he stand up for the woman he loves? Just like Manjari is standing up for her husband, he is also standing up for his future wife. For the girl he loves. Hand on heart, which girl here wouldn't want her husband to stand up for her. Isn't that what through thick and thin means? That's what Abhi is doing. He knows sir and he doesn't want his Akshu insulted. Yet, Manjari expects him to respectfully balance that love with Harsh's rudeness and meanness and accept that Harsh is Harsh, apologise and carry on. *slow claps* mate; you have managed to ruin my Abhi's happiness.

2. Harsh uncle is no less. He won't be pacified because he won't introspect. Everything must be about him. So his ego (like my Abhi mentioned) is hurt and he says he is uninviting himself from Abhi's wedding and won't come and Abhi can do whatever he wants. So Abhi must listen to this calmly. Abhi has no feelings? No emotions? He must quietly take all this and just carry on with life because Harsh has full rights to treat Abhi in whichever way, as per Manjari, as per the world because otherwise the world labels my Abhi as rude, arrogant, tantrum thrower, spoiled brat. More than anyone else needing therapy, it is Abhi. Abhi needs to cut off with Harsh. I believe that for someone's peace and mental health, it is important that we cancel people who do not bring us joy or happiness even if those people are our closest family. That is why I understood why, despite loving his mother so much, perhaps as much as Abhi loves Manjari, Rahul in K3G left the Raichands and moved away to another country. Now I understand what Abhi says when he says he is alone. Who is standing up to Harsh for Abhi? Nobody! Not even the one person who should have supported him.

3. Also Harsh won't stop his games will he? He calls Akshu to Birla Hospital and taunts her; gives her an earful. Any girl would be shook if her future father-in-law intimidated her to this extent. Yet, Akshu, ever dignified and composed, takes it all on the chin even though her eyes say she is hurt and almost in tears at the accusations Harsh throws at her. He knows Abhi would never have stood for this and would have protected his love at any cost, always and forever, so he smartly arranges it when Abhi is busy with some patient. I really dislike this man. How this man produced someone like Abhimanyu is beyond me. No wonder Abhi fell for Akshara. She soothes thr storm that his parents cause within him..I know there are people who question the love at first sight but imagine being as restless as Abhi must feel in that place; as turbulent as his mind might be. Imagine being on edge all the time and suddenly someone makes you feel at peace; like an oasis in a dessert; like an oak tree in the blazing sun; like the coldest ice lolly on a hot summer day and like all your restlessness finally found tranquility.

4. So Akshara does what everyone expected, she goes to Abhi to try and explain that he isn't being fair to Harsh uncle. Akshara, you are his peace and tranquility. How I wish you wouldn't do this to him because it is you, he is protecting. The harsh, caustic words that Harsh said to you, those are the words this man is protecting you from. Please don't put him in this position.

5. What angered me was when he told her and rightly so, that she knows nothing about his family. I wanted her to say "toh bolo na Abhi; batao mujhe. Tum bataoge nahin toh main kaise tumhe samjhungi. But nooooooooooo🙄🥺. What do I hear? "Mujhe nahin jaan na". This man went out of his way to understand you and your trauma. He begged chota mendak to tell him and tolerated his tar tar for the real scoop. Yet, you straight off tell him you don't want to know.

Yesterday, I said Anjali in K3G always supported Rahul. Always. She knew he was doing it for her. As much as she loved her motherland, as much as she was upset that they left without Yash's ashirwaad; she knew that for her love he did that. Remember what Yash told Rahul before he married Anjali? That he must respect the Raichand name. That no ordinary mohalle ki ladki can tarnish the Raichand name. That this girl's status and background was not fit for the Raichand family. That this girl, Anjali wouldn't understand their traditions or culture or rituals or ethics or principles. That this girl would adhere to their values. How could Rahul ever think that some girl from Chandni Chowk would be part of the Raichand family and Rahul tells him that he just fell in love. That day how Yash's words must have hurt Rahul. Then he disowned Rahul and took away all rights from him as Nandini even didn't say anything to Yash. Anjali even tried to stop him but Rahul was firm.

So why? Why isn't Akshu supporting my Abhi? Why? Why in 2001 could Anjali support Rahul but in 2022, Akshara can't support Abhi and listen to his story? Why won't the TRP aunties 20 years later let Akshu support Abhi? Why? Why won't motherland sabhyaata and sanskaars let Abhi cancel Harsh? Why? WHY?

Even then I remember dadi and nani telling Rohan that Yash's ego and Rahul's stubbornness broke the family.

6. I understand the fear that Akshara has. I understand she worries that her new family have to bless her new relationship; but at what price? Is she ready to lose Abhi? Does she want him to suffer and to pine for her and a relationship that he wants so badly? Has she ever thought that he must be feeling so alone;, so lonely?

