Herman's Happy Herb Hawkers CC#4 **Invited members ONLY** - Page 92

Originally posted by: ViSions

Bro ek age ke baad life me enjoy karne ke liye kuch nahi hota, Chalti rahe yahi bohot hai, ladka ho ya ladki sab majboor hain sab par zimmedari hai..

Zindagi se ummeed thodi kam rakhna hi behtar hai

This seems so idyllic!

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Or even die alone happily at an old age. No worries about children's education and old age. Can travel all around the world with all that savings. And even have savings to get admitted into a really nice old age care. Then won't have to expect anything from children or be disappointed when they abandon you in your old age. 😆

Originally posted by: Intoxicator

Sorry Visions, yaar - we shouldn't get on your case so much... if it's an arranged marriage, then probably you are not being given a lot of say and neither is your lady. On the plus side, arranged marriages tend to have higher success rates than love marriages if both people are committed to making it work.

Just say the word and we, your forum buddies, will celebrate dhoom dhaam se when the happy occasion takes place - and hey, we'll even add her to the chat club!

Hahaha. Yes. We will celebrate. 😆

Is it going to be a destination wedding? How many days do wedding happen at your place? @visions

That's terrible, Snow😒

Originally posted by: SnowWhite_97

But boys ko Sundays ko holiday hota hai 😑 But girls ko aik din ky liye bhi holiday nahi hai😔

Originally posted by: Intoxicator

This seems so idyllic!

I know. 😂

Originally posted by: ViSions

Husband se bolo husband ban ke rahe baap na bane.. Nalayak permission denge

Originally posted by: Intoxicator

That's terrible, Snow😒

I love babies and when I was in my mujhe shaadi karni hai phase, I thought I can take care of them because they're super cute..usse aage socha hi nahi.

But now when I have a lot of time on hand and I don't have my rose tinted glasses on..I've realized that I know nothing about raising kids. I can hardly take care of myself..main kya bacche ko sambhalungi.

And it's so scary that life could have taken me in another direction and I would have been married and had a kid by now. 2 decisions that I now know that I definitely would have regretted. I can end the marriage but my poor imaginary kid would have been a lifetime responsibility..

I don't think people really think through these things. Everybody is not meant to be a parent. I would rather not be a parent than be a bad parent.

Originally posted by: Intoxicator

This is an arranged marriage? Do you think the future Mrs. Visions is also having such thoughts?

Yes bhag jao - it could be a win-win scenario! 🤣