Aryan-Imlie/ AryLie Discussion Thread 31 DT NT Pg 116 - Page 42

Originally posted by: libran90

God so appalling it was with Rupi. And I thought of all people, this lady will actually show some spine. But nahi. You can see an abuser in Pranav, but cannot see that your loser brother is doing the same thing.😡

What crap are they trying to show when Aditya says agar ye rishta khatm ho gaya hai to tumhare aankhon me aansoo na hote jaise humare aankhon me hai

Bhai, chhaan ke aankho ka nalka, aansun to zara bhi nahi chalka🤣And I am supposed to believe that he is repenting. Behen dikhta to hai nahi mujhko😆 And then he does blatant khilwaad of Imlie's emotions, her pain. Only Imlie and Aryan know what hell that night brought on her when he handed the divorce papers.

On the surface it looks like Imlie still feels for Aditya, but no, Imlie is actually looking for an avenue to escape and cannot figure. Usually she would have leapt at the opportunity to go back to Aditya, but here she is feeling something is wrong, and that in my opinion is progress.

I agree with you! Pehle, when Adi was in his 'Oh poor me' phase, he was openly bitter to Imlie..and it was easier for her to steer clear of him. Sad, but she was on the receiving end. She has been hearing taunts all her life. She has gotten used to it. But now, it is weighing down on her..didn't mean the breakup..I mean, just everything. Her state now..reminds me of that mirchi kaand ..that time she had taken a vow, but when it came to it, she was lost. Similarly, she took a vow now too..but she seems lost here too. As much as I appreciate Aryan being a pillar for her, she needs a softer touch. Oh, how I wish SK was now with her. SK tapkofying at the T house could have been easily edited out..and it wouldn't have made a difference 🤷‍♀️ Now, Adi is...in her face. Desperately seeking attention. Till now, Imlie has come to terms with "our relationship has fallen apart". I don't think she has processed the "Do I forgive him/ Do I want to get back with him" . Easier when it is 'out of sight, out of mind'

Originally posted by: komald718

And right before that, his dialogue was, agar humare beech mein kuch nahi hota toh tum yaha se chali jaati, ahhhhh, can we just hit him...

Why is she supposed to go? Why is it that her staying implies that she is here for him?

Aur kaha se chali jaati, teri zindagi se woh jaa chuki hai.

Bhaskar Times se chali jaaye, pagal hai kya woh, joh ek naaspeete ki wajah se apni achi khaasi job chod de?

I am so angry at this guy, it's not even funny anymore.

Bold — He said that? Matlab hadd hain!

Bhool gaya ke Aryan uska boyfriend hain? She's in her boyfriend's office, boyfriend's house, and he's a good-looking, rich, successful, guy. 😎 Why should she leave him and go anywhere at all?! If only Imlie opened her mouth and gave him back basing it all on that one accusation. 🤣

Seriously Saanjh and Komal, itna pathetic banta ja raha hai, ab to aur bhi girega. Bhootnike tu ja na, apne 10 saal ka experience pichwade me ghusa ke patli gali pakad😡His attempts are so disrespectful itself. Ugh. I have no words.

Amy, I seriously can see how she is distraught, and burdened and no one should actually feel that. At 19 that too. I think that fear of loss can actually bring the strength out from within Imlie. Seeing Aryan injured and having no clue about Arpita's whereabouts could actually scare her. She was mortified by the way Aryan was driving madly to reach Arpita. And of all people she knows how that feels. Aditya's irresponsible and haphazard approach to everything will drive her up the wall. Iss baar mujhko lagta hai Aditya ki lanka lagayegi Imlie. Ye toofan uske rone dhone pe brake maar dega.

Originally posted by: libran90

So, I did not comment anything about Imlie's behavior around Aditya because I felt really sorry for her. Her emotions are being used against her, and the poor girl is not even being allowed to process it🤔. What Aditya is doing is actually abusing her mentally and emotionally. Had there been any law for this, the guy would be jailed for sure😡. He is so damn sick. I mean woh puchu puchu wali phuto log tab dete hai, jab kaha suni hoti hai; publicly humiliate karke, uske character, background, aur socio-economic conditions pe usko malign karne ke baad nahi diya jaata.

He is a narcissistic sociopath, who always makes people turn to their worst instincts, be it Malini, Aryan, or even Imlie. I guess that is the reason Aryan finds the man so distasteful. Because he creates situations that jeopardize a person's life.

Sigh! I had decided to keep my peace. But.... Alas!

All my statements that discuss Tripathi clan or Chaturvedi clan are forever meant to be sarcastic or trolling. Disclaimer for what it's worth.

I have refrained from DT today because...well whatever, I hate walking on eggshells be. I need to find @blue and @komaliya's posts to read them at some point.

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Why oh why did she not just coolly, meet his eyes and just drop it in a trash can!! Because that is where that kaan pakadke sorry mangana sentiment belongs IMHO.

And then when he actually had the audacity to ask HER for a birthday gift........accha maanga toh maanga, what's the birthday gift, not just forgiveness but remarriage???? Kharach??

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Upar se saat janmon ka saath, yada yada. Yeh sab kahaan gaya tha be, when you goaded her into signing those divorce papers? Tab tereku saat janam nahi yaad aaye kya? Tune toh 14 janam ki setting kar li hai ki nai? Idhar Malini ke saath udhar Imlie ke saath. O rao! teri current patni is carrying your child, just because you turned her out does not mean you are divorced. Imlie hamari bacchi hai, sentimental hai, jaanta hai isiliye.....she probably does not even think for a moment that divorces in India take longer than 2 days to go through, issiliye emotions pe khel raha hai uske. Aise behavior ko na, idhar real life mein ekdum bejhijhak predatory kehte hain!!

