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My theory on majiri Harsh

I think harsh was in love with some ambitious girl ( may be doctor) as mahima wants upper hand in hospital n house she did something and in mazboori harsh married majiri.

Becoz mahima knows majiri from childhood and kept her in control.

As majiri in abusive marriage from 30+ year suddenly she cannot take stand for herself.we will have to give time to her like ak. Any woman after so many years in marriage can't choose bet son n husband.

Even I have grown up brother and often my my mother stuck between father son. Although my father is not abusive but but situation become like that. My brother is grown up has his own point of view that my father didn't like becoz they think as per their generation.

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Yes. Mubarak to us all and Akshu madam as well.😎🥳

She gave us all a lesson today on how to browbeat your future husband, sick grandfather and lemming family into agreeing with you and talking at bullet train speed with the occasional bomb blasts. Wow!🤣

Of course the real atomic blast is still to come in the form of Papa Harsh Birla.

Do you think he would want Akshu to call him daddy? Papa? Sir....or Mr Birla..?😈🤣

The fact half of the bharati are wearing half black is very ominous. And the fact Arohi is wearing all black, yet still participating in the song and dance but without a smile means a double bomb blast is on it's way....

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Can everyone also stop comparing or suggesting Kaisha wedding at the same time as Abhira please?!🤬 I will become like Papa Birla and Abhi and start throwing things!🤬🤢🤣.. As it is I believe our mahaan Akshu will make sue Anisha sits in her mandaap while she and Abhi stand on the sideline, throw petals on them and it will go on for hours. Then Abhira marriage will happen in 3 minutes. RS has done this before to his leads and will do it again.😵

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Can anybody explain sacrifice kahan hua????? Akshara is getting married to Abhi finally.. Akshara left her bade papa and ran to Abhi in the police station ending in bp heart attack..

I understand situations were all messy and complicated and hence the decisions and the consequences too.. But at the end of the day.. Akshara got what she wanted. Abhi got what he wanted.. And Arohi was left betrayed maybe due to her wrong intentions.. and her Bade papa with heart attack.. So nobody sacrificed here anything as such.. Not even Abhimanyu with his one episode long thandav and two pages pledge.. He didnt sacrifice his family nor his mom or anything as such...

There is no sacrifice anywhere in this show that i can see...😡😈

to me, Akshara did sacrifice her life of 3 years by staying away from her loved ones for Aarohi.

For Abhi, yes she did sacrifice her love for time being because of Aarohi again. It is because she got him back, we can say it wasn't sacrifice. I want to add that she is ready again to sacrifice her love for both families..Didn't say she did

Originally posted by: Iforum435

Sacrifice nahi huva because destiny intervened. What if abhi had not gotten the fire incident camp photo?? Otherwise Ak was on the path to let go of abhi na. But Mahadev or makers ne bacha liya.😆

Arey fire photo nahi bhi mili hoti to Abhi bhaag jata ...per Aarohi se shaadi nahi karta 😆

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Fine did she say i love you but cant marry since my sister too likes you and most important she is waiting as bride in the mandap.. She confessed and went ahead easily with her marriage plans.. no way did she think of Arohi there.. If all along she had rejected Abhis proposal for arohi.. She could have just told the truth.. rejected him telling the reason .instead of leaving the family in humiliation and left arohi heartbroken and betrayed if she genuinely wanted to sacrifice for her family and sister..

yaar she did say we need to talk to Aarohi first. She called but madam phone nahi uthayi.

Plus Manjari mata ko pata tha phir bhi barat jane di..so public humiliation could have been stopped by Mataji, why blame akshu.

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

to me, Akshara did sacrifice her life of 3 years by staying away from her loved ones for Aarohi.

For Abhi, yes she did sacrifice her love for time being because of Aarohi again. It is because she got him back, we can say it wasn't sacrifice. I want to add that she is ready again to sacrifice her love for both families..Didn't say she did

I can call it sacrifice only if the deed is done effectively, not half way. I do agree, she stayed away from home for Arohi.. But for one person she hurt the whole family members and their sentiments.. What sort of deed or sacrifice is that which have resulted in the entire family being hurt.???She considered just one person, that too she did due to her promise and guilt baggage.. Isnt that being selfish when you are not considering the emotions of all the people around you..

