Shaleen - Kaveri {KarMi} •AT #11• |Tum ho saath mere ✨❤️| - Page 123

Originally posted by: Not_James_bond

She does put his duty before everything.

See main yaahi kahungi , I don't know ki if you know any army wives but saach yaahi hain even after years of having a spouse in the army jo behaviour monu ka tha woh unka bhi same hota hain har kisi ka.

Huma movies main ek bohot hi firm sacrificing image dikhaya jaata hain par reality is very different. 24/7 insaan mature nahi hota kabhie na kabhie frustration, urge, need of a partner over takes jo bohot normal hain. I don't view this as immaturity as I've seen army life closely and know how they are.

What monu did today was not weird for me as I've seen it alot. Yes if you haven't seen their lives closely you'd feel ki they should be mature and know that their partner is a soilder above all but kabhie na kabhie aisa cheezo pai fights hoti hain, insecurities come in, you are worried about a secure life . I am actually happy ki they are doing a realistic representation of how a army couple is.❤️❤️❤️

Very true. Real life me bhi ye baat hoti hai... Specially external forces play a key factor. Like jaise monami ne kaha that they shouldn't let any outsider in between their relationship, reality is far away from it. Human mind tends to think, analyse and react. And when it thinks more, it has different ideas and not all of them are positive.

The show is trying it's best to show us the most realistic thing. Atleast as much as the itv audience allows them too.

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

Karan isn't as free with anyone. He's not an open book with anyone, like Monami is. He is very reserved even with the people he is closest with.

Faizi tha toh aur bhi awkward ho hi jayega. Isse toh akele mein yeh baat karti tab bhi awkward ho jaata. Yahan toh Faizi bhi reaction channels ki tarah reaction de raha tha.

Aur girlfriend ka toh kya hi kehna?

Right. Karan ko maine itna free kabhi nhi dekha... I mean vo kaafi had tak faizi ke saath baat karta hai... But that's different. Apni bhabhi ko vo more like apni responsibility maanta hai.. He respects her very much. Baaki sanju ke saath dosti to hai but like faizi, vo uske saath apni problem share nhi karta ulta usko leke protective hai... Baby bhi bachi hi hai... So bachi monami whom he is slowly letting in. Uski sunta bhi hai and apni sunata bhi hai... So it's different with her.

Originally posted by: Krishnaa_22

Very true. Real life me bhi ye baat hoti hai... Specially external forces play a key factor. Like jaise monami ne kaha that they shouldn't let any outsider in between their relationship, reality is far away from it. Human mind tends to think, analyse and react. And when it thinks more, it has different ideas and not all of them are positive.

The show is trying it's best to show us the most realistic thing. Atleast as much as the itv audience allows them too.

Exactly! Har insaan mature nahi hota. Some people aren't mature even in their 80s.

Monami is shown to be an innocent, emotional, heart over brain person toh obviously, Karan's absence would affect her. What WOULD have been irritating is ki agar Karan se wo yeh demand karti ki wo apne mission se upar use rakhe.

People tend to forget ki army people and their family are humans too, and while yes, they do accept and support their emotions for their duty, wo bhi apni family ko miss karte hain and it's human to be frustrated. To expect a "perfect" response is unrealistic.

Originally posted by: Krishnaa_22

Right. Karan ko maine itna free kabhi nhi dekha... I mean vo kaafi had tak faizi ke saath baat karta hai... But that's different. Apni bhabhi ko vo more like apni responsibility maanta hai.. He respects her very much. Baaki sanju ke saath dosti to hai but like faizi, vo uske saath apni problem share nhi karta ulta usko leke protective hai... Baby bhi bachi hi hai... So bachi monami whom he is slowly letting in. Uski sunta bhi hai and apni sunata bhi hai... So it's different with her.

It's not in his nature to bako everything he is feeling. Haan, shayad koi cheez use bother kare toh wo bolega- Faizi ko, Monami ko- par waise he pauses and thinks about what he is saying.