I wish, we had had Imlie's internal monologue that gave us a better insight into her thinking as he was making such preposterous proposals. Gaslighting, WHOA.

Textbook ka chapter likh lo gaslighting ke examples leke iss show se.

That whole scene was harassment! Workplace, gender based harassment. I mean, really? Aparnaben I feel sorry for you. If I was his mother, I would want to hide under a rock someplace. Cuz guess what? Even though each human being is responsible for their own karma, the world always blames the mom. I am a mom to a little man and if mine did something like that when he grows older and treats a woman/man like that, chappal uthake maarungi, no matter his age or mine. My personal values be, no need to get any panties in a wad.

I understand show fictional hai, lekin audience ki soch to real hi hai. That baffles me. Aaj ka vishleshan samapt.

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Guys....wats up....return from work...... Haven’t seen the episode and today there is no WU on the forum....is the episode watch Worthy... What happened?... I have read a few comments.....Guys I got a job in bank applied it on December and given exm......I dont know I will join in the bank or do my job at court.....when I graduated I dont had any job so doing internship now I am confused that what I will do or not?

I don't want to speak about all things wrong with Aditya in today's episode. He was being a typical abusive husband and I want it to be noted that abuse is not just physical. It can be emotional and mental.

I think they're wantedly doing that to him because when she has to make a choice tomorrow, it'll be easier. (Wishful thinking I tell ya) But I kinda hate that her life is once again being limited to revolve around men.

I want to see her free of headaches and number 1 would be AKT at this point. I wanted to burn that card on table. He didn't miss an anniversary for such a silly one. He accused her of vile things and I hope someone shows him the mirror

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/160491782

Link for written update 🙂🤗

Thank you so much for tagging my post Ahlaam and Sundari. Really appreciate it.
The best time he said it was in Pd in the hut. That was one amazing sequence. this one just gives me goose bumps like SRKs ‘aur pass’. Can’t wait for when he changes his tune and says something else but with such intensity.
Ahlaam I am also waiting for the day he asks her to call him Aryan or something else endearing.
😘😘😘 thanks again for tagging.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

The marriage is going to be so tough on Imli,( I am moving more towards this being her idea too now, and isn’t this a big twist for Gul’s show - a first one for her , it’s the girl that wants to go ahead with this ! 😂)

But how much do you want to bet it’s going to upset ASR even more so ? That after he is aware all that she has said and has undergone ?

He is so not going to impose anything on her even after marriage yet give all the rights that a husband does . Imli has to be the one changing the gears in their relationship, show him outwardly signs post wedding too , if her feelings change and she wants to check his stand on this …. because I don’t see this dude reacting to his feelings of love towards her purposefully , if he accepts them to himself in words that would be a big deal!!!

ABOVE -- THIS IS SO SO TRUE. 👏👏 Let the girl break his shackles and set him really free!! How liberating is that to even think :)

lovely article Rani, even though Anupamaa's Anuj has been degraded to just a lover boy now!!

LOL i know i'm gonna talk about that in my piece, though i hope once anu says yes they both go and take down vanraj (ty for reading!)

Originally posted by: mltr16

Sigh! I had decided to keep my peace. But.... Alas!

All my statements that discuss Tripathi clan or Chaturvedi clan are forever meant to be sarcastic or trolling. Disclaimer for what it's worth.

I have refrained from DT today because...well whatever, I hate walking on eggshells be. I need to find @blue and @komaliya's posts to read them at some point.

But THIS!! @bold: this is what I do not understand when I see the twitter trend. Is this what we have come to, that a certain section of women do not even understand what emotional/verbal/psychological abuse is? I legit gagged when I saw that photo flip whatever it was and when she picked it up... I was like TRASH CAN aana re koni tari!! Ae, aan re!

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Why oh why did she not just coolly, meet his eyes and just drop it in a trash can!! Because that is where that kaan pakadke sorry mangana sentiment belongs IMHO.

And then when he actually had the audacity to ask HER for a birthday gift........accha maanga toh maanga, what's the birthday gift, not just forgiveness but remarriage???? Kharach??

https://tenor.com/bKSkA.gif

Upar se saat janmon ka saath, yada yada. Yeh sab kahaan gaya tha be, when you goaded her into signing those divorce papers? Tab tereku saat janam nahi yaad aaye kya? Tune toh 14 janam ki setting kar li hai ki nai? Idhar Malini ke saath udhar Imlie ke saath. O rao! teri current patni is carrying your child, just because you turned her out does not mean you are divorced. Imlie hamari bacchi hai, sentimental hai, jaanta hai isiliye.....she probably does not even think for a moment that divorces in India take longer than 2 days to go through, issiliye emotions pe khel raha hai uske. Aise behavior ko na, idhar real life mein ekdum bejhijhak predatory kehte hain!!

I wish, we had had Imlie's internal monologue that gave us a better insight into her thinking as he was making such preposterous proposals. Gaslighting, WHOA.

Textbook ka chapter likh lo gaslighting ke examples leke iss show se.

That whole scene was harassment! Workplace, gender based harassment. I mean, really? Aparnaben I feel sorry for you. If I was his mother, I would want to hide under a rock someplace. Cuz guess what? Even though each human being is responsible for their own karma, the world always blames the mom. I am a mom to a little man and if mine did something like that when he grows older and treats a woman/man like that, chappal uthake maarungi, no matter his age or mine. My personal values be, no need to get any panties in a wad.

I understand show fictional hai, lekin audience ki soch to real hi hai. That baffles me. Aaj ka vishleshan samapt.

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Bhai, that makes me think ki iske 14 phere toh Malini ke saath bhi pade hain. Toh 14 janmon Tak bigamist hi rahega?