7. Manjari!!!Only if this is a plan Manjari has to separate those two from the Birla family, will I forgive her. She has single handedly ruined my Abhi's happiness. The precap has broken my heart. Abhi has waited for this day for ages. Akshu is waiting for him. Tilak will repeat itself. Akshu will break if he doesn't show and he will die because he can't show up even though he loves her so much. I dislike Manjari for putting him in situation because she knows everything about Harsh and his twisted, stupid ways. I am angry at Akshara for not listening to him and not supporting him. My heart is broken after the precap. My Abhi waited for this day. He wanted this day to come with all his heart. He prayed to Mahadev for every minute of every day for this and Manjari won't let him have it. Nope. I refuse to blame Abhi. Manjari knew she would have him when she said she wouldn't go. She also knew Harsh knew that if he refused to go then she wouldn't go and Abhi wouldn't go. I hope these two are happy I hope they understand how he must feel when the biggest day of his life is here and he will have another action replay of what happened the first time. So much for unconditional parental love. Congratulations naysayers and negative folks, you got what you wished for.

Balaji damaadji fans, i hope you enjoy your show on March 14th.

8. Dr Jalkukdi, I have no sympathy for you. You never loved my Abhi. You just wanted him for your own selfish reasons. I don't care about your stupid crying. You have chota mendak. I have bigger problems.

This isn't my usual happy review. I know. Yet this is it.

Sad face to the maxxxxxxxxx!!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭

Thanks for the review, Sia!!

I just finished watching the episode, shall tell you what I think in the next post!!

Originally posted by: sheet_leher

I have nothing to say about cockroach FD. I read some stuff about how the FD is only divided xD they don't like the show, they either like Ayesha or Neil xD

It's true...its all true.

Basically either you like the FL or you are a pariah.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

People are saying Akshu and Abhi will break up and hate each other.

I m hyperventilating at this thought....

YRKKH is not Balaji...why are they thinking that? They won't go through a whole Gauri Shankar ji ke jaise jodi ban jaye just to hate each other.

Lekin agar Abhi nahin gaya naa💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭

Why the F do people predict Balaji storylines on a DKP show?

The most believable option is that Abhi goes without Harsh and Manjari and then Akshu goes to get them.

Originally posted by: Zenab78

Akshu will convince them or it will be postponed and Abhi will be actually affected this time.. He stood strong everytime but this time he will break and seeing him suffer his parents will agree.

There was an SBS segment where Manjari was hugging Abhi.....couldn't even hear the VO properly.

What about Akshu? Will she also break? Will she understand? Will Goenkas understand?

Will we get a breakdown scene? They have had so many scenes where ML cries and FL comforts in past seasons.

This time because its HC; he is the one the story revolves around. So everything that a FL does I'm other shows, Abhimanyu will do here.

Anyways, will Harsh really agree? Had he agreed, we wouldn't be here. Unless this time Abhi is so sad and so broken and doesn't talk to anyone . If he detaches from Manjari, then isn't that what Harsh wanted anyways.

So, finally finished watching today's episode!!

Hmm, I'm not very disappointed with the precap, was kind of predicting that something like this might happen. Firstly, I kind of felt that something is off, because they're planning for tilak and there are no love filled promos online. Tbh, this is the chance to boost TRPs, they can milk AbhiRa Milan/tilak to the next level, but they're not, which means something is amiss.

Also, they stretched the whole part of getting BP's yes, so how can they wrap up Harsh's issues in one or two episodes. So, yeah, I guess some drama is still left.

And personally, I disliked Akshu's look. They made a mess our of her hair. She looked soooo much better for the first Tilak. Even Abhi had looked wayy more dashing at that time. They need better clothes. This can't be the main tilak, it looks too rukha-sookha.

Now, I'm unable to understand Manjiri. Okay, based on my experience of ITV, a wife always stands by her husband, but a mother..a mother knows nothing beyond her child. She'd always, always support the child and if that means angering her husband, so be it. Isn't that the norm? Am I mistaken?

The way she just gave up on everything and issued an ultimatum to Abhi hurt me. A big part of the reason why the son and father don't have a cordial relationship, is because of the way Harsh treats Abhi's mother. And Abhi fights for her. So, in such a situation, how could she just let Abhi be alone. I get it, if Harsh had been justified, I'd understand. But here, he has some unreasonable anger towards Akshara, so why is Manjiri supporting him?