Secondly how fair is it to sacrifice in this manner?? Tomorrow some family members has some issues with our boyfriend or husband or in laws, or vice versa..so would we again sacrifice all of them and come back and sit at home for their happiness??? Sorry I dont believe in such love or such sacrifices.. We are betraying most of the people around us with such tendency.

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

yaar she did say we need to talk to Aarohi first. She called but madam phone nahi uthayi.

Plus Manjari mata ko pata tha phir bhi barat jane di..so public humiliation could have been stopped by Mataji, why blame akshu.

See we need to see and judge the characters unbiased. The root cause of the whole fiasco was Manjeris misunderstanding and Aksharas mute nature.. Arohi wouldnt have into picture if Akshara had opened her mouth..but she preferred to sacrifice her love for her sister without considering Abhis feelings nor conveying the proper reasons for her rejection and on top giving him mixed signals... When she had decided to sacrifice her love to Arohi,, its unnecessary to think what Arohi intentions are or what she does or how she feels about it..You cant have a say to the person what they do or dont or how they handle it after you have presented the gift to them.. When the gift was in your hands, the decision is in your hands, and hence can choose whatever you want to do.. but once gifted, right or ownership over it and thereby to take decision too has been transferred.. Now you cannot come and snatch it back saying that this gift is mine in the first place...Thats not done.. And this is what exactly Akshara did to Arohi.. Arohis intentions or her deeds is entirely another topic of discussion which if started will never end.. So lets not go there..

Im using gift here since thats exactly what Akshara did to Abhi.. without considering his selfless love or his emotions and his sufferings, nicely gift wrapped him and delivered him to Arohi.. It was Abhi who was not ready to be delivered completely..

First and foremost sacrificing her love was wrong and cruel to both her herself, her lover and her sister as well. She was trying to destroy 3 lives with this deed.. What was the use of this sacrifice if at all Abhi had married Arohi.. Abhi would have suffered, directly making Arohi too suffer and unhappy.. Akshara too the same... Here all the three of them were equally wrong, Akshara being mute and sacrificing her love to Arohi, Abhi proposing Arohi and Arohi for her selfish career oriented motives.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Actually shivji is like that. He loved parvati maa that way. There is no self-respect or ego only bending down..parvati too loves him more along with family. But when it comes on shivji she shows everyone her love. They showed mythology connects in Abhis and Ak character that way. So we are fine with it.

meaning? will she put her fam above him ?

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

I can call it sacrifice only if the deed is done effectively, not half way. I do agree, she stayed away from home for Arohi.. But for one person she hurt the whole family members and their sentiments.. What sort of deed or sacrifice is that which have resulted in the entire family being hurt.???She considered just one person, that too she did due to her promise and guilt baggage.. Isnt that being selfish when you are not considering the emotions of all the people around you..

Secondly how fair is it to sacrifice in this manner?? Tomorrow some family members has some issues with our boyfriend or husband or in laws, or vice versa..so would we again sacrifice all of them and come back and sit at home for their happiness??? Sorry I dont believe in such love or such sacrifices.. We are betraying most of the people around us with such tendency.

Sacrifice is personal. One cannot measure the sacrifice was proper or not based on all around us and will it be fruitful or not. Then it will never be 100% effective. There are always deep emotions and feelings leading us to sacrifice. Sacrifice in not intellectual. If something is done with pure feelings and pure intentions to give other, especially one who needs the most is considered fruitful. Here Aarohi was in different wave length and needed the most (as per Akshu).

We all are very unique and never be on same wave length in terms of perspective of seeing life and the needs ..if we are in same wave length, then there is no need to sacrifice. In most families, there is always one or two dominant person that creates disturbances.

Sacrifice is you let go of precious thing which you were yearning for badly. Akshu went through that pain for 3 years..so yes it has significance. I cannot rub it and say because it didn't bring fruits to others, so it's not.

Akshara staying away for 3 years did bring peace in GV. She knew if she stays Aarohi will make it peaceless every day.

Originally posted by: spshastr

meaning? will she put her fam above him ?