Herman's Happy Herb Hawkers CC#4 **Invited members ONLY** - Page 93

Originally posted by: Intoxicator

Sorry Visions, yaar - we shouldn't get on your case so much... if it's an arranged marriage, then probably you are not being given a lot of say and neither is your lady. On the plus side, arranged marriages tend to have higher success rates than love marriages if both people are committed to making it work.

Just say the word and we, your forum buddies, will celebrate dhoom dhaam se when the happy occasion takes place - and hey,

I always wanted an arranged marriage. Ye love marriage mere bas ke bahar hai, mere gahr me chalegi bhi nahi.

Bold - that's so sweet of you.

Originally posted by: ViSions

Na karu kya, bhag jata hu, kya bolti hai janta??

Kar lo kar lo, aakhir ek experience hai, and like someone says life is all about experiencing new things😂

I read somewhere that Kris Jenner ka husband aik woman hai

This and this (bold). I see what my parents do for me and my sibling and honestly I can't imagine taking on something of that magnitude... But one of my instructors (who brings her baby with her to teach, which I think is cool) once said to me that she didn't ever want to get married or have a baby till she met her husband and then decided she specifically wanted to have a baby with HIM. So maybe it's about meeting the right person - I kind of hope it is, but I'm just ambivalent and cynical about the whole thing...

Originally posted by: sidnilove

I love babies and when I was in my mujhe shaadi karni hai phase, I thought I can take care of them because they're super cute..usse aage socha hi nahi.

But now when I have a lot of time on hand and I don't have my rose tinted glasses on..I've realized that I know nothing about raising kids. I can hardly take care of myself..main kya bacche ko sambhalungi.

And it's so scary that life could have taken me in another direction and I would have been married and had a kid by now. 2 decisions that I now know that I definitely would have regretted. I can end the marriage but my poor imaginary kid would have been a lifetime responsibility..

I don't think people really think through these things. Everybody is not meant to be a parent. I would rather not be a parent than be a bad parent.

Originally posted by: SnowWhite_97

But boys ko Sundays ko holiday hota hai 😑 But girls ko aik din ky liye bhi holiday nahi hai😔

Yaar aap bacche ho abhi bhi🙂 apne husband se bolo kuch kaam kiya kare, sunday raja ki tarah sone ke liye nahi hota

Yep - Bruce Jenner (now Kaitlyn Jenner). He was a Olympic athlete too.

Originally posted by: SnowWhite_97

I read somewhere that Kris Jenner ka husband aik woman hai

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Or even die alone happily at an old age. No worries about children's education and old age. Can travel all around the world with all that savings. And even have savings to get admitted into a really nice old age care. Then won't have to expect anything from children or be disappointed when they abandon you in your old age. 😆

Totally true. If this is someone's choice then cool. What I don't agree with is that marriage or no marriage, it's a personal choice.It shouldn't be negated wholly just as it shouldn't be advocated as the only thing.. And it's an inaccurate conclusion that those who choose marriage in only because of social conditioning of a patriarchal society..

I don't know much about this, but there are some traditionally matriarchal societies too, like the Malays.. What's marriage to them?