Harsh belittling Akshara was the worst. What Akshu said was write, what is the reason he hates her so much? She's done absolutely nothing to him except rejecting her son's love (on multiple occasions). And the whole 'you created a rift between me and my son' is absolute bull. The rift was always present, Akshara didn't do anything new. Harsh is one unrealistic human.

I liked Abhi and Akshu's argument. It highlighted a lot of differences that they have, which I hope the writers correct in due time, otherwise this relationship will collapse. Abhi's right, Akshu knows nothing about the past. She knows nothing about why the relationship is sour. And you can't fix something without understanding the depth of the problem. Her demand with respect to his family is a bit extreme. She can't expect them to forget years of anger and just come together for her sake. Also, even if you polish something from the top, the cracks will still be visible. Why does she wanna push them into a superficial truce situation? Today, I felt her arguments were hollow. She's never taken the time to understand the Birla issues, she doesn't know anything about them, and she wants everyone to just play pretend!! Abhi ko kehna ki yeh galat hai, is easy, but Aisa kyun hai ki yeh galati ho rhi hai, usse toh samjho. These fights show how Abhi and Akshu don't know each other properly, yet, and they need time to build their relationship. Otherwise, such things will keep happening.

I also liked Aarohi's sequence. Hated Kairav's dialogues, they made no sense, he was being stupid. But I could understand how everything must look from Aarohi's pov. What the writers could have done, was reflected on how Akshara felt when the roles were reversed, when she was seeing Abhi, who was actually her true love, get married to Aarohi. They could have had this realisation sequence, and it would have given us a glimpse to Aarohi's character's depth, and also, we could have appreciated the sister bond a bit more. Because she'd see what she did wrong and how it feels to be on the other side, and then work towards improving it.

All in all, a good episode but with major loopholes. Hopefully the writers will tackle them next week!!

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Where is everyone? Today, I the ever happy and ever positive one is super pissed and super sad.

Hadn't watched the episode, that's why couldn't comment! Checking the tags noww :')

Why is Manjari making Abhi choose her over Akshu? We know Abhi loves Akshu more than anything in the world but this had better turn into K3G and not into KRPKAB.

If Manjari becomes the selfish Ishwari imma be soooo angry.

Now I want Abhi to distance himself from her; just like Dev distanced himself from Ishwari when Sona left.

It won't actually solve the issues. Also, Akshu's need for family would then separate Abhi from Akshu as well, if he takes such a step.

Abhi will die x 10000 on the inside if he puts Akshu in a situation where she keeps waiting for him. Imagine what Manish Goenka will say if Abhi doesn't show. Imagine how Akshu will react if none of Abhi's parents show.

I just feel so bad. Imagine after all this, tilak is again cancelled..oh god!! These two families are just cursed when it comes to celebrations :/

NOW I get it...now I understand why Abhi feels so alone. He fights for everyone - Neil, Parth Anisha but who is fighting for him? Neil fought for him once but why isn't anyone standing with Abhi now.

I want Mahima and Anand to drill some sense into Harsh and Manjari..

I don't understand this family dynamics. They live in a joint family and yet there's no unity. Everyone is either shouting or just not giving a dam*. What is this? Mahima just scolds Harsh for hounding Manjiri, but noone tries to sort out the issues. Sad state of affairs!!

This cannot happen again. Abhi cannot be back where he started.

@bold : me!!

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Now I actually want Abhi to be the adopted one. I want him to be Harsh's illegitimate son. I don't want him to be Manjari's son.

Also Manjari is NOT Akshu's Naira. She can never ever be. Had Naira been in Manjari's place and Kartik and Manish had acted like this, she would have told all the Goenkas that they were being idiots and stood with Akshu and Abhi.

Kaash Naira hoti. At least as a different actress if Shivi didn't want to play mother. At least we would be spared Dr Jalkukdi who just wants people to stand around and clap for her and now that they are busy with Akshara she is feeling left out. Stupid cow.

I m saddened after the episode and Akshu's inability to see things from Abhi's POV and understand him and support him.

Karte raho family family and lose the love of your life who is protecting you from everything. EVERYTHING. Do people want Abhi to be cockroach hero? Let the heroine stand alone and screeeeeeech at the top of her voice and hero is mute spectator.

Here the hero is fighting all battles.

I m so sad. I m so sad for Abhi. I m sad for what could have been. I m sad for Abhi not getting the one thing he wants so badly.

Doesn't Akshu understand that to build a secure future with Abhi she must understand his past? What is wrong with her?

@bold : This is why I wanted the writers to give Abhi and Akshu some space, and let their relationship grow. This is why I was so disheartened by how they were playing around with the plot and story. I don't wanna go back to that zone, so I'm gonna dissociate myself from everything and watch. But yeah, I knew this would happen. They just rushed through things without giving each other time.