Ek baar Karan ne kaha tha- 'Tum bolne se pehle sochti ho? Kyunki mujhe aisa lagta hai ki tum bolne ke baad bhi nahi sochti ho.'
That's exactly like Monami with the people she is comfortable with. Wo itna sochti hi nahi hai. Karan, on the other hand, even when comfortable, measures his words and doesn't say unnecessary things.

Okay, tamam gavaaho aur facts ko madde nazar rakhte hue, I take my words back, monu annoying nahi thi, she is being realistic, happy? 😂

Wese ek baat hai, pehle monu ke dream sweet aur innocent hote the, fir Karan ko realize hone ke baad uske dreams thode aage nikle aur ab sangat ka aur pyar ka dono ka asar monu pe ho raha hai, uske dreams aur aage nikalte dikhai de rahe hai, par kal jo 'wo wo' karan samjh raha tha, usse lag raha hai ki uske dreams aur aage niklenge 😂

Yeh aapas mei hi competition kar rahe hai kya 😂

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

Exactly! Har insaan mature nahi hota. Some people aren't mature even in their 80s.

Monami is shown to be an innocent, emotional, heart over brain person toh obviously, Karan's absence would affect her. What WOULD have been irritating is ki agar Karan se wo yeh demand karti ki wo apne mission se upar use rakhe.

People tend to forget ki army people and their family are humans too, and while yes, they do accept and support their emotions for their duty, wo bhi apni family ko miss karte hain and it's human to be frustrated. To expect a "perfect" response is unrealistic.

Exactly. I myself have seen my family. It's not easy to even live knowing my brother is out there doing god knows what. I have my cousins in defence system. My mother's side family is totally into it. The worst part is when they aren't home on special occasions too. Like it's been three years I have had last seen my cousin. And it's harder for his parents.

Originally posted by: iAmSphere

Okay, tamam gavaaho aur facts ko madde nazar rakhte hue, I take my words back, monu annoying nahi thi, she is being realistic, happy? 😂

Wese ek baat hai, pehle monu ke dream sweet aur innocent hote the, fir Karan ko realize hone ke baad uske dreams thode aage nikle aur ab sangat ka aur pyar ka dono ka asar monu pe ho raha hai, uske dreams aur aage nikalte dikhai de rahe hai, par kal jo 'wo wo' karan samjh raha tha, usse lag raha hai ki uske dreams aur aage niklenge 😂

Yeh aapas mei hi competition kar rahe hai kya 😂

Karan ke to pehle dream ne hi sabki wicket gira di thi. Banda ekdam sidhi baat aur kaam dono karta hai. 😂😂

Mujhe bhi lagta hai competition hi hai... But guess what, karan ke dreams aise hai... Monami reality me sab kar rahi hai... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: iAmSphere

Okay, tamam gavaaho aur facts ko madde nazar rakhte hue, I take my words back, monu annoying nahi thi, she is being realistic, happy? 😂

Wese ek baat hai, pehle monu ke dream sweet aur innocent hote the, fir Karan ko realize hone ke baad uske dreams thode aage nikle aur ab sangat ka aur pyar ka dono ka asar monu pe ho raha hai, uske dreams aur aage nikalte dikhai de rahe hai, par kal jo 'wo wo' karan samjh raha tha, usse lag raha hai ki uske dreams aur aage niklenge 😂

Yeh aapas mei hi competition kar rahe hai kya 😂

Agar kabhi in dono ko pata chal gaya ki yeh ek doosre ke baare mein kya dreams sochte hain toh phir kya hoga...? 😆

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

Agar kabhi in dono ko pata chal gaya ki yeh ek doosre ke baare mein kya dreams sochte hain toh phir kya hoga...? 😆

What do you think twin? Kya hoga... Tum khudko ideas de rhi ho likhne ko...😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Krishnaa_22

What do you think twin? Kya hoga... Tum khudko ideas de rhi ho likhne ko...😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

Dreams ke baare mein zyaada toh nahi likh paoongi, probably. I can't see either of them admitting wo ek doosre ke baare mein kya dream karte hain. Yahan tak shayad kar le ki wo dream karte hain par kya? Karan toh katayi naa batayega.