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Looks like the Dampati Snan Shivaratri ritual as described by our Doc is actually happening in the show!!
Read the first comment under the tweet đ¤Ł
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Dampati Snan Means what? Couple taking a shower together or my dirty brain translated it wrong?đ¤Ł
Originally posted by: SummerBorn
Dampati Snan Means what? Couple taking a shower together or my dirty brain translated it wrong?đ¤Ł
ruk.. I need to find the posts in edt, I will edit this with the linksâŚ.
Edit:
Also I donât know if it will actually be that⌠coz for that the Panditji should come and tell all the stuff and they should also be having Nandini and akkiâs mom around⌠they donât seem to be there đ¤ˇââď¸
Also this is itv⌠anything can happen⌠this can go 180 against our assumptions đ¤Ł
Below are the posts in edt regarding that Pooja⌠but these are local customs ⌠I highly doubt that they will be shown in the showđ but if they do show
Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid
they make tandai? Reg wala ya Phir bhang wala?For Shivratri?đ¤ I didnât knowâŚ
As I know many of us actually celebrate it⌠but it is usually fasting and prayers⌠many people do Jagran all night in shiv temples with pujas and abhisheks and Homas and all, and many do jagaran at home too.. until dawn the next day and have light Tiffin and reset for the next day ..
but there is no communal tham jam as such, may be people visit temples and offer prayers and get back homeâŚ
unless something is planned for the family specially, this happens in some families where for a long time proper dampati Pooja didnât happen in the family for long, the newly or recently wed couple doesnât matter son/daughter usually sit for the Homa and Pooja reiterating that the marriage will make the family stronger , and that the marriage will result in development of both sides of the coupleâŚ
So,maybe in this case, both soods and kapoors family situations considered, they wouldnât have done the dampati poojas for a whileâŚ
so on shivrathri⌠both the couples raya and shikki doing the said Pooja seems plausibleâŚ
Also, if it is dampati pooja, early morning ,the couple have to take dip in natural pooled water together or at home with single balti with blessings of Ganga maa and help each other in showering together , called dampati snana!
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After which they do wear good new clothes presented to them by eoâs families, if not available, they can also wear their wedding saree and dhoti with upper cloths or in the evening aarti
Here Nandini and Meera and akkiâs mother and ramâs mami and sister in lawâs (in this case pri and shivi will be doing the rasam together) have to help these couples by applying little turmeric on face and oil on their headsâŚ
Imagine shiviâs antics with akkiâs leg pulling and ramâs goofing off and priâs steadfastly rasam puri karo attitude with awkwardness and tension as undercurrent
while Nandu and mami burning or doing some bakbaking
this entire sequence can be soooooo endearing if actually depicted true to culture⌠it is like offering gratitude to ancestors and taking personal responsibility of both sides of families by the couple, praying for strength to do so
But again, these are our local customs ⌠I donât know what the punjabiâs do. If anybody knows ⌠let us knowâŚ
I am okay with any celebration⌠just for once make it purposeful and poignant moving forward even with dramaâŚbut, donât do jalebis, dear cvs! đ
Is there someway this can be sent to cvâs and they can write these scenes?đ
Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid
rituals are not mandatory⌠more like getting people together and make them do something of reflective significanceâŚinstead of unnecessarily engaging in ainvayi baatein
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we are from hyd though
But this particular puja, I kinda have some idea as it happened in a close relativeâs house⌠they had to do dampati pooja and it started with dampati snan in front of probably 50 people đđ¤Ş
âŚ.. literally with in a week after their arranged wedding⌠the couple were literally tomatoes by the time they sat on the Pooja seatsâŚ
so much leg pulling happens during that time,
they can wear their wedding clothes for the evening aarti and they have to help eo wearing it⌠by this time, they became ketchups ,
and uper se they were fasting and have to feed eo at dawnâŚ.
Every one enjoyed their jagran at the expense of this poor couple who couldnât even talk properly
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Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid
yeh.. very common before dampati pooja, they actually help eo draw baths and pray and shower or take a holy dip together if in river or ghat or somethingâŚ, older couples donât do any halla machao about itâs a ritualistic practice⌠đ¤ˇââď¸, we see this many times also during river ghat baths nah? It is just a dipâŚ
but the newly weds, they will have definitely, female relatives who are mother like and sister like and aunt like, and the ritual goes smoothly, privately and simply⌠and they bless them and move on.
but sometimes priests and friends and relatives around.., like a proper rasam⌠if they arenât comfortable with each other⌠they are bound to become tomatoesâŚ
in Rameswaram and also some temple in Thrissur are actually famous for them ⌠I exactly donât know much about themâŚ
Okay so tomato part had me roooooooollling like thiissssđ¤Łđ¤Łđ¤Ł
Haye Ram Priya being tamatari laal would be such a cute sight
But dampati snan being a ritual means no chance of hanky lanky whatsoever, especially not if itâs in front of 50 people⌠akele hote toh kya pata Ram mauke pe chauka maarne ka try kar bhi leta⌠but if sabke saamne hona hoga toh Kuch Nahi ni hona!đ¤Ł
Yaar let them have dampati snan thoda akele mein⌠given that this scene mein Priya is lovingly holding his hand out⌠maybe Aisa Kuch Ho bhi jaye⌠but yaaaar give them some space and give Ram some himmat to make some move⌠thoda Kuch hi kar par ab Kuch kar le mere bhai bahut hui 50 shades wali delayed gratificationđ¤Ł
Good people, I donât know if the authors read our forum, but they are obliged to give us a bringing together bath, then Vedu and Nanduâs plans will begin to deteriorate and fall off on their own, the lizardâs tail will help them, for example, how to fall off beautifully)
I am sure this is related to rain coupon,
arey, .... Even if there are people around them, There will be oil on their hand, feet and legs, they have help eo and they will be constantly slipping coz of modern floors and clean the turmeric ... On faces, hands.. hair... They won't get another chance to bath againđ¤Ł.. seeda should go to change of clothes in privacy, sure.. but again there are your cousin s hauling and whistling outside.... It can be extremely embarrassing if it crosses a line... But if people are polite but have kurafati sense of humor... The ritual will be balling as ice breaker for the couple, even if they are shy... By the end, they're gonna laugh at themselves too
Deedee, your story makes me laugh and embarrassed at the same time) For the sake of such fun things that bring together, itâs worth getting married)